I asked this girl out, and she said, I just wanna stay freinds for now, but I'll think about it. What does that mean, should I try again?
2006-11-26 18:11:44 · 20 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We sit together at lunch too. What should I do about that?
2006-11-26 18:35:21 · update #1
tell her that is not a date, just like friends.
:> peace
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2006-11-30 15:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, some people are going to tell you that you have been shot down, but it really depends on who says it: some people say it as a polite way to say, "sorry, not interested now or ever". Some people say it because they honestly feel that you make a better friend than you do a boyfriend. Some people say it because they are just not ready for a relationship or they feel like things are going too fast. "I'll think about it:" leaves it open to the last two, so there is probably hope.
What should you do? Be her friend- even if it means she starts dating someone else. I would wait until she comes to you and lets you know that she is interested in more than friendship instead of asking again. But, no, don't wait forever.
I have said this many times. I can tell you that I am one of those people who only says it when I mean it. Most of the guys that I said it to honored my request and we are still friends to this day.
The last one I said it to is now my husband.
2006-11-26 18:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by slaughter114 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry man. As of right now she's not interested in you, at least not romantically. But let me tell you something about my friend. He was told the same thing when he first asked his gf out...and within a week she told him yes. They've been going out for 3 years now and are engaged. What I'm saying is that you never know what's going to happen. I think you should wait one week for her answer and if she says no again, let it motivate you to become the coolest most freakin awesomest guy so that she'll either change her mind or regret her decision for not seeing the guy you truly are. Hope that helps =)
2006-11-26 18:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl tells you she just wants to stay friends it means shes not intrested in you. When she says sh'll think about it it either means shes actualyl going to think about it, or she needs time to think of an excuse not to go out with you. Generally, the best stratigy is to not ask her nexttime you see her; let her mention it first. This will make you appear unconcerned with her decision no matter what she decides which will make her question how much control she actually has, which will cause her to question herself if she chooses not to go out wth you, and spare you embarrisment if she chooses to "let it slide (which will become obvious if she chooses not to say anything about it, and she won't forget that you asked her in the first place)." All in all I'd say just move on.
2006-11-26 18:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is her way of letting you down easy. Your friendship must mean alot to her and she doesn't want to jepordize what you have as friends. I am convinced that she added the "I'll think about it" so that you wouldn't stop being her friend all together. I wouldn't pursue her any further romantically. If you are really into her, be a genuine friend. Remember, you can never have too many friends!
2006-11-26 18:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a girl..and whenever I say that to a guy..it means "your a nice guy and all..but I'm not attracted to you...and I don't want to date you." And it could just be a nice way of saying "you're not my type" or "I like someone else and want to stay single just in case they like me back" Don't try again..because she already knows you like her...and if she wants to be with you she will say something. Just do whatever you can to treat her right..and have fun..maybe she'll see you for who you are and decide she wants to be with you after all..until then asking her and asking her will just get on her nerves. Maybe talk to her friends and ask them what they think..friends do know everything.
2006-11-26 18:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by luckychick123452006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means, "I'm too nice to say No to you directly, so I'll say I just want to be friends so that you take the hint and don't ask me out again".
Move on, find someone else to ask out.
2006-11-26 18:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has someone else in mind.
If the number one relationship doesn't pan out, your next in line.
Unless she said the same thing to a few other guys.
If this is the best you can get out of her,
M O V E O N ! ! !
2006-11-26 18:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's putting u on hold till she sees if there is anyone else worth dating if not she will go for u
simply ur a plan B
she;s leaving the door half closed and half opened to keep i interested
good luck
ask some one else out
2006-11-26 18:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"you are the weakest link, goodbye" she aint feeling you babyboy but its all good. there are ALOT more fish out in the sea and every rejection is a learning experience for you. if your down in the dumps than like i said, u are the weakest link.but if u forget, forgive, and move on, than life will be so much better. for every girl who dosent like you, there probably will be 10 better girls dying to meet you!!!
2006-11-26 18:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, not for a bit. i mean, she just gave you a clear message she doesn't want to be exchanging saliva with you anytime soon (something that is often hard for a girl to say clearly to a guy), so you need to respect that.
2006-11-26 18:16:02 · answer #11 · answered by cc41girl88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋