How do u get ur ex back in a difficult time 4 u????

Question

How do u get ur ex back in a difficult time 4 u????
My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus of something i said in bad temper. I was stressed at finding out my mum mite have cancer again and i was very sick myself. She said she only broke up wit cus wat i said meant i didn't trust her. we were really in love and she said that when we broke up up she wud still always love me but when i pressured her she said she didn't love me. I have found out that i mite have cancer at 19 years of age and im nervously waiting on test results, i love her and need her support. how do i go about getting her bak cus i really need her now

I really love this girl and i really want 2 b with her,i always trusted her.

Answer 1

you really "need" her right now?!! come on man, girls are shut down by that kind of talk. Your vibe/attitude rubs off on people in your area. If your always happy, then people around you will be happy. If your always down, then people around you will be down and stay away and forget about you. Id become the center of her universe. Make her feel like she needs YOU to make her happy and give her positive
energy. Your 19, you could just get over her theres plenty of girls that fit your exact standard. Once you realize this, she will want you even more. Sounds like you gave up your power and now its all he choice! girls like men, who can make choices for them. not controll freaks, they just like men that they can trust to make the best decisions. Its all up to her whether or not you guys get back together. this is very bad. Your to easy for her and she knows that she can go back to you at anytime. do something to balance out the power and dont be so easy!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Wow... First of all, Im sorry to hear that about you... And, I wish you nothing but the best for you and your mom!
For, your girlfriend... She need's to understand what your going threw. But, when guy's say thing's in a bad temper way we take those thing's to heart! Cause, it was always said when men are mad they say thing's they hold inside, so she might of thought you meant whatever you said to her when you were mad. But, when she said you pressured her she doesn't love you anymore. She still does. She's not going to just stop loving you. The reason, she said that to you was because she was frustrated and mad... Deep down inside, she didn't mean that! You need to sit her down and try to explain yourself to her in a passionate way and sencer way... Tell, her what is all going on in your life and tell her how much it makes you better when she is there supporting you! That she makes your life worth fighting and living for... That she keeps you going! Even, if it's not as a girlfriend way. It can still be as a good or even bestfriend way! Don't try to pressure her back to being your girlfriend, just start off trying to make her your friend again. Cause, when you pressure a girl it makes us feel like your trying to control us. Just sit her down and explain everything to her and tell her your not pressuring her to be your girlfriend again, you just need a dfriend right now, and she is all you have....
Best of luck to you!!!

Answer 4

well if you think she can be your healer now ,so contact her ..call her or send an email and explain to her that you just need her and no one else can take her place for you right now ,tell her honestly that how much you need her support and I am sure she will write you back ..I wish you good luck dear!

Answer 5

hi,

never expect a girl to forgive you, it never happens,
mine has left me after a 5 yr relation. it has been 4 months but shes no where.

Answer 6

You might have cancer....and its ok....I had it too...I was diagnosed early and treated....I am clear now.....don't be scared....just call her and tell her that you might be sick and want her to be there for you....and go from there....don't sound too desparate.....all the best.

ps: cancer doesn't always mean death!!