Singles & Dating - 13 December 2006

my bf of 3months finished me two nights ago. he said its cos he didnt love me 100% anymore and he couldnt be with me if he didnt. he also said he'd started to fall for another girl at his college, we live far away from each other and was in a LD. we agreed to stay friends and we'd still keep in touch as we was friends before and shared everything. i still love him but hes confusin me. he hardly texts back and sometimes the texts are friendly but others they are cold. i feel like hes not bothered but i love him too much to let him go. what should i do? i can't ignore him, it kills me more not knowing whats going on with him. he helped me through depression and without him it'll come back :(

2006-12-13 03:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

An guy that I have been seeing on and off ended on Monday. As One minuted we are commited and really cool and the other minute he is not to sure if he is in the frame of mind to attend to a commited relationship. I think he can b very Fickle! When and if we have broken up for a couple of days he will call me to say that he does want to keep seeing each other, but I give in to easy and let him take me for a drink and to dinner ect. I wanted to say goodbye all together when he told me this on monday, but he didn't want to allow this as we are VERY close. He says that he will be deeply and extremely sad if we were to let what had be destroyed and that he still wants to remain close, even as friends. But I feel that he will only have a renewed appreciation for me if we had time apart. As they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. I have been silent since and he emailed me earlier today should I reply, or allow more time for him to maybe realise? I don't want to give in too easy..?

2006-12-13 03:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well right now i'm talking to this guy that i think that i feel something for him but i dont really know yet. we were tying to hookup in the summer but we couldn't cause he has a kid with another girl thats why i back up. now he came looking for me again and i found out that he has nothing to do with the other girl any more. but now the problem is that i'm hanging out with some bad people (thats what everybody calls them in school) and there is a guy that hangs out with me that likes me and he dosen't want me to talk to him cause he is from another gang. what should i do? should i stop talking to him or not? help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-13 03:39:09 · 16 answers · asked by angelica v 2

2006-12-13 03:37:56 · 38 answers · asked by Kimberly J 1

ok..two guys like me...well they claim to love me...both gave me a promise ring..they both know about eachother..and they hate eachother..they r waiting on me to make a decision..but i dont kno who to pik because i know i like them both but i know deep down in my heart i love one more than the other..how can i tell which one i love more??? because i have been waiting around now for about a couples weeks and my heart wont answer me...they both make me feel good..depending on which one im with..one is in school the other isnt..so wen im at school.. that one makes me happy..then wen im home the pther one does...who do i pik?? ive already dated them both in the past. the one out of school for a year off n on and the one in school now for about a month....who do u think i should pik?? or wat should i do?

2006-12-13 03:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2

Which one do you like best for the card for my crush! Letter A or B! And Why

A. Hey ____! A gift for you! Well, I really don't know if I should say on the card, that I like u! But whatever! Well, its almost winter break if I say i like u on the card it gives you 2 weeks to think about me whether you like me or not! Well, so now u know i like u. T...h...i..n...k........ ^_^ A gift which is more than just for christmas, but for a heart poured out to be thought of, for a lifetime.

Love Sarah

OR

B. Dear Martin,

Glad the holidays are here and I get the chance to say..here's a little gift from me and I really like you by the way!

Love Always,

Sarah

2006-12-13 03:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-13 03:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by Aswathy 1

I have been dating a guy from September until now. I haven't slept with him or even kissed him and we've only truly hung out a couple of times but talk on the phone on the regular. He likes to come to the library and watch me study. A couple of days ago I wanted to advance our relationship to another level (us exclusively dating) but he says he's not looking for that right now. He constantly tells me I'm mad cool and that I would be a great mother. I know he likes me cause he is still around. Should I still keep waiting on him to get his stuff together or just cut him off completely?

2006-12-13 03:36:40 · 8 answers · asked by TILAC 2

when he says...."i like the thrill of the chase"???

2006-12-13 03:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by pink sugar girl xxx 1

Hes a lovely man,knows how to treat a woman.He takes me for meals and nights out and even pays my rent.Ive kept it as friends though because to be honest hes one ugly man.I mean to the point of making me gag.The thing is he always says that if we got together he,d buy me whatever i wanted.So being a bit skint on the run up to xmas im thinking maybe if i sleep with him he,ll get all my xmas gifts plus he promised me a new Gucchi handbag.What do you think?Should i buy a gimp mask for him and do the deed?

2006-12-13 03:35:40 · 27 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

Would you consider someone who drinks 2- 3 beers a day after work to have a drinking problem?

It's not like a few beers is going to get me hammered. My wife doesnt think it's a problem as far as getting drunk goes she just asked me yesterday how long has it been since I had a beer-less day. Honestly it's been a while, is that a big deal?

It's not like I get home and run straight to the fridge and start pounding em. I usually work out first and when I am done I will have a beer, then we have dinner and I have another. After that I might have one more while watching the news..... does that make me a drunk or sound like a drinking problem to you?

2006-12-13 03:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by RedEye 3

I dated a guy that never went to my school a while ago...well now he is dating some from my school..and all of her friends hate my guts and constantly start rumors..which effects the relationship i have now...and the people who r starting the rumors are so called "preps" (which i hate)..im a cheerleader..so i dont kno y they say mean things...the guy im, dating now is their friend too..so maybe the r just jealous/? or just plain mean??>

2006-12-13 03:34:37 · 21 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-13 03:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by spurs257 1

so me and my friend were talking the other day right and she asks me... when a guy does you in the butt is it true that you get poop on there penis because you know thats where you poop from. so i was like i dont know!!! can anyone answer that question for me??? any answers or anything u have to say about this?

2006-12-13 03:32:55 · 6 answers · asked by mexican-mami 15 1

2006-12-13 03:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by NurseNancy 1

I'm almost on the brink of asking this girl I like out (because we both like each other) and I just want some feedback on some good ideas on places to take her, and how to act around her

2006-12-13 03:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by Greg S 3

This guy and I have been friends for four or five years and I think he has feelings for me. We did go out once and it didn't work out because we were too young and we weren't ready. Now, I think he really likes me, and I think I like him. He went out with another girl once and he said it didn't work out at all. He drops hints that he likes me all the time. Does he like me or is he just being friendly? Help!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-13 03:30:17 · 4 answers · asked by retooser 4

A guy may kiss you after a first date, but many guys never actually ask a girl, "Will you be my girlfriend". What gives? So when are you offically dating??

2006-12-13 03:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by staci 1

So ok there is this guy. i wen out with him 6th 7th 8th 9th and now soon 10th .. ok we always were on and off. and no matter wat we do. we ALWAYS like eachother. even when were just friends. we try so hard. but we always end up bak with eachotehr. Now this is the confusing part. Me and him jsut got IN A HUGE fight. for 5 months we didnt talk this fast friday we saw eachother and we made up.. we had a sleepover witha bu nch of friends and we were up all night talking. and stuff. now again we both like eachohter. i wanna be with this kid. no more messing around and fighting. and he told me he has the same feeling but he d oesnt think i like him..? wat do i dooo?

2006-12-13 03:28:57 · 15 answers · asked by Samantha Rae 1

Can you tell the difference between a really shy guy from a guy with low self-esteem?

2006-12-13 03:28:11 · 11 answers · asked by James 2

I Love my boyfriend so much, and I want to be with him forever. He had some past girls ever since I left him last year, now he's in trouble with some guy, then he comes and sees the girl he was seeing before me and him got back again (we got together again in november of this year). However, she called him, and can you beleive she invited him over and he told me she kissed him but he pushed her back and said he had a girl, but then im like 'why did you go?' and I just get so frustrated. What can I do, he says he trully loves me and wants to marry me some day. I also want to marry him because I love him, but all this gets in the way and
I haven't even been able to sleep. This may seem confusing, but if you have any advice I'd really appreciate it, or anything that you can tell me to make me see or make things better

2006-12-13 03:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by Candy_T 2

I was totally in love with her, but we argued over telling my parents/work that we are together. I look exceptionally straight, and have been with men mostly, however I totally fell in love with this woman and believe we could be happy together for the rest of our lives. My ex has approached me again and said she is willing to work it out, and not force me into telling my parents (most of my friends know). However we want to get married. My mum will disown me if she found out. She is very homophobic, as is the rest of my entire family. I am torn between being with the person I love and leaving her so my family never have to know. I know that thy would never forgive me, and I can choose which is going to giveme more pain. However I know she makes me happier than ever! She is my soul mate, but why is it coming at a price?

2006-12-13 03:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by Sophie 3

I really believe that this guy and me have something special and now he wants 2 meet me - should I meet him? I think I have fallen for him............... Help me pls!!!!

2006-12-13 03:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by Daisy 1

he has photos of his ex girlfriend in her undewear on his phone he claims that she sent them to him, he has also lied about meeting up with her. he claims that they are just friends. She always phones him and sends him text messages. I don't want him to have any contact with her anymore, they have no reason to keep in contact no kids or mutual friends. He asked me to marry him, but i don't feel that he loves me enough. i love him very much but also i want someone who treats me like a girlfriend not a friend. he never stands up for me. is it wrong that i want someone to treat me like i'm the most important thing in the world, not ignore me to talk on the phone to their ex or their playstation. someone that doesn't answer their phone during sex, that gives me their full attention when they are with me. he never introduces me to his friends. i don't know what to do anymore

2006-12-13 03:24:26 · 26 answers · asked by jadescorpionbite 1

ok here is the deal. i met a girl earlier in the year. she was with her boyfriend of over a year and it was coming to an end. right as it was ending i started hanging out with her. then she dumped him. and after waiting a month i asked her out, but i also asked if it was too soon because i really liked her and was willing to just be friends a while longer, to which she said of course not. so we have been going out for almost two months now and i fell for her. she told me that she loved me and i sincerely told her back because i really do. however, the past week or s she had been distancing a bit from me and as we hadnt seen each other in a while i asked if she still liked me over the phone, i would have rather done it in person but we couldnt find the time and i was getting worried. so she said basically that she thinks that she jumped into this too quickly and never got her freedom. so, what can i do to put things how they were before we actually break up. i think im in love with her.

2006-12-13 03:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by stev-o 1

I have know him about a month and last sat i had too much to drink and slept with him. i regret it as i did not want to do it so early. He said he was coming to see me on wednesday, and now he says hes working wednesday, do you think he just used me, although he said he was not expecting it. I don,t want to have sex with him again until i know him alot better and knwo how he truly thinks about me, i have made a big mistake and regret him. i don,t think i am going to hear from him again, although he did phone the other day, i really like him as well and don,t want to lose him, what ought i to do. I don,t want him to think i am crazy about him. although i am quite a bit, or have him take me for granted, what the best way out of this.

2006-12-13 03:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2

2006-12-13 03:23:27 · 2 answers · asked by Craig L 1

2006-12-13 03:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by bhagyashrigawde 1

Well to start off: I've known this girl for more than a year and in this time she has proved on a daily basis that she is perfect(my own definition of perfect being: kind,smart,funny,cute and friendly) and during the summer i ended up falling for her(hard would be an understatement)... now comes the sad part: i've talked to her over the last month and a half online and i told her exactly how i see her and how i feel for her and she told me that she didn't see as anything more than a very good friend(well brother is the term she used but in a non-literal sense) and subsequent talks with her have revealed that i'm neither her type(the kind of guy she usually dates) and that she will probably never see me as anything more than i already am...a brother...at the present time i'm hiding my emotions...and its not hard...more like damn near impossible...any advice for a doomed soul guys and girls?

2006-12-13 03:23:05 · 1 answers · asked by Lone Silver Wolf 3

2006-12-13 03:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by besthusbandever 4