is he serious this time?? he says if he cant have me noone else can!! also he says im still his girl no matter what. what should i do??? its somethin about him that im stuck on and i really like him?? but im confused!!!!!
2006-11-26 03:07:00 · 17 answers · asked by love sick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to forget about this loser. He sounds like a stalker and a woman beater.
1. Study harder than ever
2. Spend an hour a day in the library
3. Honor your parents and your teachers
4. Get involved in a worthy school function
5. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
6. Help someone every day
Good Luck
2006-11-26 03:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, and saying no one else can have you sounds like a threat to me.
It's normal to have mixed feelings about a breakup. I sounds like he has them too. And I'm not saying you should take him back because you both have mixed feelings.
Try making a two collumn list of all the reasons you want the relationship, and all the reasons you don't. Sleep on it, look at it again, add to it, sleep on it again, etc. And spend some time thinking about relationships in general and what you want from a partner. Did he give that to you?
And remember that interactive patterns in a relationship are really hard to change, even if both parties are trying, which is rare. Best of luck!
2006-11-26 03:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is often the case that a former partner realizes to late what he or she has done that damaged a relationship. In many cases, the relationship is altered forever. If you do determine to give the relationship another try, what means does you ex offer to increase your trust and not commit the same actions?
Most of us have mixed feelings in this instances. It is very hard but not impossible for people to make large changes in behavior. Most of the time folks revert back to their old ways.
You must determine if in your mind, trying the relationship again is worth the effort and risk that you may be hurt again.
I wish you well.
2006-11-26 03:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Not Go Back!
If he loved you to begin with he would have never cheated. You will only get disappointed again.
Maybe both of you are stuck on the sex life?
You deserve better and you will find someone better. Maybe not tomorrow or even a year from now but it will happen.
Good Luck Hun
2006-11-26 03:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rhonda L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stuck on trying to tame your beast, your ex. People want what they cant have, and you want your ex but it seems like you cant get full commitment out of him. Why dont you do what everyother girl does in this situation, Play hard to get. If he has game, make him work for ya. Dont be easy, then he will just play your a$$. I guarantee he will be after you, after you call or hangout with new people.
2006-11-26 03:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes figured out how uch he cared for you and he still has feelings. But that "If I can't have you no one else can" is kinda weird because he shouldn't have cheeted on you and if he cared about your feelings then he would have never done it. As for you you should still date him but I know it will be hard for you to have that trust but give him a chance everyone deserves a second chance.
2006-11-26 03:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like that need to be left alone, they like to spread there seed to make sure they still got, but also they like to know that their loved ones who are still hanging on will always be there to. It's called there comfort zone, if one thing doesn't work out they can always go back home, ya know. It's really a stupid cycle but that's men for ya, so I would just ignore him and make sure that his presence doesn't bother you. Yes, he will try to make it up but ya know if he did it once shame on him if he did twice shame on you, don't take him back just tell him to get his commitment problem taken care of and leave you alone. Good Luck Girl!
2006-11-26 03:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best that you say no thank you and mean it because I see something that you may not like he wants ownership not a loving relationship.
If you are into that than put a bow on your head and say "Here I am!"
Decide if you want to be loved or owned.
2006-11-26 03:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baibe dont do this to yourself he sounds like the guy who will hurt u any time as long as u go back to him.if he says no one else can have you then he's dangerous coz he might try and hurt you and also any guy who will try to get close to you. if he cant accept that its over he will probably hurt you coz he'll become overprotective and commanding.
even if you still like him dont go back to him pliz i know its hard but if you want soeone controlling your whole life dnt what you can try to do is get himm to open up about why he thinks you should go back 2 him aight
2006-11-26 03:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back because he knows you're an easy mark! All he really wants is to do is have sex again with you. Once he has, he'll be gone again.
End your confusion. The guy is worthless. Tell him goodbye once and for all!
2006-11-26 03:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋