well right now i'm talking to this guy that i think that i feel something for him but i dont really know yet. we were tying to hookup in the summer but we couldn't cause he has a kid with another girl thats why i back up. now he came looking for me again and i found out that he has nothing to do with the other girl any more. but now the problem is that i'm hanging out with some bad people (thats what everybody calls them in school) and there is a guy that hangs out with me that likes me and he dosen't want me to talk to him cause he is from another gang. what should i do? should i stop talking to him or not? help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 03:39:09 · 16 answers · asked by angelica v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop both losers and start hanging out with a good crowd. Your life is going nowhere right now.
Who you hang out with is a reflection of yourself. You must have very low self esteem and you probably don't think much of yourself. That is a bunch of baloney. Know that you deserve more in life and more from yourself and go get the life that you deserve.
The way you are right now, you will end up in loserville, single mom, smoking crack, no support from any of your men, living on welfare, and prostituting yourself. What kind of a life is that? You might as well save the trouble and shoot yourself and save tax payers money.
Drop the losers, and drop your friends, and get your life together first before you even think about having a boyfriend.
2006-12-13 03:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you should do is get out of your group of bad people. The word gang really stood out to me and typically gang people are bad. he could end up threatening you or hurting the guy you're talking to. I wouldn't get messed up with anyone in a gang because that can put your life and anyone you care about in danger. i woudn't want to get in between two different gangs because that can lead to trouble. I think you should stop talking to him until you get away from the guy that doesn't want you talking to him. Then you can decide if you want to go ahead and try it with the guy you're talking to.
2006-12-13 03:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on school-you obviously haven't been. You don't need to date someone with children who is in school and if he isn't in school then he should be. If he is graduated or too old then he is simply too old for you. AND!!! HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE GIRL HE FATHERED A CHILD WITH?!?! what does that say about this individual? I could tell you a lot of things it says and I can tell you that it doesn't scream "responsible!" or "caring!" or "good life partner!" Is this what you want for yourself? Someone else's left overs that will leave you in the same position? Climb out of the ghetto darlin. We need more successful women in the world not more violence, baby drama, and poorly educated hangers on.
2006-12-13 03:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by question asker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest do you have any feelings for this guy and what is your take on him having a child from another woman What do you want out of the relationship and do you think you can handle knowing this guy will never be totally yours because of this child that he had with another woman that he was involved with I wish you the best of luck and pray you do not get hurt
2006-12-13 03:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gangs are a bad thing to be involve with....trust me i kno...mixing gangs is even worse...personally id choose my friends over my "boyfriend" he left his girl and kid what makes you think he'll be around for you guys like that arent very dependable and will just cause you pain----just stick with your friends---and if hes really that important to you then go for it but when you get hurt make sure your friends got your back and if there anything like my friends they'd flip out and go after the guy...and gang members dont fight alone trust me it starts a chain reaction...not a good place to be~aslhlie~
2006-12-13 03:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all it is never a good idea to socialize with gangsters and even worse get into gang wars. I think you should try to extricate yourself from the gang and then find a decent guy; maybe this one.
2006-12-13 03:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think u should stop talkin to both!!! Gangs are the most ridiculous thing ever! There hilarious! Its just a way for insecure people to try to prove that there tough, it makes me laugh...
2006-12-13 03:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Asia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from the "gangs" and the "bad people". The decisions you make now in your life will afftect you for the rest of your life.
2006-12-13 03:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in a bad school that has alot of gangs and stuff i still talk to my friends if there in a gang but if they ask me if i wanna join or something bad like that i step back and i just clear stuff up with them saying that i do not wanna get involved with that kind of stuff cuz im not that type of person. so just do wut ever but dont let him take control of you just cuz hes in a gang. just be careful.
2006-12-13 03:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by mexican-mami 15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're talking about gangs, you know what to do. You have already made the choice of whose side your on.
2006-12-13 03:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋