what is the proper way to talk to these types of girls, its preventing me from getting with a girl whose a playa but is very into me and is looking for one thing. I've never been into it but maybe it can lead to something more, either way it goes tho ill never get that far if i can't come on to her in the right manner.
2006-12-20 07:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by 2smooth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well speaking form past experience, you may want to avoid a promiscuous girl if you are looking for something serious or more. She's not likely to settle down with you or be devoted to you despite how much she may like/love you , until she is ready for it. If you can't resist the temptation. I'd let her know you're interested but don't give her too much attention.The more you give her the more control you are giving to her and pretty soon she'll be walking all over you, if not breaking your heart. You've gotta play the mystery card be yourself but keep some of it hidden so instead of looking for something else in other guys, she'll stay intrigued, that way at least you'lll have her if only for a little while.
2006-12-20 07:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice name.. doesn't match the question.
I too have this 'problem'.
Seriously, if you dont have the "things" in place its kinda difficult, like if you live at home, you cant go back to your place.
I think you probably were raised a certain way so when those 'sex' instincts come up, your upbringing blocks is subconsciously, namean?
2006-12-20 15:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little lost for words, are you shy, or just scared. i don't know many men that would turn down some a**. go with they flow i know you've watched enough TV. it doesn't go exactly like that but it's close. go with the flow HAVE SOME PROTECTION you don't want it to fall off>>>one
2006-12-20 15:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is interested in a friend with benefits...if she smacks you then you know it won't work by being direct
2006-12-20 15:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2006-12-20 15:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk tough to them, kind of hey babe, you want to lay some pipe
2006-12-20 15:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE YOU SHOULD PRACTICE YOUR WRITTING SKILLS BEFORE YOU PRACTICE YOUR FLIRTING!
2006-12-20 15:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by renell G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋