well me and my boyfriend broke up for various reasons yet we continue to speak. he tells me things that lead me to believe that perhaps he still wants to be with me, but nothing has happened yet, what should i do?
2006-12-20 07:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, don't get on the bad relationship roller coaster. At least, spend some considerable amount of time without contact to see if he wants to get back together because he has no one else or because he really wants you back.
2006-12-20 07:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the first question is why you broke up in the first place... if there were serious reasons, just know that people do not change :-( .. and unfortunately the same reasons why you broke up before will still be there.
If you find out that no matter what .. you want to be with him, then let him know how you feel.. it will work itself out..
Trick though .. don't break up unless you really feel it is over. Otherwise, you nor your mate will take it seriously.
2006-12-20 07:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends with him, but find you another boyfriend. Seems like he's leading you on. He's had his chance with you, and it seems that he's thrown it away. Bad for him, good for some other guy. Don't wait for him, go out and have a good time, if you meet someone, then so be it. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-20 07:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up for "various reasons" then the reasons don't disappear overnight. I think you are clinging to something which has clearly passed it sell by date and should move on. If you and he can be friends then great but you shouldn't try to rekindle something. You will only end up hurt.
2006-12-20 07:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know how he treat u so i think you r the only who knows whether u should dump him or not.
remember relationship takes alot of hard work even if u have a new bf it will come in a time you 2 will argue about stupid things.
so see if he deserve a second change or not u r the only one who tell so.
good luck hope u make the right choose
2006-12-20 07:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i have the same problem. What you could do is ask him out again. If he says no well say that's ok with me and actually can be still friends. He probably he will accept that,
2006-12-20 07:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by clau_kool_lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and 4 get about him and go to a man that well love u 4 any wrong r right thing tat u do
2006-12-20 07:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by LilTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it and move on. Don't wait around for something that may never happen...he may be stringing you along, or you may be stringing yourself along and hearing what you want to hear and not what he's actually saying.
2006-12-20 07:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you really still like him is the first question you have to ask yourself and does he really like you is the second. And if you know that he likes you for sure and you like him for sure than give it another shot is what I say!
2006-12-20 07:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by funky_monkeyjac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still wanted to be your boyfriend he would say so. He just wants sex. Stop talking to him.
2006-12-20 07:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋