me and my gf, of two years, are on a longterm break she knows whats what and has the same rights, so to speak. i met this cool chick the other night and nothing has happened yet. but i don't mind making "friends" but don't want another gf, kinda sorta deal, ya know.
2006-11-26 18:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by groovergabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be honest with her from the jump. theres nothing worse than a guy lying to get in your pants. alot of women are down for the "bed buddies" thing right now, and she may be one of them. if not i am sure you will meet a girl who is!!
2006-11-26 18:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you're hanging out with a girl and it seems like things are going to go "that way", the right thing to do is to let her know what's going on with you. For example, an off-hand comment about how your girlfriend is out of town or how you're on a break, while you're keeping the flirting up, so that she knows what you 2 are doing isn't going to progress into a real relationship. It may scare off some girls, but it could be worth it not breaking someone's heart or having a girl really pursuing you once you're back with your girlfriend.
2006-11-27 02:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by heehaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey does the chick has eggs already --kids, children ..it is easier to reach your aims then. unless she need financial support besides the moral one. in all cases, you sound you want to buy or get the stuff called love/friendship to your own price and terms and weight. you know what you want but does the seller knows what you want? that is the question. in a give and take situation specially when you deal with "feeling and sentiments" you just let go and sing the song "Queen Serra Serra, whatever will be will be" hope it helps, quote me.
2006-11-27 02:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you are talking about is what we call friends with benefits...you do things as if you are together as a couple but when you are ready to call it quits you can...you just have to make sure neither of you get attached to one another...that way when its over there are no hard or emotional feelings being left behind
2006-11-27 02:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirl_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
;Cake and eat it; situation there. Get real. And finish things properly with the other girl - there is no such thing as a 'longterm break'. You seem to me to be a man who likes to hedge his bets.
2006-11-27 02:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got seduced by a guy.we ended doing the deed. we both didn't want a relationship we were just hot. kept our mouth shut. it went well and we're still friends. so it depends on what the girl wants if she tells you she's willing to just hook up that's fine but if she likes you and wants a relationship, you're in trouble.
2006-11-27 02:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front You'd be suprised at how many girls would be open to an arrangement. Its when you aren't honest with your intentions that feelings get hurt
2006-11-27 02:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well then buddy your in luck, find a corner, pay cash money, "hook up" and go on your way
2006-11-27 02:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by az_ zoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋