Now I'm older younger men are attracted to me, found this odd at first, as was married to someone my own age for quite a while. Friends tell me a toyboy is good for me, not sure about that. Its certainly not the sexual angle either, men are men whatever their age !!
2006-11-27 08:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're finding these young men appreciate you. That has nothing to do with age.
Maybe you like your men to be more energetic.
Maybe like most men, you like your date to look young and hale.
If the men are happy to be with you, and you like them, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
2006-11-27 08:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know if it is much nicer.I have just turned 34,and the amount of attention I get from younger men,or boys as I call them is unbelievable.By boys I mean 20 upwards.I find it ridiculous and quite funny.Especially when I am out with my kids.I mean I have 2 or 3 grey hairs which I dye!! I feel it is confidence,as we age we have a glow and aura around us.We are more mature and have lots of experience.We have lost our inhibitions,and men pick up on it.Good for you getting a toyboy!! You go girl!! Although younger men have more stamina and better bodies,I prefer my own age.
2006-11-27 22:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For younger men, I think its the whole MILF fantasy. Young men want to say they've slept with an older woman just to have that in their repertoire. I'd be weary of younger guys as they are more likely to be swayed by younger women and, while he may be into you now, once the novelty has worn off, he may trade you in for a newer model. I'd stick with men my own age. I'd never date a younger man because most aren't mature enough, financially stable enough or ready to commit.
But good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2006-11-27 08:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by 11:11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't have a lasting marriage, it's better not to lie to yourself and get involved with men. Just have fun. Go for it.
We're heading for a non-marriage society anyways... might as well join in. Make sure they are good in bed, and if not, they might change because of being young.
And the places you go with the younger, you won't be able to meet men your age for relationships in the future, because they know it's for the sex(nothing long term ever works out). The men your age will try to sleep with you and that's it, or won't have anything to do with you.
2006-11-27 08:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem. After my divorce the only guys who approached me were younger. I ignored them for awhile and am now dating a younger man. I feel like his mother most of the time and I know that I will not date a much younger man again.
2006-11-27 08:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same as you babe! well nearly,l was married to man 10 years older than me,it worked out ok for a few years then l noticed that age did make a difference ie,music and going out to clubs,he didn't want to anymore.As soon as we split up l found a man 7years younger and wow can he keep me happy!!!no looking back now,TOY BOYS ROCK!!!!
2006-11-27 08:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jacqui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that younger men make you feel so young and sexy and reminds you how amazing life is! But it's not a sustainable relationship. Have them for a while and then set them free!
2006-11-27 09:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are creatures which like to be taught by women who are little older than them. Only a boy can be a boy toy.
2006-11-27 08:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is 19 years younger than me. we have an active sex life and are very happy. Age has nothing to do with happiness.
2006-11-27 08:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by freelander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah younger men think older women are more experienced and easier. if you like them forget the hang ups you only live once.
2006-11-27 08:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋