Singles & Dating - 27 November 2006

We've been together just over a year. He's really shy, and it's really important to him that he feels totally comfortable before he sleeps with someone. When we first talked about it he said he'd let me know when he felt ready. Recently we've been talking about the future, and it definitely involves us both, I'm def happy and he says he is too. I've had the impression a couple of times that he's been about to bring it up but had backed out at the last minute, or is that just me being hopeful? ;) So how do I help him out without sounding pushy?

2006-11-27 09:07:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need good gift ideas about what to get my girlfriend for christmas.we are serious and im 15 and shes 14.

2006-11-27 09:07:18 · 16 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3

and he told me prior to his separation, his ex wife is put a restraining order out on him twice and accused him beating on her and on molesting their son, which forced him out of the house. for a period of time, he couldnt see his son.
now he is divorced and has joint custody of his son.

should i be concern? . is it possible he abused his wife and hurt his son. after all i only know one side of the story?

2006-11-27 09:07:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

all you see is guys looking at butts and i just wondered if thats all you guys look for?

2006-11-27 09:06:01 · 31 answers · asked by robin97 2

I just get to know a friend of mine, who get to know a guy for a yr plus but began courtship few mths back, devastasted when he told her he's going to middle east to work.

they were having long distance courtship but he still visit her one or twice a month.

i was really amazed to hear that as she didn't told me about his existence though i knew her for a yr. I mean i consider her as a friend and how can she get herself to such stage.

but my main frustration is, if he aren't serious with my friend, why did he bother to court her. She is now 32, going to 33 next year.

for goodness sake, guys, if u do not have marriage in mind, pls don't date and hurt the gals. i am not saying that u must marry her, but at least act responsibly.

2006-11-27 09:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know I just wanna try it?!

2006-11-27 09:05:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 09:03:02 · 19 answers · asked by Cutiegul 2

What can I do to keep my mind off my ex?
We broke up 3wks ago and its hard to move on.
Help

2006-11-27 09:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2

2006-11-27 09:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by Rachel 1

2006-11-27 09:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by mildred p 1

Although i m handsome,but i dont have girlfriend.
the girl i like,,my friends take that away.......girls propose to them......dont know why????/

2006-11-27 09:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by honey 2

Ok well my boyfriend talks to me on the computer and says he loves me and calls me sweetie but a school we never talk we have 3 class together what is wrong......???

2006-11-27 08:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 08:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

I'm going out with my best friend!!!I mean he is like awesome but it feels weird going out with him!!!!!Mean I want to go out with him but he is like a friend but now he is my boyfriend!!!!

2006-11-27 08:56:54 · 14 answers · asked by carrie b 1

What does it mean when a guy writes take care at the end of a message ????
what ot they generally mean does it mean i like you take care or take care as in goodbye...i dated this guy for a bit we both liked each other he asked me if i wanted to go away with him for a week house sitting his family home they have...long story shory i was really stressed about my work and acted a bit strange like snapped at him for no reason we broke up but when i have seen him out he always stars at me and get jealous if im taliking to other guys... anyway i texted him the other day to apologise about acting wierd..he texted back and he hasnt done this much i have been appologising fora while ...it said"dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad you and your frineds can laugh about it. Take care" what does this mean..initially when i met him he had been looking at me for about 40minutes before he approached me. Men could you please help me interpret his actions..i really like him but am confused by his signals what should one do?XXX

2006-11-27 08:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1

girl looks at you all the time,but then when you look at her she looks away real fast and you try to talk to her she doesn't say much and talks real low with her head down sometimes what is that?

2006-11-27 08:55:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I be scared to have sex with my my b-f for only 1 month. I don't want to have sex with him now I want to wait til later on in our relationship but, I mean I want to but I a scared. Do I have anything to be scared of. Why not??

2006-11-27 08:55:33 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just just came out of this relationship hurting really bad.I had to get real honest with myself here. What is my problem. The man hurt me to the core. I say to myself is he hurting the way I am. I think not. I reflect back and think about the pain I was in before the relationship ended. Well That part of man that a woman enjoys that part that gives her pleasure. Well Thats what I am going to miss. Thats all. sometime a woman feels as if the man she were in the relationship with is the only man on gods green earth that can make her feel good. Wrong, Wrong. That is how I feel. At times letting go could be real hard. But in reality it is real simple. All I had to do were think, think back on how bad this man made me feel. And most of the times not good. Its about getting real honest with myself. and move on. I feel that if a man cheat. hewill always be that way, even if the woman forgives him.

2006-11-27 08:54:37 · 17 answers · asked by Diamond 1

I go out with this boy right know, we have a lot in common and everything is going great. Then whats the problem u ask....since he moved away (not to far from here) and at his new school a lot of girls like him and my friend thinks his cheating...wat should i do??

2006-11-27 08:54:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just read in an American newspaper (I am not American) that a year ago a New Hampshire university professor published research that found that 82% of teen-age girls 13 to 15 who met and hooked up with men over 30 years they found on the net knew exactly what they were doing and wanted to do it. So when Yahoo has a question about young girls with older men why are the men so often called perverts and predators when there is so much mutual consent? Is this more of an American thing? I have noticed most of such answers seem to be (when it can be inferred or deduced) from Americans. Might this because the American consent age is 2 or more years higher than it is in most other countries (including mine)? Why do Americans have so much trouble dealing with realities of teen age sexual behaviours?

2006-11-27 08:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should i.................?
im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?
what would you do?

whenever on MSN she never says hi 2 me im the 1 hu strts off the conversation
she sometimes dont talk much om MSN whenver i ask her why she wo

2006-11-27 08:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 08:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by nicole w 1

2006-11-27 08:52:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have M.P.D. (Multiple Personality Disorder). I've learned to control it though mental discipline and a compromise with my other personalities. But I have no control over there wills. While they are in control I can't really stop them from doing what they want. We can all work together though. No one can even tell unless I tell them that's how I am. I started dating an awesome girl who I care about a lot. The bad part: she is 16 and I'm 18. I don't mind waiting 2 years in fact I just think of that as 2 years for us to get to know each other better. The problem: since I've been dating her one of my personalities as had sex with something he likes twice. I had no real involvement but he did this with our body.... my body. I've been thinking about this a lot. I didn't don anything but did I really cheat even though I wasn't the was who did it, it was just my body?

2006-11-27 08:52:09 · 29 answers · asked by SinStrike 2

2006-11-27 08:51:12 · 13 answers · asked by Fruitful 1

Why is it that a bra is singular and panties is plural?

2006-11-27 08:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by olzap 1

I like this girl buy shes not my gf yet, we are friends for now.

Can I tell her: "Crap I keep forgetting to hug you everytime I see you"

or something like that?

2006-11-27 08:50:48 · 11 answers · asked by rockability 1

I freak out over little things all the time. I am constantly thinking the worst of situations and although my boyfriend told me before we even became boyfriend and girlfriend that he has NEVER cheated on anyone in his life I am always paranoid that he will with me. Now I consider myself to be a good girlfriend. I never allow him to pay for anything and I am very loveable and caring and not an emotional girl meaning, I don't boo hoo and cry. He claims to not show his emotions and said before me he never really told anyone he loved them including his mom, but for some reason I always think that he is unhappy with me or that he would be happier with someone else. What do you think. No smart@$$ people please! Thanks
8-)

2006-11-27 08:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by dazed*n*confused 5

In the beginning of a relationship its really easy to find thingsto talk about, because there's so much to know about your partner. But it gets to a point where I know everything about them, and they me. I know everything they like to do, I know their views on life, I know everything. Its seems like nowadays there isnt a lot more to talk about, and awkward conversations are not uncommon. What should I do now?

2006-11-27 08:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by marc d 1

Now I'm older younger men are attracted to me, found this odd at first, as was married to someone my own age for quite a while. Friends tell me a toyboy is good for me, not sure about that. Its certainly not the sexual angle either, men are men whatever their age !!

2006-11-27 08:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous