Singles & Dating - 26 November 2006

women do you want a random guy that is decent looking to approach you in a normal setting like a starbucks? or is it annoying?

2006-11-26 18:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by private0909 1

2006-11-26 18:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known him since 1st grade. He'd never go out with me though.

2006-11-26 18:38:28 · 7 answers · asked by Alayna S 1

I am 26 but I feel like I've not enjoyed my youth. I've never been well liked or respected, esp. by other young people. Unpopular in high school and college. Never had a boyfriend. Never been married. Not curvaceous.
It's really hard to be happy because I see other young women looking good, going out with their boyfriends or getting married, hanging out with their friends, and having fun.
Is there something wrong with me? How can I stop feeling like a nobody? What's the point of life anyway if I'm so unhappy and nobody likes me?

2006-11-26 18:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by misscleo779 1

I started dating my best friend about 3 years ago. Our relationship grew into much more that just being friends. Over the course of the last couple of years, he kept asking me to marry him. I wasn't ready and just wanted to continue dating.

This week, he basically quit answering his phone when I call, not writing back when I email him (with the exception of asking if he was mad, which he replied "no") and just not responding to me.

I've heard that "falling off the face of the earth" is one way to break up with someone, but I'm baffled about this. Am I being dumped? What do I do if he won't answer my calls, emails or other?

2006-11-26 18:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

nowadays you us women can make the first move but should you keep going and treating him sweet or just lay a little low let it take care of itself when do you steo off once you told him

2006-11-26 18:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know dry spells are normal but my boyfriend recently went 3 WEEKS without touching me ONCE!!!

This isn't the first time. He went 2 weeks a few months ago.
I've brought this point up to him and asked him what is his problem and he says it's because I'm a B_i_t_c_h to him so much, he doesn't want to have sex at all.

I'm not so sure I believe that excuse and besides, I'm rarely ever a *****, I just stand up for myself!

He once told me the exact same thing about his ex wife - (and she cheated on him!) He said at that point they were barely having sex anymore because she'd pissed him off so many times.

He's not good at providing me with intimacy and I've complained about that before and sometimes he'll call me by his ex wife's name to irritate me, because apparently - she used to have the same complaints.

What is the deal??
PS - he's 37.

2006-11-26 18:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by Brownie 1

And I find myself torn between two paths here, one alone and one with her. But I am waiting for HER to choose. And while I'm waiting here, I find myself thinking of things I want to say to her, ways to really express myself, and it hits me that I want to tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. BUT in the same breath, I want to tell her she's being a selfish *****, that her indecision is breeding contempt and resentment in me for her, and that she ought to think twice before she assumes any guy as nice, as caring, as into her as I am is going to come around and WAIT for her to make up her ******* mind, she really is CRAZY! Should I feel bad for even thinking like that? B/c I honestly feel better just writing that down.

2006-11-26 18:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

Just wondering on a date, should I wear a sexy top to accentuate my chest or miniskirt to show off my legs?

2006-11-26 18:32:47 · 28 answers · asked by Blondie4u 1

how can you tell if he likes me just cuzz he asked me out again maybe he is trying to hit the skins

2006-11-26 18:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl i go to lunches with all the time, keeps saying, im going to end up with this really hot girl...would girls say this cause they think youre attractive and maybe that they want you?......and also keeps asking me what type of girl im after....im so confused, i dont want to back her down cause i really like her, but too scared to say just yet.
Back to question...is that a hint she may like me. She also touches me alot, sits on my seat with me aswell.One thing though, she is quite flirty with guys, and has heaps of guy mates, so i dont know whether she does this to all her guy mates or not?.......what do do?

2006-11-26 18:30:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that women that look "mature" I tend to find more attractive then another teenager.

2006-11-26 18:25:45 · 18 answers · asked by Numb Nutts 1

She and I have been friends for 2 years, overcome many issues, and spend alot of time together. Recently she has been saying and doing some thing that make me think she wants to be more than friends. I'd be willing to give it a shot if that is how she really feels. What is the best way to ask so she would feel as comfortable as possible being open yet it wouldn't make things too awkward? Should I question what she means by some of these things and then say "how do you really feel about us?" or is there a better way?? Thanks.

2006-11-26 18:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by tipple 1

I started dating this guy 5 weeks ago. From the beginning it's like he fell in love. He always called, took me on super expensive dates, told everyone how much he liked me, wanted to introduce me to his family, invited me on vacation with his friends. Anyways, I thought it was going a bit fast. So, his birthday was this week and he wanted me to meet all his friends and all his family. I politely declined because I didn't want to intrude since we weren't boyfriend or girlfriend. I also, mistakingly mentioned on our last date that there was another guy that was calling me. Well, this weekend he cancelled our date. He called me tonight and it got a little bit weird and I told him "This is awkward" and laughed and he asked me what was, and then he said, I think we should slow things down. I think I rushed into this and pushed you into things, I think we should slow things down. I am heartbroken. He said he would call me soon. What happened? I'm hurt. Was I basically dumped?

2006-11-26 18:25:11 · 4 answers · asked by Katy S 1

A while back this girl that I am good friends with talked to me abot us being just friends. I brought the topic up, and we were both cool with that. Now, she wants to hug me, and she told some little girls that asked her that I was her boyfriend. She even told me this, and asked me if it was a funny joke. I do not understand anymore. Why did she do this??

2006-11-26 18:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was in the heat of the moment when i said hey to my by cuz he was looking the other way. i wanted him to see my facial expression and to look in my eyes while i was you know. well when i said hey he started laughing and i was serious. i asked him why he laughed and he said it was the way i said it. well it kind of hurt my feelings. what do you think?

2006-11-26 18:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

The first date went well but afterwords I got a little over eager and made myself completely available to this guy and gave him a number of ways to contact me and now he has gone from proposing a second date to saying he will call and not calling. I have never been the one to call him, but we see other at common places throughout the week and I linger a few minutes to see him before I continue with my schedule. I have a busy life but it's mostly activities that are flexible and can be put off for an hour or two whenever I want, so even though I can be available I guess I shouldn't be so open about it. With vacation this week, I have not seen him in person since he didn't call when he said he would so I am sort of anxious about this upcoming week when I may see him. Anyhow, it is completely over or can I do something to redeem myself?

2006-11-26 18:23:44 · 3 answers · asked by Lyf 3

i have a boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. i slept with another guy. i love my boyfriend to death and i really really dont want to tell my boyfriend what happened because it was only one night and i know that i wont do it again .. my only problem is my conscience is killing me soo bad i cant stop thinking about what a bad girlfriend i am. what can i do to forget about what i did.

2006-11-26 18:18:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

see my friend is "love" struck. he met this girl jenna on saturday when we went clubbing. and earlier today i heard them saying "i love you" to eachother? what is up with that? he says he cares about her and she says he is her man and he treats her like nobody else. what is going on, they only know eachother for less than 48 hours and they love eachother already? and he is already saying things like " im going out with my girl". i thought it would just be a one night stand but they are already saying those love things? is that love at first site or is that just some drunken idiotic thing? i don't understand they talk about eachother like they know eachother for years. it is starting to freak me out.

2006-11-26 18:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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Im never good with girls...especially talking to them.
So how can i become fav to girls?... (some ppl in other post suggest i put up a wall isolating myself because of fear)

2006-11-26 18:17:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my gf, of two years, are on a longterm break she knows whats what and has the same rights, so to speak. i met this cool chick the other night and nothing has happened yet. but i don't mind making "friends" but don't want another gf, kinda sorta deal, ya know.

2006-11-26 18:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by groovergabe 2

2006-11-26 18:12:12 · 17 answers · asked by josie 2

I asked this girl out, and she said, I just wanna stay freinds for now, but I'll think about it. What does that mean, should I try again?

2006-11-26 18:11:44 · 20 answers · asked by Smith 1

I can't do anything anymore. I touch him, kiss him, i touch myself in front of him. Nothing works, i feel like such a loser. Any suggestions?

2006-11-26 18:10:36 · 25 answers · asked by Ridin' Dirty 2

Heres the story(4weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil?

2006-11-26 18:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a crush on a neighbor back about 16yrs ago. He was 1yr older and we were really close friends. Inseperable at times but young. He moved away after about a year and a half of living next door to each other and we lost touch. I then moved out of state too but about 5yrs ago we found each other online and exchanged #'s. He doesn't use email at all anymore but we talk every couple months for a few hours at a time. We haven't seen each other in about 16yrs now. I never knew if he knew how I felt back then so about 6 months ago I tried telling him on the phone and couldn't. I ended up text messaging him but he never replied. Told him that I didn't know if he knew but regretted never telling him how I felt BACK THEN. Never heard anything back. Tried called but nothing. He called a few weeks ago but never mentioned it and I didn't want to bring it up and make things akwards. I still really care about him but dont know how to tell him. Help me! I don't know what to do!!

2006-11-26 18:06:28 · 3 answers · asked by Gerber1626 2

I confronted a girl that I have been friends with for years. She seemed to like me, so I asked. She denied that she does, but ever since she continues to bring the subject up. She also has begun to talk to me about anything involving dating, and she told some little girls that I was her boyfriend one time. She then asked me if that was ok and whether I thought it was funny. She also finds her way to me in a room of many people. What is the truth here?

2006-11-26 18:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

What is it that women need from men? physically, mentally and relationship wise. in short why do women need men?

2006-11-26 18:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by CK 1

ok so i been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and one night i slept with another guy.. i love my boyfriend and i dont wanna tell him but i feel soo guilty and i dont want to lose him & for sure i dont want to tell him, but my problem is i can't stop thinking about what i did. its hard for me to sleep .... how do i get it off my mind. without my boyfriend knowing. how can i get over it????

2006-11-26 18:03:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf made love the other night. well im just going to come right out and say it. well while i was in the serious moment which you know what i mean. i said hey to him a few times becuz his head was turned and i wanted him to look at me while i was, you know what i mean.well i said hey again so he could look at me and he started laughing. i asked him what was so funny and he said it was the way i said hey. well it bothered me a little about him laughing cuz i was being very serious. i thought about it again today and it really bothers me now. why did he laugh at me? i was feeling good and was expressing myself. what would you think or do about this?

2006-11-26 18:01:20 · 2 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4