She has a boyfriend and I told her I had a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet." Than gave me a hug. And the next day she flirted with me a little. She told my friend that she thinks i'm cute, but never said she likes me. So I told her I had a crush, but she never said if she likes me back.
Heard her boyfriend makes her feel bad alot and makes her cry alot coming into work. I just don't get why she's staying with him.
I'm falling for her and I can't stop thinking about her. I don't see how i'm falling for her if I really don't know what she likes in life... All I know is I like her personality. She's sweet and kind
What should I do?
2006-11-26 03:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Control your obsession and just keep being there for her. Offer her compliments and kind words each day. Let her resolve any problems with her relationship , you don't want that to start a relationship with you. Patience may win the girl , but keep your eyes open for someone new.
2006-11-26 03:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is flattered and she takes it as a compliment as she's probably not getting much of a feedback from her bf..
she is too loyal and too in love with her abusive bf if (what u heard is true) to break up with him not for u, but just for the sake of it.
i think she doesnt like u the way u wish her to like u and the way u like her..but nobody knows what'll happen in the future.
her flirtation is just being sweet and kind but ur imagination is playing games on u..she just appreciates the way u feel and thats about it.
what u should do is basically nothing. be nice and friendly but know that she isnt into u the way u r into her, it could be be about the bad timming..or simply u have no chemistry between u too..as chemistry is a funny thing, u could feel a way but the other person could feel the total opposite...so just leave it to time..
2006-11-26 11:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kolera 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either move on or get your A-game on and take this girl from her man. She might just be playing "playing hard to get" with you. think you just might like her because you cant have her. I think you jst like the excitement and your caught up in the chase of her. Maybe i am wrong, but its happened to me before. I would keep in touch with her, but dont become clingy or needy. Keep talks small, and make her feel some attraction for you!. Her calling you "cute" is no good!, thats just an ego booster for her, she knows shes got guys who like her and she loves how it makes her feel. But its hard to say from the outside looking in.
2006-11-26 11:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww! In a way, that likes me, except, instead of a girl, it's a guy... But, just try to be super nice to her, and try to get to be her friend. Girls love it when guys don't just look at them. I love the fact that I have a good guy friend, and I liked him first, and now he likes me! (As more than friends) Just be yourself and try not to get to attracted. I know it's hard, but if you do, and she doesn't like you like that, ZIP, a broken heart. Just try to be her friend... ya know?
2006-11-26 11:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Stay out. All women like to be loved. She is playing mind games with you. I'd act cool/nice in front of her and make her go to you instead.
2006-11-26 11:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by itguru5354 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you want get her cause your playing the "good guy"! Your gonna be that someone to give her a lil support when she needs you not when you need her!
2006-11-26 11:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by afsuperman9 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she gonna use u as shoulder to cry on, if your desperate take her, if not find another worth a try. keep looking boy.
2006-11-26 11:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by icy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell that you luv her that she doesn't deserve a guy lik that.
2006-11-26 11:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋