After a few years of online chatting, I finally met this guy. We were cool and were intimate about 4 times, but then I developed feelings for him and I told him, but he wasnt interested in me like that. However, during the short time I was with him, I met his cousin with whom I hit it off pretty well. When I wasnt talking to my friend (he decided to ignore me after I poured out my feelings), his cousin and I chatted and talked on the phone for a bit (nothing flirtatious). His cousin even got mad at me when he found out that I had reconciled with my friend (his cousin). Now the cousin is telling me that he likes me and whats to talk to me on a romantic level..I for one, dont want to because I view myself as off limits to him since I was intimate with his cousin (although he treated me like garbage). However, my friends are saying give him a chance because we might be meant to be. Although I no longer have feelings for my friend, I just would be too uncomfortable to even do that. Advice?
2006-11-29 12:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by Hi'deena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never had anything with his cousin, he never liked you , so it is all right, you shouldnt feel uncomfortable...i'd go for it!
2006-11-29 12:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be different if they were "brothers".
But they're just cousins. Go for it.
You're friend already told you he wasn't interested in you for relationship material. There's your green flag.
If you like the other guy and might return his interest then there's nothing stopping you. But make sure you are no longer getting intimate with the first guy.
2006-11-29 12:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by mrspunkmeister2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you no longer have the feeling with your freind who treated you like a garbage so what , his cousin may be worth to be why don't you maintain the friendship for a while ,and if not work out the way you want then you just forget it .& say hey I am out .
2006-11-29 12:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 09:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There cousins,They talk to each other,You'll get passed back and forth like football.Then when there finished,they'll put you down and pick up someone else.Your a young lady.Act like one,and don't let yourself be taken in by guys you don't really know anything about.
2006-11-29 12:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in knowing that hit and run might be in that family's blood. If you're prepared to get heart broken again, go for it. Relationship is always a gamble anyway.
2006-11-29 12:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't do it.. he (the cousin) might just want to take advantages out of u, seeing u being ignored by his cousin...
but it's totally up to u... your life, your decision.
2006-11-29 12:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by b_r_a_v_o_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we maybe you should go some were you can go to get help get tested for std and tlak to your mom and dad they will be mad at 1st but they be glad that you told
2006-11-29 12:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart if it feels right to do then do it. if not let him go.you dont want to give him mixed signals. good luck
2006-11-29 12:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right don't go with a member of your ex's family
2006-11-29 12:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋