Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

This guy I know is really sad, and he just got dumped by a girl. How do I make him happy?

2006-12-20 07:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by Elmo 2

well me and my boyfriend broke up for various reasons yet we continue to speak. he tells me things that lead me to believe that perhaps he still wants to be with me, but nothing has happened yet, what should i do?

2006-12-20 07:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my ex broke my heart.. am I egotistical to be shocked that he would want to lose someone like me? I am not arrogant at all (far from it) but does he really think he's gonna find a better girl out there? I don't think so...

2006-12-20 07:25:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-20 07:24:46 · 16 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1

told me i dont think of u as sex. but then let me again another night 2 times but hasnt touched me at all. but then told me he wanted to play but only with my boobs. what dose this mean is he intrested or not or should we just stay as friends. or should i hope he change mind and want more

2006-12-20 07:22:56 · 16 answers · asked by nice_2b 1

I dated this guy for a month and 2 weeks, then he cheated on me, and I loved him so much, I was willing to forgive him for it once, but he broke up with me... well 6 months later he tells me he wants me back, and he promises not to cheat, and he tells me I was the best girl he ever had well I took him back, and now he has told me he loves me more than words can say, and he never said that to me before, and right now he is in jail (yea I kno thats not good, and all that but Im not here to talk about that or be lectured about how much of a troublemaker he is so please dont mention anything dealing with that) , anyways no one but parents can see or talk to him right now, so he had his mom call me and tell me he loves me, and he'll talk to me as soon as he can... I think he really has changed and he really does love me, and care like he says he does, but I was just wondering wat do u think? Does it seem like he really cares about me this time?

2006-12-20 07:22:31 · 10 answers · asked by I love a troublemaker! 1

I have REALLY liked this boy for the past five years. I know that in the past he has liked me, but I am unsure of how he feels now. He had a girlfriend (a gril who really pursued him) but he broke up with her. I used to be friends with him, but now we dont talk much. The other day we had to be lab partners and we were both a little shy with each other. When we talked he always looked right into my eyes for a long time, and I noticed his pupils were big. (I heard that means something?) anyways PLEASE help because I REALLY like him but I dont know how to tell if he likes me anymore.
Thanks!

2006-12-20 07:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by hottie:-) 1

How can one tell if the girl is playing games or just not interested... I'm so confused.

2006-12-20 07:21:09 · 2 answers · asked by George 2

So I've heard some people saying that I'm cool. The thng is that when I enter a room or some other place I don't look at people's faces because I think: 'why bother... no one will care about myself.' I know that's funny, but I haven't had too many good experiences so I just keep being like that. How do I get girls to be interested in me without being intimidated (like I said some think I'm cool and stuff)? I'm way too shy to just talk to them so I need some other advice. THX

2006-12-20 07:21:05 · 3 answers · asked by David L 2

it seems the readers only answer the most recent questions and never check out the ones on pages 2,3,4 etc. can we skip around a bit?

2006-12-20 07:20:57 · 5 answers · asked by Mary S 2

I'm 21 and all of my relationships were like 2 weeks long or one week.... I'm just an awful person.... I cant stay interested in a guy for more than 5 sec....but why...???What's wrong with me??? I'm not really into the stuff smb telling me what to do ....i just want to do what i want any time i want.... its just when you are in a relationships you have to make some compromeses ad i think i'm not ready to do them or maybe i dont want to do any compromeses!!!! will i ever find smb or i will be alone for the rest of my life.... and what scaries most is that i'm not frightened of being on my own!!!! what can i do to change???

2006-12-20 07:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by -- 4

he was only in a few minutes and he pulled out to tell me that he didn't put it on.he says that he only wanted to feel the intimacy of us w/o the condom. how do i even begin to think about trusting him again? he apologized profusely and said it would never happen again. needless to say i have not given it up since.

2006-12-20 07:19:54 · 17 answers · asked by mmlf64 1

I have fancied someone since year 8/9 and i am in year 12 and now and shes in year 11 and i want to talk to her what do i do. I simply just want to talk not ask her out or anything. It is the last day of school before the holiday tommorow and i want to make a move. I havent tallked to her before but apparatly she is a nice person. To day my friends made a petttion(questionnaire) and asked her and some others to fill one in and said it was for ICT. I was supposed to do it but bottled it at the last second. What do i do from now. keeping in mind that i dont exaclty know her friends however they know me cause they witnessed me doing something emmbarrasing (singing); one of them get on my bus. OH yeah and i just broke my leg and I am on cruches (this happened today). I am quite well known for doing football tricks in school. Any ideas what my next move should be.

2006-12-20 07:19:24 · 2 answers · asked by Monu 1

2006-12-20 07:17:38 · 11 answers · asked by Dr huuhaa 1

I am a pretty successful "sportswoman" and I do have some important titles which one does not usually have. Anyway, I live in a foreign country where a guy is very successful in some sport (preferably don't want to name it) and I have somehow arranged "a date" where he is to come and help me out with something (I talked to his manager and I think he gave me a chance because as I said I have some important titles which normal screaming fans do not have, lol). Now:
-what should I do when he is to come?
-how should I act?
-which questions should I ask him?
-how can I "make him" to do another arrangement with me or that he invites me to his trainings?
I know, be yourself blah blah blah, I will do that, I just want some extra tips to REALLY pull it off. Basically, I want us to see again because I like him also visually. Maybe get to know him more but I definitely won't be inviting him to any coffies. I want to be remembered special in his mind, not like the other girls/fans.
Help?!:)

2006-12-20 07:14:07 · 16 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2

Ok, theres this one guy and we say hi and all.
Today I was taking some pictures and i took my last one. then he comes and places his arm round me waiting for a picture but i ran out of film.
Would it be weird if i was to bring in another camera tomorrow and ask him to take one with me?
(note: this was my 1st time bringing the camera to school this year)

Just wondering. Not that big of a deal, but I wanna make sure that it isn't out there, you know? I dont wanna look like a fool. lol

Thanks! :)

2006-12-20 07:14:02 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 1

and become a prostitute?

2006-12-20 07:12:43 · 24 answers · asked by anthony v 3

so a man saying "you excite me in every way" and telling you that you intrigue him.......as a women would that be the compliment that you love....and as a man....if you said this to a women what would you be feeling for her......just alittle curios and wonder what others think....have you had this said to you or have said it before

2006-12-20 07:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by leahr1820022002 1

i like this guy but he is a huge flirt he was going out this other girl
but she broke up with him cause he was flirting with other people to much. i really like him but im worried what should i do?

2006-12-20 07:11:23 · 1 answers · asked by 1_sexy_cowgirl 1

OkK SO ME AND tHiS GUY ARE REAlLY ClOSE AND i REAlLY LiKE HiM. AND i'VE ASkED HiM OUt BEfORE AND HE SAiD NO BECAUSE iTS NOt MEANt tO BE. MY fRiEND tAYlOR LiKES HiMS tO0 AND iM FiNE WiD tHAt BUt i fE3l WiERD. LiKE tHiS fRiDAY ME, HiM, tAYlOR, & SUM fRIENDS GOiNG tO tHE MOViES. SHOUlD tHiS BE AKWARD?? AND LiKE HE'S tOtAlLY CUtE AND WE HAVE SO MUCH fUN tOGEtHER, i jUSt DUNt UNDERStAND WHY HE WONt GO OUt WiD ME?!
WAt DO U tHiNk??
iS iT BECAUSE HE DOESNt WANt tO MESS UP OUR fRiENDSHiP?? OR MAYBE iM NOt tHAt PERfECt GURl HE'S lO0KiNG fOR?? HElP ME?!

2006-12-20 07:10:58 · 3 answers · asked by MiSSY M. 2

I think it would be: Kasey Kahne, Julian McMahon, Brian Kruse,and Daniel Radcliffe.

2006-12-20 07:10:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you and your ex were together for two years and broke up all of a sudden for some odd reason. Then after not talking or seeing each other for months you end up seeing them again and they say they want you back. Would you take them back? May I add after they have acted a total jacka**. Stories and experiences with this is very welcomed.

2006-12-20 07:09:17 · 54 answers · asked by Simon City Royals First Lady 1

Today I sat with this guy that I like and some kid came up and asked if I liked him. I said no but the guy that I DO like said that I do like him. I asked him how he found out that I liked him and if hes mad. Hes not mad at me and were still friends. Its almost like hes ok with it. My friends say he likes me but I kinda doubt it. Does he?? Or, whats up with him? Most guys would stay away but hes ok... Why...?

2006-12-20 07:06:52 · 11 answers · asked by Cam O 1

umm . . . im 15 and my friends know i love it when guys play the guitar not electric or anything just acoustic. n one of my guy friends made me a C.D. and gave it to me yesterday it had a lot of my favorite songs on it and the last one was him singing Your Guardian Angel by The Red Jumpsuit Appartus he was actually really good i was surprised. what do you think it means b/c i know where good friends and all i dont know so just tell me what you think and if i should take this as a hint that he likes me more than a friend or we're just good right now?
Thanks

2006-12-20 07:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 2

Well i was wondering how you get a guys attention. Also how do u know when they like, are there any clues that all guys have in similar.

2006-12-20 07:05:52 · 8 answers · asked by lamalover 1

what is the proper way to talk to these types of girls, its preventing me from getting with a girl whose a playa but is very into me and is looking for one thing. I've never been into it but maybe it can lead to something more, either way it goes tho ill never get that far if i can't come on to her in the right manner.

2006-12-20 07:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by 2smooth 1

Does it help to get out with freinds and family...even though this person still in your head most of the time...I'm no obssess or anything like that, is just I missed our conversations and the way we use to be...i guess i just have to get over it..is so hard though...I think the should be a pill for this kind of pain...Is there a pill??

2006-12-20 07:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by bouche 1

Me and my boyfriend was together 4 about 5 months and everything was perfect he treated me so good and we never had no problems at all. I was his first kiss, first luv and i took his virginity until one day he broke up with me for no reason at all he didn't even know why he did it, then he started acting like he hated me he even told me that he doesn't luv me any more and he really do act like it now and i miss him so much that sometimes i can't even think straight, What do u think do u think he still luvs me or did he ever?

2006-12-20 07:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3

I love this one girl that i have known for 9-10 months and we dated for 8. and then she just left me for some other guy and still tells me she loves me and i know i really love her but recently i have been just getting so jealous talking to her at all and getting mad at herfor leaving me like she did. I still love her but i hate her and i wish i could be with her but when ever i talk to her.. i always get the feeling she doesn't want to talk or be with me at all..

2006-12-20 07:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by AdrianAP 2

she never had sex but she fooled around and felt guilt and left him. she says that she cant believe what she has done and feels terrible about it and says that she has learned her lesson and will never do it again but people tell me that people dont cheat on everyone but they usually never stop cheating on the person that they have already cheated on. please dont give me silly answers like just kick her to the curb cause i really do care about her and i would love for someone to have been in this position and tell me how it has turned around but im ready to face the facts and truth even though the truth may really hurt.

2006-12-20 07:01:12 · 23 answers · asked by young grasshopper 1