Singles & Dating - 27 November 2006

Ever get the feeling your s/o is living by the opinions of other people and bring them into your lives.....

Like they would have an opinion or say something that is totally not them.....say someone who goes 100% by what people post here and go back to their s/o and say what other people say.

2006-11-27 05:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this guy about a year ago we broke up but he has remained in my life as a friend he is really supporitive and is an all around good guy. He isnt that good looking though. but he has recently come back wanting to be more than just friends he says that he has not stopped loving me since we broke up a year ago. And that this could turn into something more if i wanted it to. When i am with him i feel happy and safe like i could date him again, but i am uncertain that he loves me and i dont know how to get him to prove it to me. But when we broke up the last time he cried really hard and threw a big fit ya know those fits that toddlers throw when they want something! and i am scared that he is going to do that again and i dont want that in a relationship i want a man not someone who cries more than me. once and a while if the moment calls for it than fine, but when we fight come on!. But is older brother says that he has changed alot really grew up, Do you think one more time or not

2006-11-27 05:17:29 · 20 answers · asked by pitbull luver 1

He just heard i liked him, and now he is really mean to me around his buddies, but we have never been alone and never will be, because i have no school classes with him! and he asked me my phone number, but a week later called me ugly. And he used to ask me everyday who i liked and i told him that i liked him, what do i do? does he like me? NOW HE JUST LAUGHS ABOUT ME WITH HIS BUDS!

2006-11-27 05:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4

girls, I am a guy, and I am asking, whats your opinion on hair down low, how much should a man shave

2006-11-27 05:16:38 · 19 answers · asked by Sharp 1

Me and my girlfriend has been going out for over 4 years now(high school sweethearts) and i really trust her. So it was my girlfriend's first experience at a club last friday whom she went with her cousins. Next day she tells me everything that happened because she knew she had nothing to hide. At first I felt jealous and angry because she told me she danced with 3 other guys that night. She felt guilty for it, but I told her that I didnt want her to feel guilty for having fun. It was her first experience and my first experience as a boyfriend to hear that she was dancing with other guys. I talked to her about it and I understood that she kept her boundaries. The only question is, why is this feeling of emptiness still inside? I thought about it and I guess that I just can't see or imagine her with another guy. Even if it wasn't dancing but if we were to break up, it would be so hard to just see her with another guy. What can I do to overcome this feeling?

2006-11-27 05:16:36 · 14 answers · asked by Chau 1

Have any of you ever been completely and utterly broke. Nada, Nothing, Zip?

2006-11-27 05:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been in love with a guy. we've gone out together for 2 years. and after 2 years, we started fighting a lot. there was a lack of understanding. then he decided to end up everyhting. i still love him a lot. i talked to him about getting back together, but he refused and said that we can never be together again. What SHOULD I DO TO GET HIM BACK???? Please help me. i really love him dearly, deeply. I want him back.

2006-11-27 05:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex calls me everyday and tells me how much he misses me and that he loves me. And then he says that he never wants to be with me again. How can he love me but not want to be with me? It doest make any sense. I love him sooo much and i cant get ovr him someone help me!!!!!

2006-11-27 05:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Bubblez707 2

This month has been very bad for me. I keep getting into these minor accidents. A week ago, I got into a bad car accident. Thank god Im okay. So, I contacted my ex again because of it...And talk for few days then stopped talking. Then, 2 nites ago I called him and said Not talk for awhile n he agrees. So, today in the pouring rain, I get a flat tire! So, I text my ex asking what to do ( i have no one here to turn to. dads away to another country) my ex called back to check up on if i got taken care of or not. so i said Yeah i did. I Imed him telling him Thanks for Calling back n sorry if i keep contacting you!.

Ok, what the hell should i do? Its hard.. Stuff happens to me and I turn to him. And We strt talkin again....Same cycle....

I'm not trying to get him back or anything cus either one of us want that now. He wants to remain friends but its a lil hard for me cus i do get emotional...cus I stil have feelings for him..


Any suggestions??

2006-11-27 05:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by julie 1

females sometimes tend to blab to their friends about sexual encounters with men . . rendevous . . u kno, its part of females. but my question is do guys . .and I mean answer this honestly . . do you tell ur friends about women and what we do to you in bed . .or if it was good . .or it was bad . . and all the details in b/t?
I just need to know from a guys perspective . .

2006-11-27 05:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Chelle 2

Im in love with someone 20 years older than me. It realy is true love, but do you people out there think it is OK?

2006-11-27 05:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by krazy 2

2006-11-27 05:08:54 · 20 answers · asked by prety girl 1

I am trying to understand a good friend of mine. I suspected that she liked me, and I was starting to grow feelings for her. I told her she was my type, but I wanted to remain friends. She agreed and told me she had not intended to flirt. When she kept bringing up what more I wanted than friendship, I told her anything more is impossible and that I saw her as a really good friend. She was really happy that I thought she was that good of a friend. Now, she seems to hint like crazy at me though, and she even told me in front a few people that could hear that she had told a group of little girls that I was her boyfriend. What is going on???

2006-11-27 05:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Very much in love - and things seem perfect on the outside. Until now had no doubts this was the man I would marry. Yesterday while at his house, I checked email on his computer and saw and adult personals site in the history. Curiosity got the best of me - and I clicked on it - Only to discover his ad with some very disturbing photos. Says he's looking for women to have fun with. (??Our sex life is fantastic??) If it was old - I maybe could justify it - but now that I know - I checked and he has been active on the site 2 days in a row. What should I do - and how should I confront him? I'm heartbroken and scared - please help!

2006-11-27 05:05:06 · 18 answers · asked by carolinagirl9912 2

ive been seeing this guy casually.we have only met up 4 times and when we do meet,i stay at his place cause i live in a different town to him.he has been chasing me for about 2 years,even when i was in my previous 6 year relationship with my ex fiance.i had my own place with my ex too.

he knew about my relationship.he knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has since moved away.ive been single now for 8 months.

i have only kissed this guy but he does want to take things further.he is still chasing me.

when i was with him last,he was asking about my ex,asking how he was.was he seeing if i was still into my ex?

i really like this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me.

if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have given up now?

why wont he ask me out properly on a date rather than keeping things so casual?

2006-11-27 05:04:09 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1

what a guy mean when he says bases refering to a girl.

and what does base 1, 2 ......mean

2006-11-27 05:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by beerlover 1

OK So I never kissed a guy for more than a second. I guess i'm tooo scared to see what will happen longer. I need to know what will happen if i kiss a guy longer and how can i just relax when i kiss a guy. I'm sinlge now but i just wabt to know incase

2006-11-27 05:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by :-* <3 2

my boyfriend banged me last night in the nursing home where i was visiting my grandpa! The nurse caught us and now is talking about taking us to jail! But if we had sex in the room where he was at in another bed it shouldnt matter. What can i do to keep from getting in trouble???

2006-11-27 05:02:32 · 8 answers · asked by divine dana 1

Hello, if I have recently started dating someone (it will just be 2 months by christmas time) what is an appropriate xmas gift? He has everything he needs, in terms of little gadgets and doo-dads, and I really don't want to spend more than around $100.00.

I am trying to think of something that is not too impersonal, but not really intimate either. Any suggestions?

2006-11-27 05:02:18 · 1 answers · asked by J A 2

I haven't had a complete orgasm yet with my bf...and this is becoming a huge problem.
Although I have some small build, and feel satisfied, I know I can get a full satisfaction by masterbating. My bf wants me to have an orgasm, but I can't... I really hardly get orgasm with a partner...
I have been telling him that I have had orgasm, but I never fully did. Should I tell him this? Should I let him work on me till I do get a full orgasm? I don't want him to get tired...cuz I know it takes nearly 30 min...but is this normal?

2006-11-27 04:58:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean ok if u want her to be fit its ok, but like most guys neeed big boobs, nice *** etc...y so picky?!

2006-11-27 04:57:36 · 22 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2

I need alittle help here... especially from guys? why do you guys do the sweetest thing what either purpose do you want from the ladies? cause my boyfriend has been acting strangely romantic and does the cuttiest thing's!! But it's beginning to alittle bit to much for me.. believe me I AM like WOW and wonder why he is doing this for me? Should I do something in return?

2006-11-27 04:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tilly 1

2006-11-27 04:55:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, you have a small 4-5.9 incher on one side and a larger 6-8 incher on the other. Which one is going to get you turned on more? When you see a erect 4 incher it will probably be 1.5 to 2 inches when flaccid. Does that turn you on? Or would a flaccid 4-5 incher make you want to reach for the higher 6-8 inches?

Be honest please. Don't hand me that motion of the ocean crap. Or, "It doesn't matter to me". Not only because it is crap, but I'm not talking about feeling, I'm talking about what is stimulating to the eyes. The majority of people obviously want bigger ones. Our society cators to them.

If you don't agree with me, then how come there are no 4-5 inched males in the adult buisness? How come 4 inched dildos aren't readily available in adult stores?

You're telling me a tiny unseen erection in a guys pants will turn you on when you can't even tell if he's hard or not? Or will one buldging out of his pant legs get you aroused? Something just doesn't add up here

2006-11-27 04:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Erica B 2

even though i'm 21yrs old, 6'1, very good build and i play football 4 a pro team. But girls don't see me more than a friend - someone safe. Also i h8 clubs and bars because of the smoky air so i can't chat 2 girls after a game.

2006-11-27 04:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was wondering, if u had a crush on this guy, but this guy doesnt really put in much effort to go out with you, and there was this OTHER guy who is really nice to you but u never really had feelings for him, would u start to like him? ....try to think like ur still in high school.....

2006-11-27 04:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by o.o 1

My bf and I have not been spending enough time together like we used to. We used to see each other twice a week and now it is twice a month. He says he's always busy working. I even talked to him saying I am willing to work around his schedule, he agreed and I still feel like what I have said did not go anywhere and went back to the same thing. We've been together for 6 months. I just found out he has a page on myspace and shows he has been going to shows and hanging out with friends. So busy he is.... I have not confronted him yet, I just wanted some suggestions or advices on what to do first. Thanks

2006-11-27 04:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by Lovespell 1

I recently met this guy and he's the sweetest, but the other night we were in my room watching Xmen 3 and he came on to me. He first tried to hold my hand and then he tried to give me a kiss, which I backed off from both and I told him I didn't wanna do that. He said ok, our evening finished and he went home. Everytime we see each other we're still cool, but he still tries to flirt or hit on me thinking he can win me over, the thing is, well he doesn't know I'm lesbian and I really don't know how to tell him. I don't know what his reaction wil be.

2006-11-27 04:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 2

First off, i'm junior in college that doesn't have any real friends. I am quite straight but have never had a girlfriend, let alone a date. I am very shy around girls, and guys too (but not so much).
I'm not like a big macho man either. It seems like most guys want to just get a girl for sex, but I'm looking forward to (hopefully) getting married and having kds one day. Am i wierd?

2006-11-27 04:51:54 · 22 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

Please give me some good ideas...None of the usual meal,cinema , club stuff.....

2006-11-27 04:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous