Singles & Dating - 26 November 2006

Im really confused. there is this guy i like and we have been going out. my dad is acting like a real dumbo he tells everyone his kids are good but thats never true cause no one is perfect. he believes that a boyfriend is a shame and eventually you will get pregnant but that is not the case at all he wants me to probably start dating when im 25 which is very very far away he thinks i will get pregnant thats his biggest fear and then he goes around spying on me and my brother and if he ever sees me with this guy he will freak i wanted to break up with this guy only for now until he calms down and stops acting up. what should i do?

2006-11-26 03:26:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want it to be special, but i dont know what. my bf is kinda punkish. plz dont say a gift card or a cd. guyz what would you want your gf to give you for christmas? keep in mind that i am only 14

2006-11-26 03:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dating LD since moved to NY in Sep. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. Going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Had to push for him to have lunch with me, he says he wants to limit expenditure, he is saving up for something expensive and highclass. He will tell me what it is when he sees me, but I must not tell anyone about it. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past with him.

2006-11-26 03:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we will have been dating 3 monthes around christmas i think hes getting me a ring we are in love and i dont know what to get him .he likes video games cds etc., i thought about a cd but he has just about every cd i could think of including new ones. my mom doesnt agree on us dating but i really dont care she doesnt like him cause hes the bad boy type but thats what i like in a guy so she can get over it. also he likes jewlery like gold chains and earrings hes the thuggish type and i dont wanna buy him clothes cause i am afraid of him not liking it so what should i do help please!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-26 03:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by in luv 1

I started dating this guy who seemed really sweet, after a few weeks he told me he considerd me his girlfriend, invited me to dinner with his family etc.I went away for the weekend and ever since then hes acting shady,he used to call everyday and now i havnt heard from him since wed- i left him a few messages and he never called back, im not going to call him again at this point because im so mad & my pride is hurt.I feel stupid because i really thought he was different & cared about me.Why would a guy do this?

2006-11-26 03:22:11 · 25 answers · asked by nyc88m 1

Help pls! This is a continuation of a previous qn. but I'm out of my mind about this guy I've known in a club for four months. We're both single and in 30s-40s age group & out of. We flirted, he pursued me with calls and then asked me out 1 mth ago. We both had busy schedules but eventually met lst wk. Hit it off very well..laughed & big attraction. We kissed passionately and he wanted to go to a hotel as both of us share small apts. with other friends. I refused explaining I need more time. He joked..'what do you want a wedding?'. He drove me home and said 'we'll be in contact by phone'. He never called. I left a msg..he didn't reply. I was hurt. Ran into him a week later at a club and he asked me to dance..v friendly but didn't mention the no calling. He then left without saying goodbye. I don't understand it. If it was just for sex then why not go for a stranger and not a girl you have a lot of fun with? Why can't he wait a bit. Do I have a chance. Goin' crazy!

2006-11-26 03:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by sonia 1

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating quite happily for a while. We've lived together for the last 6 months and we get along great. We both discuss the future in terms of moving together/being together, but he has never used the word marriage. He's very shy w/ his emotions, but I'm not sure I want to bring it up to him and set myself up for rejection or the whole, "I hadn't really thought of it," and have him turn off from the subject. It's driving me crazy not knowing what his intentions are, since I know where mine are (I've never met a better guy in my life!) We're both in our mid 20s, but he's more settled than a lot of 20-something guys. Should I bring it up or wait around or ... ? Seeking advice.

2006-11-26 03:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Lovinglife 1

My b/f's best friend hit me and I was ready to hit the s.o.b. when my b/f made me stop. I am so pissed. I wanted to hit the jerkback but my b/f says he would have hurt me. I wanted to finish what that sob started but my b/f wouldn't let me. He says i'm firery, am I?

He beat up the guy, but I soooooooo wanted to. Why did he have to ruin my fun? I have a black eye but would rather have two and know I fought back
I know he cared but it made me more mad cuz he held me back. If he wasn't there, I'd have been fine.
Am I firery?? He says I am.

Was he right not to let me fight back??

2006-11-26 03:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by trish 1

I am in a good relationship with my girl friend? Lots of time when we are having sex I get a feeling that she want me to suck on her breasts ... but I am not sure ... so I was wondering is it a pleasre point for them and do they enjoy it ...

2006-11-26 03:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by hawkeye_san 1

If a guy sees a girl he knows holding someone's baby and rocking her or something does he get turned on and attracted to the girl?

2006-11-26 03:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by dimples18 1

2006-11-26 03:15:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

personals ad. I usually get fairly normal people that are just not into me or I'm not into them but since yesterday I have gotten 2 jerks. One guy seemed normal and when I said I could call him late tonight (I work retail all weekend and am too tired and busy to talk when I get home from work in the evenings) and he sent me 7 emails saying please call now I want to hear your voice. This is weird and too anxious to me and then I got a guy respond a few minutes ago that had a username that made it sound like he was somewhat religious and had some morals but when I read his email he was using profanity and didn't sound very religious.
What is with these guys, did someone let the weirdos out? I get an occasional oddball but nothing like these jerks.

2006-11-26 03:14:11 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

I've been waiting to ask this girl out on a date because of our conflicting schedule. We've been talking for a couple months and seem to get along pretty well.

I have a Christmas party to go this Firday night for the compnay I work for. I was thinking about asking her to go with me, but I'm not sure if that would a weird setting for a first date. My parents will be there because my Mom works for the same company.

Should I just wait to take her to dinner and movie or should I ask her to the party?

2006-11-26 03:13:55 · 10 answers · asked by radchad25 2

2006-11-26 03:13:06 · 3 answers · asked by soulassin 1

What reason's do you find NOT to date a guy, or take him seriously in the relationship department?

2006-11-26 03:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by blah_blah 2

Me..Not being too smart .I feel as though i have no choice but to find a man who doesnt mind a woman like me..I cant make a good wage and i need a man to understand that..And i am not a gold digger,.I am not lazy..I consider looking after my man not lazy..

2006-11-26 03:11:26 · 13 answers · asked by Danielle 1

she rather just drop things we fight about then talk through them then iblamed that for the reason we fight so much.... and she turned around as me blaming her and got mad.....what do i do?

2006-11-26 03:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by peter r 2

if he/she isn't having a very good personality?

2006-11-26 03:09:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u get ur ex back in a difficult time 4 u????
My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus of something i said in bad temper. I was stressed at finding out my mum mite have cancer again and i was very sick myself. She said she only broke up wit cus wat i said meant i didn't trust her. we were really in love and she said that when we broke up up she wud still always love me but when i pressured her she said she didn't love me. I have found out that i mite have cancer at 19 years of age and im nervously waiting on test results, i love her and need her support. how do i go about getting her bak cus i really need her now

I really love this girl and i really want 2 b with her,i always trusted her.

2006-11-26 03:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is he serious this time?? he says if he cant have me noone else can!! also he says im still his girl no matter what. what should i do??? its somethin about him that im stuck on and i really like him?? but im confused!!!!!

2006-11-26 03:07:00 · 17 answers · asked by love sick 1

I kapt on telling him I loved him but he woulden't email me back! HELP I WANT TO TALK TO HIM!

2006-11-26 03:05:39 · 10 answers · asked by Amber K 2

My friend only weighs about 110lbs and his girlfriend is pushing 300lbs. He confided to me that she pushes him around and he ends up on the floor where she kicks him repeatedly. They have been together for 5 years and he said that she does this all the time. He was walking funny and I asked him if it was something she had done to him and he said yes. He has no family to take him in and I have no room myself. We live in central Ohio. Is there any organizations to help battered men?

2006-11-26 03:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 21 year old male, my problem is when i was 17 years old, i diguised my self into a girl's character and made a fake yahoo ID and entered a lesbian chatroom in yahoo messenger (to see what are the kinds of converstations that girls share with each other) I WAS THE MOST STUPID PERSON ON THIS PLANET WHEN I DID THIS, since that time, all what comes to my mind about girls is lesbian relationships, i can never think of a girl only if she was with another girl having sex. i swear i haven't made one girlfirend in my life because of this reason. i have alot of girls who are just college-mates or ordinary friends, but never had my own girl. Something always blocks in my way (in my mind), i want to get rid of this type of thinking coz i know its fake and will do me nothing but harm. please i need a real answer for my situation. (p.s. I AM NOT GAY AT ALLL).

2006-11-26 03:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has a boyfriend and I told her I had a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet." Than gave me a hug. And the next day she flirted with me a little. She told my friend that she thinks i'm cute, but never said she likes me. So I told her I had a crush, but she never said if she likes me back.

Heard her boyfriend makes her feel bad alot and makes her cry alot coming into work. I just don't get why she's staying with him.

I'm falling for her and I can't stop thinking about her. I don't see how i'm falling for her if I really don't know what she likes in life... All I know is I like her personality. She's sweet and kind

What should I do?

2006-11-26 03:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this man 7 yrs we have 3 kids together . i think he is cheating on me i find pictures of women on the computer and find phone numbers in his phone i also check his email and find things there from other women i love him very much but i am not sure we should stay together . he says that i shouldnt go threw his stuff but i say there shouldn't be anything there for me to find . he says he is not cheating but i just don't believe he says he just gets bored and talks to people onthe internet to pass time . should i stay ????

2006-11-26 02:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by been there 1

How do i find a man who can and will look after a woman who i think has potential being me. How can i find a man with money to stay with me and look after me financially and to marry and have children? I need advice.Who understands this situation.

2006-11-26 02:56:25 · 27 answers · asked by Danielle 1

2006-11-26 02:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 1

i mean how come i keep getting boys dat are of 17-20 wanting to know me ..

i'm 26 and no way i would date anyone younger den me..

2006-11-26 02:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by CT TC 1

Okay, there's this guy I like. He knows I like him, and we are close friends. He drops hints he likes me as more than a friend, and the other day on the bus we held hands for about 30 minutes, even though I was the one that held his hand. But, he squeezed my hand a couple of times, and kept on stroking my fingers and stuff. He keeps on saying he wants a girlfriend, and last time we talked on the phone, he said he had a question for me the next time he saw me. So, even though I'm not sure what the question is, should I move on and just keep him as a friend, or should I wait a few more weeks? SERIOUS ANSWERS, PEOPLE!!!!!

2006-11-26 02:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by Ali 1

when we do good for some one or what else

2006-11-26 02:52:00 · 25 answers · asked by smitha j 1