Really urgent. Need all the help I can get!! Tips about following...?

Question

I am a pretty successful "sportswoman" and I do have some important titles which one does not usually have. Anyway, I live in a foreign country where a guy is very successful in some sport (preferably don't want to name it) and I have somehow arranged "a date" where he is to come and help me out with something (I talked to his manager and I think he gave me a chance because as I said I have some important titles which normal screaming fans do not have, lol). Now:
-what should I do when he is to come?
-how should I act?
-which questions should I ask him?
-how can I "make him" to do another arrangement with me or that he invites me to his trainings?
I know, be yourself blah blah blah, I will do that, I just want some extra tips to REALLY pull it off. Basically, I want us to see again because I like him also visually. Maybe get to know him more but I definitely won't be inviting him to any coffies. I want to be remembered special in his mind, not like the other girls/fans.
Help?!:)

Answer 1

Hi ,You could statr by discussing your interest in his achievements, as a fellow sportsman, and ask for advice on his keep fit and healthy regime. Tell him about your regime, your hopes which you need help with, to succeed. Say that you greatly appreciate his help, ask if there is a possibility you can keep in touch with him, as his advice was so encouraging. Do not make the first meeting last too long, unless he wishes it to. You could ask if he minded your coming to watch him, as a fellow sportsman when he performs. Try to be really professional, sport being the identified anchor for both of you at present. You might feel different when you meet, I know the feeling, try to keep cool, be happy, what can I SAY, LOL

Answer 2

I would be very professional. Stick closely to the lesson and learn all you can. Make great arrangement so that you are one on one and not in a public place where he can be recognized and "mobbed." Have water/soft drinks available for after the lesson and invite him to sit down and chat.

Tell him how much you appreciate his help and ask him what you can do next to improve. Ask him to give you some "homework" and then see if you can arrange for another training session.

I would not get personal unless he asks you personal questions.

Answer 3

keep asking for his help.

Make sure there is always a need for his help. If you can do this then in his mind there will always be a reason to come back.

Oh dont act like the other screaming fans too. When you see him dont scream or anything. Just introduce yourself and shake his hand or whatever. Just dont freak out.

act composed. Be calm. Things will infold by itself so dont worry about that part.

as for questions...
for this sport, ask question that will help u become better. Ask if he could demostrate. And be friendly.


well good luck with this.

Answer 4

Something tells me you're afraid of making the wrong move. Why? Because you are initially attracted to him physically... which is pretty much normal.

Well since you ask... let's just say... if he comes towards you. Say hello. He'll say hello. If he asks questions.. then respond. If you want to ask questions about him... then just ask.

So how should you act? Just be nice and sincere in your behavior. You can act a little flirty to get his attention but don't send the wrong message that he will think you want him sexually. Most guys mistaken this a lot of times. So try to keep the sexual overtones a little down. Something like... hey you look nice. I like the haircut and how well you take care of yourself.

If you want him to do another arrangment with you.. just ask. Ask DIRECTLY. Just say, " i would like to do another arrangement with you. When will be a good date? "

Good luck

Answer 5

You could suggest that you work together on some charity event. That would allow you to both work with him on something that is non-threatening (certainly not "fan" related) as well as spend time doing something good for others. Using both his (and your) celebrity status, you can find both mutual discussion points about both the good and the bad of being a celebrity, etc.

Certainly, be calm and cool about it. Treat him like you would treat any other man who might be interested in you. But of course, dropping little hints occasionally that you enjoy his company would be a good way to keep the relationship warm (and not all work!)

Answer 6

Compliment him on his strength, agility or any other feature he has. Men love to hear good things about themselves. Just know when to limit your compliments so it doesn'tsound like you are being something other than genuine. Tell him how much fun you have had and ask if he feels the same. Something like,"Wow, I am so happy you helped me today. I have had so much fun when do you think we could do this again? Would Tuesday or Saturday be better for you?"

Answer 7

You already know what to do, don't try and sleep with him right away and let him know how you feel. Like tell him you would like to see him in the future and see how he feels. Next time you might want to set things up through him instead of his manager. Make it more personal not so business.

Answer 8

You obviously have the sport thing in common. I think the fact he has agreed to go out with you should let you know he is interested enough without wanting him to blow smoke up your ***. Put your own ego aside and think if he didn't like you then you would be at home polishing your titles.

Answer 9

I don't think that he's coming round for coffee so if you want to be remembered special in his mind do something that most of the screaming fans don't do ;)

Answer 10

You're right about being yourself. Also, treat him like he is a regular guy. Don't act all starry-eyed and silly. Have fun, but pretend it's just some guy that you're training with. Good luck!