Heres the story(4weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil?
2006-11-26 18:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it sounds mean, but im really going to start acting like a jerk to this girl now, i really do think she has played me!, all the signs are there, like shes backing off, damn why couldnt she just tell me whats going on, im not the coward in this situation. She starts name calling alot recently, and hardly ever acknowledges me etc...though back when we were close, she couldnt handle me not talking to her, she even got annoyed bout it once....really badly too.....
2006-11-26 18:09:13 · update #1
okays let me suggest two things. Firstly, she might want to get ur attention by acting coldly and everything. Or she likes you but she is confused whether are you the right one for her. Another point is you might be the reason that cause her to break up with bf (ok i know thats hurt but yeah thats what i thought) but yeah look on the bright side she might like you. all the best for everything and do keep me updated abt ur current relationship with her(=
2006-11-26 21:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, before you start assuming things, you SHOULD ask her what's wrong. To me, that sounds like the behaviour of someone who has heard a bad rumour- but that's probably not the case. I would say that if she doesn't change her attitude, then she's the one at a loss. Don't be all jerk-ish, 'cause that'll push her further away. Plus it's mean.
2006-11-27 02:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok seems like she's hurting over the break up
did u think that she might have broken up because of you?
if so this explains why she;s distant
if not ask her why she's distancing herself and if she needs to talk...
if she's at work with you , i would ask once whats wrong and then let the whole deal go because ur work comes first.
2006-11-27 02:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and talk to her it sounds like the only thing you really can do in this situation
2006-11-27 02:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a jerk! just give her some time. oh and girls are not evil. yeah maybe some but not all. but if this keeps going on then move on. pinewood_girl@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 02:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by D-Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls always difficult for man to knows.
Love without love..... what's this means?
2006-11-27 02:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋