Singles & Dating - 29 November 2006

IN GENERAL but not always!
I've spoken to many of my pretty girl friends from all different ethnicities and we've come to the same conclusion. The guys from our respective ethnicities tend to think we're more obtainable simply because we have a shared culture and are really aggressive (like one 20 yr old guy grabbed my friends boob)...

or they attempt to ignore us and treat us like ****. (another guy rolled his eyes and spoke to everyone but the girl from his ethnicity) It's generally never just a normal interaction. I know, I've heard they probably think we're snobby because of one reason or another and they are trying to take us down a peg. But this can not simply be it. What other reasons for this and what can we do stop this disrespect?

2006-11-29 12:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 20 year old male and I just had sex for the first time and it did not feel great. It was kind of boring, I enjoyed the foreplay and everything but when we started having sex it was not enough pleasure to make me orgasm. Is this normal or what should I do?

2006-11-29 12:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by barker67860 2

Would u give a boy u like a note telling him how u felt about him????

2006-11-29 12:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Grumpy chic 1

He's a senior (in high school) and I'm a junior, and we met in March of this year. Since, we have fooled around twice... I haven't seen him since the summer until yesterday, and he now goes to my school. Please help me flirt without being too obvious or seem desperate. :-)

2006-11-29 12:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by rainbow rider 2

im going through a phase where im spending too much time by myself and i need a laugh.
share a story?

2006-11-29 12:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by nαrcíssα [misses being a TC] 6

Just the other day I heard him talking to his friends saying "should I ask her out? I know her so well and I think she is such a great person." so since I had been getting close to him and chatting it up I thought he was talking about me so I walked by as sexy as I could, turned my head, looked at him, giggled, turned back around and kept walking. So the next day I dressed up the best I could, put my best shoes on and when I got to school he walked up to me and said, "Hey, Melissa, Could you tell me where Stephanie is? I have something important to ask her." so I said she should be walking to room 606 and he left. Then at lunch I went and told Stephanie that I thought he would ask me out but all she said was, "What are you talking about? He already asked me out!" So I went home and cried and now I don't know what to do because Steph and Alex are mad at me. Please help!!

2006-11-29 12:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by lkassica 2

I told this 17 year old girl I was doing that I loved her in the heat of the moment. She would smoke my weed and then get into sex. Now she got herself pregnant, probably wanting to believe I was into her.

How do I avoid child support? Can I move and just work a cash job under the table? I'm 42, I can't pay out for the next 20 years. I offered to give her abortion money, she said no. So in my mind I owe nothing. It is her "choice." Let her pay. She is hot, but will probably gain weight after having a kid, and may try and get herself pregnant again, so I don't want her around. Plus she doesn't give B.J.'s.

Is there a site to help me skip on this whole support B.S.?

2006-11-29 12:42:12 · 26 answers · asked by Benito M 1

I have very strong feelings for my friend *Susie, and since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she is available. She said that she wants to be single for a while, and I respect that. But once she wants to another shoulder to cry on, I'm afraid that I'll miss my chance with her. What should I do?


Also, my OTHER friend *Kat basically HATES Susie, and doesn't want me to be friends with her because she says that Susie has hurt me previously when I tried to get into a relationship with her. I have moved past it, but Kat hasn't and says that she never will. I am afraid that if I try and get into a relationship with Susie, then Kat would disown me. What should I do?



*see my previously asked questions

2006-11-29 12:41:54 · 12 answers · asked by Jake 2

ok i like this boy whose in my grade, last year we were really close we talked like everyday...now i hardly talk to him, the only attencion i have gotten from him in like a week is becuase i sprained my ankel on monday..so i was on crutches. he felt bad for me =/..i have the biggest crush on him...i have liked this kid since like june..now that i am in highschool there are alot of other pretty girls...and he likes this one girl( who is one of my best friends) so what should i do? its hard to just forget about him.how can i get close to him again?

2006-11-29 12:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What circumstances would be acceptable for this type of behavior. He's enroute to the US and is in the navy. The last time I checked, I recieved an email from him on yesterday so the nipr/sipr can't be down. Ummm, the phone call maybe I just want some type of reassurance from him that he remembers my birthday. I don't think he made a mental note like I have with everything we do. Ladies, help me out, what will you do??? I'm looking for excuses to say well maybe I will let him slip by with this one, what do you think? I believe if someone loves you no matter how far you guys are apart from each other, if I knew there might be a slim chance that the communication line goes down I would have reminded you that I still remember your birthday and have a happy early birthday wish from me. Well that's how I feel, so what do you think?

2006-11-29 12:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by sunny d 1

So this jerk always randomly comes up to me and bothers me. And by 'bothers' I mean he throws little papers at me and tries to trip me, or says stupid things like 'Hey Blondie' in this obnoxious voice.

How f----ing mature, right...
And I always catch him staring at me. It's extremely annoying.

I've told him flat out how annoying he is and to leave me alone, but he doesn't.

Any advice on what to do next time he bothers me? I'm not someone who would scream or make a scene, so don't suggest that.
And I think that's exactly why he's doing this: to get some kind of reaction. Hahh, what a loser.

K thanks.

2006-11-29 12:40:51 · 25 answers · asked by :] 3

okay say i have a crush on someone, & he's my friend. but me & him sorta kinda just STOPPED talking all of a sudden. no phonecalls; nothing. is that baddd? or is it good to give him some room & get back to talking to him a few weeks later & just say, "heyy! i haven't talked to you in foreverrr" ha, maybe then we won't run outta things to talk about; since we have so much catching up to do, riiight?

2006-11-29 12:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by Taylor. 5

My son, who is 21, was in the hospital for an extended period, and a nurse there, who is 43, formed some kind of attraction to him. So when he came home she continued to call him pretty much every day, once at 12:00 a.m. (I quickly put an end to that!), was sending him pictures, and wanted him to come live with her. To me, a woman that age with grown children could only view someone that much younger as a child also. What's the attraction to much younger men? And, should I interfere?

2006-11-29 12:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u love him, will you move over to their country and stay with him?
its need alots of sacrifying and its risky.

2006-11-29 12:36:28 · 4 answers · asked by grace 1

i just got this new boyfriend that i have liked for ever! but every time i try to talk to him i choke... the words won't come out. I don't want him to break up with me. i've already written him a note and explained why i never talk 2 him.... but i love him soooo much and i don't want to break up. what should i do??

2006-11-29 12:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by trish 1

ive liked him ever since the first day of 7th grade when he walked into first hour and i h avent quit liking him since he would flirt with me all the time then i finally got the courage to ask him if he liked me and he said no i was devistated! and i asked him one more time in the past 2 months and he said no (the first time wasnt really an ask) i see himm all the time in the halls and for some reason i think he like me bu ti know he doesnt i try to like other guys but i always say to myself that he is the ONE for me. i need help DESPERATLY

2006-11-29 12:35:30 · 2 answers · asked by lex 1

hello,i feel like i have losts my familly.you see my wife and i havent been geting along with each other for about 3to 4 yrs .we've done alot of dameg to each other and espeasity are 2 kids. my wife cheeted on me 1 yr, ago and i was a adict also but now ive been recoverd over 1 yr now and some how things dont change .you see i dont even now who that other person is or what he looks like .that guy that ifound out she was cheeting onme .for all i now he could be my next door neibger .and ived asked here and shell never tell me ..so i cant forgive something i dont now ..so i tryed for a year,and just cant forget somrthing i dont now .and i can live wth someone who belittle me and mentually abuse me .shes never happy evryday it seems i never do nothing right .i feel she stoped loving me along time ago,i just dont feel here love that used to have tords me any mor like when she did care.now i left the house andmissmykidsbuticanputkidsthrought this.butifeelishouldbeclose2themwhatshuodido

2006-11-29 12:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by gustavo r 1

I have a great idea for a movie, what do you think? Me and my friend work in New York City at a brokerage firm for a man named Jar Jar Binks. We uncover that someone has been stealing money, and as a reward, Jar Jar Binks invites us to his beach house, which is an amazing locale. Shortly after we arrive, Jar Jar Binks dies, but we want to stay and party! So we have to carry Jar Jar around so he looks like he is walking, and do other stuff so people think he is still alive! Do you think it will be good?

Being intimate to Jar Jar Binks
Be intimate with Jar Jar Binks
jarjarbinkslover
jarjarbinksfan

2006-11-29 12:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is the stupidest bit.ch of a wh0re that I have ever met.

2006-11-29 12:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by dave p 1

I use to talk to this guy like way back but now we dont talk for some strange reason. I see him around in halls and stuff and everytime i pass buy he always stares at me and when we are face to face(walking buy each other) he looks me directly in my eyes without saying anything. I was at my locker one time and he fully walked by and turned his head around to see where my locker was at like it was so obvious. This next time when i was walking home and i turned around i could fully tell he was like following me it was sooo creepy. He would just stand there and watch me. Like hes cute and stuff but if you like someone just tell them right like why cant he just tell me? Does he hate me or something? or is he obssesed? Please help??

and whenever im with a guy he fully watches the guy and doesnt take his eyes off the guy -its freaky and next day he would be rockin the same sort of outfit the guy i was wit have on.

2006-11-29 12:33:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz help as soon as you can and tell me what he can do to me as we doing this

2006-11-29 12:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by SmartAss 2

After a few years of online chatting, I finally met this guy. We were cool and were intimate about 4 times, but then I developed feelings for him and I told him, but he wasnt interested in me like that. However, during the short time I was with him, I met his cousin with whom I hit it off pretty well. When I wasnt talking to my friend (he decided to ignore me after I poured out my feelings), his cousin and I chatted and talked on the phone for a bit (nothing flirtatious). His cousin even got mad at me when he found out that I had reconciled with my friend (his cousin). Now the cousin is telling me that he likes me and whats to talk to me on a romantic level..I for one, dont want to because I view myself as off limits to him since I was intimate with his cousin (although he treated me like garbage). However, my friends are saying give him a chance because we might be meant to be. Although I no longer have feelings for my friend, I just would be too uncomfortable to even do that. Advice?

2006-11-29 12:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by Hi'deena 2

A boy takes his girlfriend home after going out together.

When they reach the front door, he leans against the wall with one hand and says, "Sweetie, why don't you give me a blow/job?"
"What? You're crazy!"
"Don't worry, it will be quick, no problem."
"No!! Someone may see -- a relative, a neighbor..."
"At this time of the night? No one will show up..."
"I've already said No, and NO!"
"Honey, it's just a small blowie...I know you'd like it, too..."
"No! I've said NO!"
"My love... Don't be like that..."
At this moment, the girlfriend's younger sister shows up at the door in her nightgown with her hair totally in disorder. Rubbing her eyes, she says, "Dad says either you have to blow him, I have to blow him, or he will come down and give the guy a blow/job himself, but for God's sake, tell your boyfriend to take his hand off the intercom!"

2006-11-29 12:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in 8th grade and I know she likes me but i just get nervous plus i'm broke so i can't go anywhere

2006-11-29 12:29:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not talking about girl's walking around in ankle length skirts and neck high shirts, I'm just talking about those of us who prefer to leave a little more to the imagination.

2006-11-29 12:29:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:27:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by akjfaithlove5456312 1

Ok, I'm a teenager girl in high school. I'm 5' 7", size women 4, shoulder length red hair, barely any acne, blue eyes, and pale skin. Would you think I'm hot? and do you perfer "good" girls or "bad" girls?

2006-11-29 12:26:12 · 14 answers · asked by ~*MysteryGirl*~ 2