Singles & Dating - 30 November 2006

I met this guy at a party last night, one thing led to another and we ended up spending most of the evening together. We then went bar hoping and clubbing till the early hours and he invited me back to his for more drinking. We ended up sitting on his sofa chatting and holding hands till 5am and then he asked me to stay over promising to be a total gentleman. He was, we went straight to sleep I woke up with him holding me and he kissed me for the first time in the morning. He is off on holiday for 3/4 weeks today, but asked for my number when I left and said he would call me when he got back.

1) Is the fact he was a gentleman indicative of him liking me or not being interested
2) Is it likely he just asked for my number to be polite
3) Is the fact he said he was going to phone on his return good indication he is thinking of pursuing this or the polite brush off
4) If he was really interested would he not call or text from holiday.


Any other comments?

2006-11-30 07:12:46 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2

We had been having hot sex four days before.

He told me about this himself without prompting 3 weeks after the event.There was no way I would have otherwise found out.

He got drunk with college friends from 6pm onwards.He then offered to walk a girl he thought didn't like him to the train station.She missed her train.Between the two of them they got a hotel room-double/single I didn't ask.Once in the room he said he wanted to just sleep, but she suggested sex.She guided him into her and they had sex "twice but in the same sequence of events" he also remembers going down on her.The next morning he says he felt awful about it.

Roll on 3 weeks.We haven't had sex in a while. I notice he hasn't been calling as much as usual. We go out for a meal and when I get flirtatious and suggest going home with him, he backs off.

So last friday. He comes over and confesses.We are both 24 we have been together 5years and were both virgins before we met.

2006-11-30 07:12:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months. I suddenly just stopped loving him. I mean I still like him as a friend and I want to stay with him longer but I haven't felt any closeness to him lately. I can't break up with him because he's going to a dance show for me and christmas is ocming up and i just plaine don't want to. So I guess I'm asking if anyone can give me advice to feel close to him again.

2006-11-30 07:11:58 · 5 answers · asked by BalletAlyssa 1

Im overweight, but not extremely overweight. Im a size 16 and currently exercising regularly and eating a balanced to lose weight for my sisters wedding in july 2007. I can't seem to get the attention of guys. I feel its my size that is the problem. Do most men judge women by their outer appearance. Im not ugly, just slightly out of shape

2006-11-30 07:11:35 · 21 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2

I like a guy in work and im not sure whether he feels the same for me i think he does but cant be sure. He seems shy and very rarely initates conversation yet he does reply to my emails and lend me his dvds. Once we get talking we have quite a bit in common. So if a guy doesnt start the conversation often does that mean hes not interested?

He doesnt really initiate conversations with other girls either but will talk to them if they make convo with him

2006-11-30 07:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

2006-11-30 07:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Element 115 2

im shy and i really dont know how to approach this guy that i like he talks to my mom alot but he never talks to me and he is the manager that works at a grocery store and he came and sacked for my mom one day and he didnt have to but he was checking me out

2006-11-30 07:09:00 · 19 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1

How do I find you?

You're single and looking for the right guy, but until you find him ...

2006-11-30 07:08:46 · 17 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I love her very much but I am stuck on thinking of christmas presents lol well anything helps. Thanks

2006-11-30 07:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by Nathan F 1

My friend has a chronic disease which causes him a lot of pain and he has to take tablets every day The disease affects his bones and he may end up bent or disabled Also he carries genes for this and there is a 1 in 5 chance that a child of his would inherit it, He has a fairly new gf and has asked me not to mention his pains. When should he tell her about all this?

2006-11-30 07:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by maryjane 1

i knoe its horrible, im square!! help me out here people what and how do i do it? please i cant be square forever? what if iam a bad kisser omg !

2006-11-30 07:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard that when a guy spends a long time kissing a girl, this means he has feelings for her? A guy who doesn't have feelings for a girl will rush through the kissing to get to the sex. Is this true?

2006-11-30 07:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2

Should i.................?
im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?

whenever on MSN she never says hi 2 me im the 1 hu strts off the conversation
whenever i ask her why shes so quite she would say 2 me tht she is busy chttin to some1

2006-11-30 07:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to make my boyfriend laugh. Like, on a daily basis. I'm just not funny, or at least not funny to him. I want to make him happy, like how he makes me. I don't want it to always be so serious with us, but to have fun (don't' get me wrong, we do), but I still want to make him laugh. Is it just a personality defect, or what?

Thankies!

2006-11-30 07:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by cadence_lost 3

I love my boyfriend, if he is the same man I fell in love with. I found out, after 2 years of a perfect relationship, that my boyfriend was texting 2 other girls. I used to never worry about anything beause things were so perfect that I thought our bond was untouchable. I trusted him inplicitly and I felt secure and loved. He made me feel so special and he was so special to me. I thought nothing could ever replace the bond that we had. When I found out he was texting he said it was wrong and it had nothing to do with us. He said it was an ego boost for him and it made him feel like he still had it. What he did to boost his ego crushed mine. I know plenty of guys that would love to have what he has. I would never entertain that and have never given any hope to them. They know about my boyfriend...i've always been upfront and always will be. How do I get that feeling back in the relationship i'm in. I want to feel special and irreplacable again. Is this possible with him?

2006-11-30 07:05:30 · 7 answers · asked by electra4 1

we had a rocky break up. and i know that he still cares. i found out that i had cancer and i told him and he wants to be supportive but he is afraid to show affection. what do i do he wants us to work but not rite now. and rite now i want him to help me through this, but i making him mad by not giving him his space. HELP

2006-11-30 07:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 07:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is often said that your first love is your true love. True or False? What do you think?
My first love wasn't my true love.

2006-11-30 07:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7

I'm with this girl, she ask me out (in a shy manner). She told me her baby father brought down her self esteem and that I'm bringing it up. The last guy she was with after her baby father right before me couldn't perform in bed but she tells me I can. She said the last guy felt threatin by her babys father and she didn't like that. She talks about her babys father alot bringing in examples of him when where having convo ( not a lot but a little to much) so i understand why he felt that way. This guy was her first, they have a baby together, and they once lived with each other (the whole family envoriment). So does she still have feelings for him? Am I around just till she feels better about her self? Or will she find someone else to fill a void that she feels she is missing?

2006-11-30 07:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by p q 1

How do you know if someone is lying to you, like will they loose eye contact, like that sort of thing

2006-11-30 07:01:41 · 24 answers · asked by All I need is you 2

Ok, me and my bf have last period together in school. But there is this girl who comes over and talks to this other girl. When we enter the classroom, she gets a big smile on her face and she sits on my bf desk, and she talks to him and messes around with him. I'm getting rly mad, but I don't know what to tell her. She shouldn't do it again cause he got his sit moved to the other side of me. But if she does do it again, I will flip out on her. Any ideas on what I should do or say?? please help because this is really bothering me

2006-11-30 07:01:07 · 13 answers · asked by xxxmorbid_vampirexxx 3

Im only 18 and I still have my whole life to live but all the guys my age are players. So if theres any guys my age that arent players email me..

2006-11-30 07:00:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 07:00:28 · 14 answers · asked by stephen t 1

I am not very forward when it comes to meeting women. They either think I'm taken or that I don't like them.

I really a great catch (as I've heard from many female friends) .

So...How can I let women know I am single and interested without seeming desperate or h0rny?

2006-11-30 07:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by neyoneyon 2

2006-11-30 06:59:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats a good thing to talk about with your gf

2006-11-30 06:59:35 · 4 answers · asked by Spade 1

Our neighbors have a daughter around my age. They had left for a few days and asked my parents if they could feed their fish and cats. My parents said yes, and one day they asked me to go do it. When I was in the house feeding the animals I went to the girls room and sniffed and stole a couple of panties. Do you think she'll find out it was me?

2006-11-30 06:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1

I've recently started liking this girl. Im 18, shes 23. We flirt, chat, joke etc at work, we get on great. Then i have a break from work due to study, and when i see her, she either avoids me, or just says a simple hello. Eg one time i saw her in the library, but then she ran away! She didn't even say hi or anything. I mean, we get along so great at work, but whats up with this? I like her, but now im not too sure how she feels about me. Im confused to how she sees me. How can someone be so different? Any ideas? I get along ok with her friends and everything, so that isn't the problem. Although when i see her, she is with her friends. Maybe she feels or senses something is up? Any help would be appreciated. Also she is leaving in a month or so, so yeah...should i tell her i like her? How would that affect our working relationship?

2006-11-30 06:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by tao_gettos 1

I seen answers 2-3, and 4 do people really think this. I think that's nuts! What if your 35 2 partners in all that time is too many. Or even I know some 25 year olds that are divorced, if they sleep with someone after, they are a whore? Bah too much focus on numbers, it's the attitude of the girl. What do you think?

2006-11-30 06:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by krissy 5

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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16 hours ago
she just sent me another one also that said shes not trying to stalk me or be mean she just wants to see how im doing and how schools going and stuff

2006-11-30 06:56:59 · 20 answers · asked by osb2904 1