ok..two guys like me...well they claim to love me...both gave me a promise ring..they both know about eachother..and they hate eachother..they r waiting on me to make a decision..but i dont kno who to pik because i know i like them both but i know deep down in my heart i love one more than the other..how can i tell which one i love more??? because i have been waiting around now for about a couples weeks and my heart wont answer me...they both make me feel good..depending on which one im with..one is in school the other isnt..so wen im at school.. that one makes me happy..then wen im home the pther one does...who do i pik?? ive already dated them both in the past. the one out of school for a year off n on and the one in school now for about a month....who do u think i should pik?? or wat should i do?
2006-12-13 03:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy. I dont know how u feel. But if u wanna test them how much they love u. Ask one qn. "why do u love me"...seriouly. The one who answer quickly used to be the one who is not trufully loving u.
Then to test whether u think who u want more. Imagine. U are married. And u are to exchange vows with a guy. The first guy who came across to u whom u wanna marry. congrats. 2 tests. 1 guy . whole life of urs. all done.
2006-12-13 03:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep dating them both until you figure it out. One is bound to slip up sooner or later.
There is nothing wrong with dating 2 men at the same time. Don't accept the promise ring because that's a complete lie on your part. Tell them politely that you want to be free and you don't want to make a firm decision yet because you're not ready.
In fact, date more people and see what's out there. You will probably find someone who is much better than these two. If they know about each other and have forced a promise ring on you, they are psycho. They have no regard for how you feel and they are forcing you to commit when you don't want to.
2006-12-13 03:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both and look for someone better. No one deserves you you are too good for both of them. I can't believe that you are not enjoying every minute of this. You could have made a decision long before it became this serious.
2006-12-13 03:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know wich one, it will be there somewere and if you cant decide then decide to go with one and if it is the wrong one then your brain will tell you so and also, which one do you feel most comfterble with?? You need to be able to be your self with him
hope this helps
2006-12-13 03:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by xxflinxx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said you like one more than the other. Go with him if you think things could work out. Not really fair to go out with someone when you like someone else.
2006-12-13 03:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing to do is follow your heart your heart will guide you trust me i know i followed my heart and it brought me to the one i love and weve been together for a year and 6 months and were still happy
2006-12-13 03:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask them to decide and pic the one who says no coz they love u da most coz day just whan't u 2 b happy
2006-12-13 03:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kate M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should test them and see which one will treat you better.. Which one do you get along with better? Guys should treat you the best when they are tryin to win you over.. Which one trys harder?
2006-12-13 03:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by kmichelle89 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whichever one likes your hat the most.
2006-12-13 03:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by wvucountryroads 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just said it yourself that you know you love one of them more than the other. so choose that one!
2006-12-13 03:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋