Im only 18 and I still have my whole life to live but all the guys my age are players. So if theres any guys my age that arent players email me..
2006-11-30 07:00:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not a player but I am WAY TOO OLD for you. But I will offer you some advice:
Not all of those guys are players-every guy (sometimes secretly!) wants to be a "player". They think that the way to be successful with girls is to act like they are successful with girls.
Then when they have a gf- they do what they have seen other guys do and do something stupid like neglecting or mistreating the girl that they have. Did you ever hear the expression"one in the hand is worth two in the bush?" It is a reference to hunting but it speaks of appreciating what you have instead of what you think that you COULD have.
A lot of guys do this-most of them aren't worth your time. They are immature, they use and abuse people. They get away with this behavior because of the high selfesteem level that they pretend to have. Some girls have low self esteem at this age- they think that they"NEED " this guy, that there will never be anyone else- GIMMEE A BREAK !
Some rules for you! Just think about them ,OK? you seem like a nice girl because of the way that you phrase your question.
1) choose your friends and boyfriends- DON"T let them choose you!
2) Value yourself( both mentally and physically) in a relationship-do not allow yourself to be used
3) never forget your roots- family and friends are the most important thing that you have at this point in your life-never shut them out
4)Love IS NOT instant -it must be worked at and tended like a garden-given room to breath, fed and nourished, pampered,etc.
5) Love is a two way street- find and insist on a balance
6) remember that relationships are NOT 50/50 they are 100/100 !
I have two teenagers who have both received the same advice.
2006-11-30 07:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the guys that are your age are not players. Its the older guys that have been around the block a few times that are the players. I am quite sure of this.
2006-11-30 07:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 18 too, and I can tell ya that non-players are few and far between. But yes, they do exist. The legend goes that on a cold winter night, underneath the full moon..... one will appear! *Gasp* :P
Meh, just have hope. I may be a non-player, but I'm also outta shape, something I've been really working on. So if you want the kind of man... that you want, you gotta be patient and give us time to "become" that guy,
2006-11-30 07:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of guys that aren't players your just looking in the wrong places and at the w&%kers
im a nice guy
xx
2006-11-30 07:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by maty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wats ur age meaning? exactly 18? or like 2-3 years older younger etc.
2006-11-30 07:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, ok mother therissa, the game is to be played not told, just join in. OR
you can alwayz hookup with some fags..
2006-11-30 07:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
players are everywhere best thing to do is date a few so you can spot them later on in life and avoid them!
2006-11-30 07:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a player, and if you look like your avatar I'm already in love with you.
2006-11-30 07:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by stone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is a player, explain, I might be one.
2006-11-30 07:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try dating older guys. Also, if you are going to college, you may find more mature and focused guys there.
2006-11-30 07:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by hanleyhatfield 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋