he was only in a few minutes and he pulled out to tell me that he didn't put it on.he says that he only wanted to feel the intimacy of us w/o the condom. how do i even begin to think about trusting him again? he apologized profusely and said it would never happen again. needless to say i have not given it up since.
2006-12-20 07:19:54 · 17 answers · asked by mmlf64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So your saying you slept with him before you barely even knew him? A new bf? Before you worry about trusting him you should learn to trust yourself. Sleeping with someone you barely know is not real smart.
You might also want to be checked for HIV
2006-12-20 07:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass to the pharmacy and get Plan B. some states require a prescription although. also, you and your guy might want to get examined for STDs once a chance and once back in 3-6 months. Your guy might want to pay 0.5 of the Plan B. it may be severe priced each from time to time. if you're sexually lively and also you do not favor to get pregnant you need to attempt birth control pills + condoms. that is a a lot safer guess. good success.
2016-12-01 00:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend can't even respect your wishes of safe sex, you really can't trust him anything. He lied to you,what other things would he lie to you about? What if you guys shared the finances and he spent all the money or had kids,but didn't feed him what you wanted. I honestly think that when someone putsyour life at risk,then they need to go.
2006-12-20 07:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well........i would be pissed as hell. he crossed the line as far as i'm concerned. i'm sure you don't want to get pregnant. if you can't get passed it i'm sure it's best to break it off cuz it will b in the back of your mind if you can't forgive and forget. personally, i would probably break up with him for not respecting my wish.
i just read something that someone else said. there is a chance to get pregs from pre ckum, but the chance is extremely low so i would NOT freak out about that.
Also, since you are sexually active you should go and get a pap smear and std check. HIV isn't as easily contracted as people make it out to be, but you are doing the best thing by using protection.
I don't want you to freak out about HIV/aids or pregnancy from this exposure, but definetly go and get yourself checked out.
2006-12-20 07:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one the Most important rules in any relationship. If you can't trust then dump. One mistake and your a family.
2006-12-20 07:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by foreualways 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is total bullsh*t. That would piss me off to no end. Who gave him the right to do that to you ? What if he gave you aids in those few moments ? What a piece of sh*t he is. He only thought about himself and his desires. I would rethink this guy all together.
2006-12-20 07:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st thing i would check if your pergent. a man can pre c.u.m. it only takes a couple of secs. U need to tell him that so he wont do it again. u should not give it to him for a month. to teach him a lession. and decide if u really love him to stay with him.
2006-12-20 07:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an idiot. why the hell would he do that? Kick him in the groin, and say this is what happens hundreds of times if you do it again.
even if he's only in a few minutes, there's huge chances of pregnancy and STDs.
2006-12-20 07:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away now. If he tries this now without thinking about the consequences, what will he try later on.
2006-12-20 07:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by exj132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to make sure. Don't trust...feel!
2006-12-20 07:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋