I am a 21 year old male, my problem is when i was 17 years old, i diguised my self into a girl's character and made a fake yahoo ID and entered a lesbian chatroom in yahoo messenger (to see what are the kinds of converstations that girls share with each other) I WAS THE MOST STUPID PERSON ON THIS PLANET WHEN I DID THIS, since that time, all what comes to my mind about girls is lesbian relationships, i can never think of a girl only if she was with another girl having sex. i swear i haven't made one girlfirend in my life because of this reason. i have alot of girls who are just college-mates or ordinary friends, but never had my own girl. Something always blocks in my way (in my mind), i want to get rid of this type of thinking coz i know its fake and will do me nothing but harm. please i need a real answer for my situation. (p.s. I AM NOT GAY AT ALLL).
2006-11-26 03:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-26 03:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by micmegan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you are describing is something like the effect you would get from watching porn all the time. You soon begin to think that real women are that way and may be turned on by that or turned off.
The perversion you have is one of a voyeur. You like the thought of watching girls make love to each other. You may believe this teaches you what girls like when you are making love to them but...as with porn...it is not real. At least not for you. And it is above all safe. No commitment on your part. You clearly like women because that is what you are watching...talking to.
You clearly have a problem with being intimate with a girl. You do need to address this and fix it if you ever hope to marry. You are not gay and your not completely heterosexual. This is a very bad place to be if you hope to be happy with a woman someday.
Get some help with this. Have your doctor recommend a sex therapist or some professional you can talk to. This is just as serious as any aliment you may have that a doctor can help you with. Don't put this off.
2006-11-26 03:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to go make some girl friends and see if you still think about girl-sex. If that doesn't work have a three some with two other girls and stop worrying so much.
2006-11-26 03:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Iileen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 16:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't really know how to fix this problem. but maybe you should try making friends with some females first and hopefully your thoughts will eventually lessen.
2006-11-26 03:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go into a regular person chat room, not for lesbians or whatever. or this is gross and i personally wouldn't recomend this but um go watch porn. lmao.
2006-11-26 03:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are abnormal, and not in a good way.
Seek help.
2006-11-26 03:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋