If my ex broke my heart.. am I egotistical to be shocked that he would want to lose someone like me? I am not arrogant at all (far from it) but does he really think he's gonna find a better girl out there? I don't think so...
2006-12-20 07:25:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohhh... nasty people here. he was a mean jerk to me and I was great to him. And, yes, I do think he's an idiot ... ;-)
2006-12-20 07:57:17 · update #1
Obviously he didnt see in you what you see in you. My experience with women is that they think they are " all that" if they are giving a man what they think he needs. They actually ignore his real needs and give just what they want, then they wonder what went wrong. They will ask what do you want. Then I tell them and it still gets ignored while they are doing what they THINK I want. Women can be just as self centered as men.
You are being arrogant and that could be one reason he did what he did.
2006-12-20 07:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure he did lose a good thing. I don't think you're egotistical at all. I do believe that he made a mistake, so go out and have fun. Maybe you'll find someone a lot better than him. If he really loved you, he would have never dreamed of breaking your heart. Just think about it this way.......his loss. If you should let him come back, when will he do this again. He hasn't learned that the grass isn't necessarily greener on the other side of the fence. I feel he'll just keep hurting you. Find you someone new. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-20 07:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that . I know exactly how you feel . I was with this guy for the last 3 yrs . He threw me out whenever he felt the urge and he knew I had no place to go. I think the best thing that both of us can do it forget those two idiots and find someone worthy of us !
2006-12-20 07:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People do things for the strangest reasons, so don't be shocked when something like this happens. Certainly, berating him won't earn any points with him, but expressing your disappointment is only natural (and probably expected). Try to move on and find a guy who will appreciate you for the great person you are!
2006-12-20 07:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most men are idiots (i'm one too - man that is).
But we don't know the value of someone until we're alone in day and truly realize that what we had was really the most valuable things.
Besides, if he likes you as much as you think (and if he's not to ego driven), he might call you back.
2006-12-20 07:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Binu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you were hurt and that is that. It's not about what's out there that you should be concerned with. and for the most part you could be the most amazing woman on the planet, but the fact is that it did not work out between the both of you, (at least for now. he might come back crawling on his hands and knees, who knows).
Do your best to move on and try to find someone who appreciate the goddess you are,
Be strong, good luck
2006-12-20 07:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's hilarious, I would have loved to have been there. When I broke up my ex acted like everything was my fault so, I felt really bad. Even though when I thought about it later I got really mad because I realized I had tried more to keep it together.
2006-12-20 07:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The whole questions say arrogant... Wake up hun.
You cant say "im not arrogant" and "im the best he can get" in the same sentance. if you think you have some right to then youre deluded.
He can find someone better and you can learn the relationship doesnt revolve around you.
2006-12-20 07:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately, we don't always see ourselves the same as our partners do. You might've been the best girl in the world for him, but he might've been looking for something else in a relationship. I know a friend of mine was very happy with his girlfriend, even though she micromanaged every aspect of his life, because that's what he wanted. But that level of interference in my life would drive me nuts.
And don't worry. If he walked away from you, he doesn't deserve you. The next guy will appreciate you more.
2006-12-20 07:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say but guys can always lose interest even if you think you are "the best girl out there"... there is always someone out there more his type, more beautiful, more caring... blah blah blah... think of all the girls out in the world that he could possibly choose from. i think you need to step off your pedistool and get with the real world and stop thinkin you are the perfect woman for every man. sorry to say it, but there will always be someone better.
2006-12-20 07:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by manicmachine88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋