I've dated some on for two years, the last year was on and off. Recently we were on after a month of being off. This morning I looked on his computer and discovered he told his ex g.f that he loved her. Now he says its an inside joke. And that no one understands there relationship besides him and her. I really think this is just B.S. Because I really cant think of one guy, who throws out I love you as a joke. So I basicly said I dont want to talk to him anymore, its too many games. Do you think I over reacted or is he really playing games?
2006-12-15 08:55:31 · 8 answers · asked by sun drenched 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll bet there are other issues besides this "ex g.f. I love you" on the computer thing. If a person's behavior and responses to your letigimate questions are making you crazy, it's not worth another second of your time. Find somebody who has their head screwed on straight. Healthy relationships don't involve second-guessing your partner, feeling one-down because of remarks made about past partners, or misrepresentations of feelings. Healthy relationships involve both partners not engaging in behaviors that that undermine the primary relationship. This guy doesn't sound like he is mature enough for you.
2006-12-15 09:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is the matter with you? Get your head out of your a*ss. He is lying to you, of course. Anybody can see that.
Most of you biatches who think they are in love or whatever are some of the stupidest people on earth. Pay attention to what the guy DOES, not what he SAYS. Look at where your relationship is now. It hasn't moved any further than it was 2 years ago.
Drop the lying loser, and get with a winner who actually DOES what he SAYS. You are a victim of your own stupidity.
2006-12-15 17:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girlie, he's really playing games. He got caught in a lie, plain and simple. Either way, do you really want a man who throws the phrase "i love you" around to ex's as a joke?
2006-12-15 17:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by dazydrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really playing games, if he loved you he wouldn't have said he loves his ex, and there is no "inside joke" of saying i love you, i don't see how it could possibly be "funny" that's just dumb, leave him, don't go back, and if u do, expect to be hurt...i hope u do stay away from him, take it from someone who has been there and done that...do what's best and healthiest for you..move on
2006-12-15 17:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kollege Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you are over reacting. I think he's totally full of B.S. And he was prob. with her on that last off time you two had.
2006-12-15 17:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by lima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get out of that relationship, you're only hurting yourself by sticking with it. Go find a great guy, there's more than this loser.
2006-12-15 17:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful if he lies now he'll probably lie to you in the future.If he really loves you you'll know. But sometimes love can be blind,keep your guard up.
2006-12-15 17:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably made a good decision.
2006-12-15 17:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋