Me and my boyfriend was together 4 about 5 months and everything was perfect he treated me so good and we never had no problems at all. I was his first kiss, first luv and i took his virginity until one day he broke up with me for no reason at all he didn't even know why he did it, then he started acting like he hated me he even told me that he doesn't luv me any more and he really do act like it now and i miss him so much that sometimes i can't even think straight, What do u think do u think he still luvs me or did he ever?
2006-12-20 07:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have learned recently so much about how guys act and think from my husband. he might have loved you before it's hard to say, but with his behavior now, it's just best to move on don't waste your time anymore. He broke up with your probably because he found someone else or he just didn't feel that great with you aka you aren't the one for him. Take time for yourself to heal and then when you meet the next guy take your time and get to know him better because anything hot and heavy starts.
2006-12-20 07:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound relatively young and at that point in our lives what we feel seems like love but is usually a very deep infatuation. Also in these years people will hook up for a while but in time they figure out that some need is not being met so we move on. We move on and can reflect back upon what was good and what was bad about the partner. We can carry that knowledge in our pursuit of future relationships in hopes that we do find that one person who does meet all of our needs and us meeting all of theirs. It is just the dance that we do called life with all of its twists and turns. With such an abrupt a break up that you described, he probably had some type of problem with you that was never brought up so there was no discussion of trying to iron things out. A lot of men are this way and there answer to this is just to walk away.
2006-12-20 15:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well something is obviously wrong. I would try talking to him about it. Because I know how you are feeling when suddenly things are going in the wrong direction. So just try to talk to him and then figure out what you wanna do regarding the relationship
2006-12-20 15:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has found someone else, he just wanted you for experience and that he has had a taste of sex, he has found someone else or just wants to play around and he feels you are in the way..
Step back and give him his room for awhile and see what happens....
Look for someone who is more stable for now...
2006-12-20 15:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Angell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like your young, and you both got love confused with strong feelings. im sorry to say, but i think he found someone else. a 5 month relationship really isnt that long.
2006-12-20 15:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it has only been a few months..usually people are on their best behaviour for a year and then after that you start to see the true them.
2006-12-20 15:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is not take it personally. Don't blame yourself, or think you did something wrong, just because he got weird.
2006-12-20 15:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by SM M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Don't try disecting it just move on. Time will heal.
2006-12-20 15:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE MIGHT OF HAD SOMEONE ELSE GUYS ALWAYS START WANTING TO FIGHT AND ARGUE OVER STUPID THINGS WHEN THEIR SEEING SOMEONE ELSE JUST TO GET AWAY AND TO HAVE A REASON TO LEAVE YOU!! BE GLAD HE DID.
2006-12-20 15:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. Obviously he wants to move on.
2006-12-20 15:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋