yesterday me and gf were at our friends new years eve party...after i arrive she arrives about 1 hour and ahalf later...the second she walks in i can tell something is wrong. we exchange gifts and i give her a kiss, and then after that we all went downstairs to chill...but then i sit on the couch and she sits on the other side..we were down there for about 1 hour and in that hour she didnt talk to me/ or look at me once..she was talking to her female friend. then we go upstairs and the same thing..i sit next to her and then she just leaves. we dont talk AT ALL. then finally she turns to me and says whats wrong with you? and begins to ask questions like are u mad at me? and are you ok?..yet after that she ignores me again. then at midnight she gives me a kiss and then once again the talking stops..from the moment i first started noticing her odd behaivior it put me in a bad mood all night. i then apoologized for acting in a bad mood, she then answer with a "whatever"..what do i do?
2007-01-01 10:32:06 · 16 answers · asked by eli s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
walk up to her and say calmly " r ok? last night u were kinda, idk ...out of it. we barely talked. anything happened?" and thts all . best of luck ! ~ <3
2007-01-01 10:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you feel any better, i had the very same thing happen to me and my GF last night. So im in the same boat. But all i can say is to talk to her about it, and be honest, and respectful. It shouldn't be that big of a deal. I'm sure yall will be fine. Good luck bud
2007-01-01 10:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she shy around others? If she sat on one side and you wanted to be close to her then moved close to her, and be the first to start the conversation.
If this is something unusual and she's looking for your fault, you may have a competition.
Explain to her in details just like you did here. Good relationship is based on open communication. Good luck!
2007-01-01 10:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out what happened before she got to the party . For a girl to act like that she is hiding something. Good Luck
2007-01-01 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by SunShine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready to end the relationship. She did not get what she wanted from you and is now planning how to dump you. Take the initiative and bring things out in the open. If you have any hope of keeping her You need to confront her and ask what put the bug up her butt.
2007-01-01 10:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about that whats up with that attitude???? If she doesn't tell you and contiues to act like that shes not worth it and if she makes up a lame excuse go ask the friend she was talking to about it. Things out in the open are better. If shes always like that then shes always like that...
2007-01-01 10:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definately seems to be moody. But, just leave her alone until she comes to you. When she wants to talk then she will. You can try talking to her first but she might still be moody and just get more mad.
2007-01-01 10:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly*Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the moment you thought something was wrong, you should have asked her what is wrong.
In the meantime, tell her you weren't sure what to do since it seemed she was ignoring you.
2007-01-01 10:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tally(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
review your self ,maybe u did somthing made her at this mood although i guess she is moody, But u should ask her about that
good luck =)
2007-01-01 10:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Donna♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u were mad. u should have tried to talk to her instead of sulking. good luck
2007-01-01 10:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to get you to break up with her. She might know something that you did, but most likely she is trying to break up. Let her you know that she is wanting that and let her know you'll break up with her. See her reaction.
2007-01-01 10:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋