Singles & Dating - 15 December 2006

So last year i had a class with this guy [he's 1 yr older] and we flirted all the time. At the end of the year he came back to my house and we hooked up [no sex]. Then i went on vacation and then i didn't talke to him for like a week. Then he went off to college and i haven't heard from him in [3 months] and now he's coming back home for christmas and emails me saying he wants to see me again and misses me. How do i know if he really likes me or is just looking for some bootycall?

2006-12-15 09:05:54 · 10 answers · asked by moocowbaby1 1

2006-12-15 09:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like sum1 and he is in another grade. and he doesnt like me! he says im ugly which i am not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please help me!
<3

2006-12-15 09:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by Alexa T 1

I've heard that redheads are freaks int eh bedroom over and over. But what about brunettes?
Serious answers please.

2006-12-15 09:02:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her girlfriend broke up with her 2 months ago after a 4 year relationship for a guy. She obviously didn't like the guy that much because she is already back. Well my friend still lived in the house watched the kids, cooked, cleaned, paid bills and remained faithful.Her ex wants her back and want's to control her life. She changed her number so no one can call her and told her not to talk to me anymore. She loves her but doesn't want to be in a jail senerio to be with her. What should I tell her to do?

2006-12-15 09:01:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy (not the one who stood me up =) ), but I don't know if it will lead anywhere. the only thing is that, although i have 2 mixed kids, my parents are still strongly against interracial dating. I have to live with my parents for financial reasons, and i live in constant fear that if i fall for another black guy, that they will kick me out. i've already been told that if i'm caught dating another black guy that they will take my kids from me, because they don't want them raised by a black man. i don't discriminate against white guys, don't get me wrong, but the guy i like is black. what should i do?

2006-12-15 09:00:15 · 23 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3

2006-12-15 08:59:58 · 8 answers · asked by bob 1

What do you think and why?

2006-12-15 08:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Mr. Untouchable 2

I like this boy in my Chemistry class and today I said he was really fine. The only thing he said was thanks. I don't know if he likes me back or even intrested. I would like to know but I don't know how or what to ask him. I also don't know If I should speak to him. I think I really embarassed myself.

2006-12-15 08:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by Between Times 2

As the title.....this girls annoying me now, and i need to know....

2006-12-15 08:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've dated some on for two years, the last year was on and off. Recently we were on after a month of being off. This morning I looked on his computer and discovered he told his ex g.f that he loved her. Now he says its an inside joke. And that no one understands there relationship besides him and her. I really think this is just B.S. Because I really cant think of one guy, who throws out I love you as a joke. So I basicly said I dont want to talk to him anymore, its too many games. Do you think I over reacted or is he really playing games?

2006-12-15 08:55:31 · 8 answers · asked by sun drenched 2

Ok this one person at work thinks of me as indiot and not itelligent just because im shy. I mean what the......*takes a breath and calms down* whats an Itelligent way to comeback at this like if they talk to you sarcastically and say "o yeah you did great" This man is way over his head I want to have a comeback thats not violent but makes him go "Whoa maybe this guy is smart"

2006-12-15 08:55:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF ITALIAN PEOPLE??? i like America and I love the American boy kisssss

2006-12-15 08:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend thinks that telling him who I've had sex with, what positions, where it happened and what I was wearing is perfectly normal. He sees it as a couple sharing and being intimate. I'm incredibly uncomfortable with this and when I don't want to answer his questions he says I'm keeping secrets and being loyal to my ex-boyfriends/lovers. For the record I've never asked him these questions and have no need to know. All I care about is our present and future. Please let me know what you think.

2006-12-15 08:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help, i got stood up!!?
I had 2 hours for my lunch break, and called the guy and let him know what was up. He said that he would call me when he got to a place to meet me, and he never showed!! He didn't answer his phone when i called, which really makes me mad!! it's been 4 months since i had any and if i knew he wasn't going to show up, then i would have answered the phone when anohter guy called. I am so frustrated!!!!

2006-12-15 08:54:11 · 13 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3

If you like someone .. should you tell them that you like them, or to keep a secret.

2006-12-15 08:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by chocolate~bunny 3

my boss bought a blow up santa and exspects me to give it a ******** every morning as it keeps going down on me , he sais he likes it nice and stiff , but if I get it there I would like to shove it up his arXX , am I roight

2006-12-15 08:52:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What a huge response to your question..... it worries the hell out of lots of us women. Please read what we have to say. And take care, dress down, please.

2006-12-15 08:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah 3

Do guys have catagories for girls? ie- someone you can see dating long term isn't someone who sleeps with you right away, someone who sleeps with you right away is just a *u*k buddy....is this true?

2006-12-15 08:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by Sam s 2

he cheated on me with his daughters mother now their together and im heart broken

2006-12-15 08:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by d_elliott06 1

So I hooked him up with a good friend to get him out of temptations way. She's knows that we had feelings for each other and felt funny at first getting with him. Now it did not work out between him and her and he's at me to see him. I have separated from my husband. But he has been dating my friend for months. I'd rather ask her if this is okay. But it was just recent they decided it will not work out. But he's impatient to spend time with me. Am I wrong to go there? Should I wait...should I just plain forget it all together?

2006-12-15 08:51:12 · 15 answers · asked by Lady 2

just for fun...or not...depends how you feel i guess...;0)

2006-12-15 08:51:05 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is going to be quiet a long one but please be patient with me as I have lost all hope. Well I have been seeing this guy and it’s coming to be 4 months which great because my longest ever relationship was 3 days lol. But on a serious note I feel a break up coming. During the 4 months we have seen each other 4 times we mostly speak on the phone. Right now I haven’t spoken to him for 5 days he never rings me but has the audacity to say I don’t ring which I do but he never picks up. Whether he purposely avoids my calls or not? I don’t know. He doesn’t live far from me and I understand we are student and money isn’t on our side but I don’t care about things like that. I always drop everything to see him when he asks me too. For example he would tell me he wants to meet up tomorrow and he wont call for another five days. I don’t know what to do I love him and he says he does aswell but this is not a relationship this is a big joke! im feeling so hurt!

2006-12-15 08:49:51 · 27 answers · asked by Confuseddotcom 1

A guy I know from my fiance's job just left his fiance of three years, after a one night stand at the Company Xmas Party with one of the Company Freak(s). She and her sister have been with several of the employees already!! Her sister is already pregnant w/twins from one of the groundsman. She is attractive, and everybody, including my man, think it's exciting and okay that he'd just up and leave her for someone he doesn't even know!!!
Number 1, I can't believe either one still have their job. You'd think the company would take more pride in their values and frown upon fratinization among employees, exspecially the "married or almost married" ones!!!
What gets me, is that he could believe the grass is greener, just becasue she's hot, doesn't mean the same as the three years he has shared w/his fiance. The ups the downs... the struggles, the rewards! I know he will regret it, and truthfully, I can't wait until he does!!!! What do you think?

2006-12-15 08:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve been friends with this woman for years. She wanted to date me-so we dated for a few months. Then, she decides she just wants to be friends again. I was hurt-so I tell her I want to distance myself for a while to heal. She got angry with me. We kept going out just like before (now as “friends”) with only a kiss and hug every now and then. Other than her job and family, she spends the rest of her free time with me. She told me that nobody has shown love/concern for her like me-possibly including her own mother. She has had only abusive relationships with guys and was sexually abused as a child. She even told her therapist that I would be the perfect boyfriend, but she won’t go there. She told me that she has never had such an in depth connection with anyone like me-male or female. What’s up? I don’t get it.

2006-12-15 08:49:42 · 3 answers · asked by happy4u 6

one of my friends is moving and he wants to hang out but i know how he is and im pretty sure he is trying to sleep with me. i have messed around with him once before but didnt sleep with him. should i just go ahead and do it cause hes moving and hes very good looking or should i still be the one that hes never gonna get cause thats how he views me?!?

2006-12-15 08:49:02 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica H 1

either something you wish to be your happy ever after sometime in the future...maybe you found your happy ever after already...or maybe...just a single occurence that worked out for you...happily ever after...;0)

2006-12-15 08:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-15 08:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by bowiegirls_eye 4

I just found out that my fiance was trying to get back together with his ex, the girl was trying to win him back the last time, but this time he was the one who is trying to get back with her because she said she is sexier now. What do I do?

2006-12-15 08:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by jinky l 1

I am always waiting for the right person to come along, and as a result I have not dated a lot of different woman and I am a 25 year old virgin. I am told I am an attractive guy and have a good personality. I am in decent shape, as I am involved in martial arts and am a 2nd degree black belt. Anyway I am shy about the fact that I am a virgin and keep it secret, Im not sure if I should be that way or not. Girls get confused when I don’t jump into a physical relationship with them off the bat like most guys would. Anyway, I think this is why my recent relationship ended because she did not know this and I was shy about getting physical.

So my question is this:

1.Is male virginity a turn off / Turn on?

2.When in the relationship should this information be revealed?

3.Should I keep it secret?

4 How would you react?

Thanks.

2006-12-15 08:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by Answerguy44 1