Singles & Dating - 22 November 2006

I saw a question I wanted to supplement here. Women are looking for the "perfect" man or Mr Right, but when they find him, inevitably it seems they try to talk themselves out of it, either they find as many trivial faults with him or differences between them or even try and tell themselves that they (the woman) doesn't deserve such a good guy. I know not all of you ladies do this, but why do any of you do it?

2006-11-22 01:57:28 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

My friend is going on one of those tirades. She has this boyfriend, my other friends ex. You can see that the girl that used to date him is uncomfortable with it. And the other girl is obsessed, now they both turn to me to help! I really don't want her to date that boy, but i don't want the other girl to be blamed for me breaking the two up, how do i do this all secret agent like?

2006-11-22 01:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend never calls me anymore and he is one of those guys that only think about themselves and always tells me that he is going to break up with me for stupid reasons but then doesnt but this other guy treats me great the only problem is that he works all the time i am so cofused please help me!!!!!!

2006-11-22 01:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by kristi h 1

Ok so we were together, he was you know getting me ready and i was very ready

i spread my legs and he was in between the....limp !!!!!! hahahha i was so shocked !! (and disappointed) . he said "just play with it ok>? it will help" and it did and he finished like in 5 min.

ok i was worried...does he not like me?

he said it was stress but i am very worried he doesn't like me

please help ..:( thanks !

2006-11-22 01:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dump her. Iam 35yo Why do I get upset when i find out my girlfriend has had a one night stand in the past before we met or has had more partners than me or has sexual experiences (like a threesome) that i havent had. Is this because ive never experienced these things myself and how do i get over it and except a partners sexual history for what it is.

2006-11-22 01:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by sunline 3

I'm a twenty-eight year old guy who was in the only real relationship of his life for six years (which ended in 2004). Now, there is someone else on my radar, and I don't know if she's interested in me, or how to show her I'm interested in her. I'm a nice looking guy, but still lack self-confidence from when I was extremely overweight as a teenager. Somehow, I can't help but feel like I'm going to be rejected, and the thought simply paralyzes me. Any help anyone (especially female) can provide would be greatly appreciated. Again, I AM twenty-eight years old. This means I really am not interested in answers from teenagers, or silly, cheesy answers (that said, I'm sure to get one). What I'm saying is I know what doesn't work. I want to know what does. Thank you.

2006-11-22 01:52:01 · 11 answers · asked by ringthechains666 1

I need to give my boyfriend something special for Christmas, but i cant think of anything that boys like. HELP!!!

2006-11-22 01:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by Sabrina C 2

Okay..my girlfriend is gone away at school and in January is leaving to go into the National Guard..she's 19 and I'm only 17 so going with her isn't and option....yet....help me I don't want to let her go!!!!!!

2006-11-22 01:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 01:50:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do men (and women)
prefer:
A) Sexy sweet silky romantic lingerie
B) Fiesty thigh highs, with heels and a hot little negligee

????

Just curious. . .

I'm in a mood today and put on my fishnets and have on a sesy little red number on under this suite I wear to work.

These old farts would have heart attacks if they realized what I've got on under here (he he)

2006-11-22 01:50:05 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

have this ex gf that i dated for 3 years. I love her with all my heart! i messed up in the relationship even thought she was far from being perfect. I took her for granted and should have showed her alot more attention and showed her i loved her. We started off on a break but lead to a break up it has been 2 months. Since then im the one that has tookin it hard i feel like she is controling the situation. i wont call her but she will call me every so often wanting to hang out. When we hang out she says "if we get back togather" then she will say that we are only friends at the moment no affection thing is i dont call her she calls me what are her Intentions she says "she wants to start over as friend and rebuild the trust" is that just her keeping me attached? or is she serious?

2006-11-22 01:48:34 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1

what should i do now????????/

[ do not say that again contact her or try get a new girl]

2006-11-22 01:48:32 · 5 answers · asked by cuz he will die soon 2

I dated a guy at my college in 2004 for about six months before he went off to med school in a different state. It's been about 3 years since i've seen him face to face but we've managed to maintain a friendly and close relationship via phone calls and text msg etc... He currently has a gf of one year but he always brings up the fact that he thinks about me while having sex with his gf. He doesn't know why, but I just can't believe he's telling me something like that...Does he love me? Does his gf suck in bed or what is going on in his head? Every time we talk on the phone he reminds me of the times we had made love and how great it was etc...I'm just confused about what his intentions are towards me.

2006-11-22 01:46:44 · 15 answers · asked by Surf me 2

My boyfriend is completelty stressed out and I think he is about to walk out of my life. I made the mistake of bringing him to live with me and my parents and now he hates it there. He tells me he does not know why he is there anymore and even though he does say it, I know he wants to leave. He has told me before that he would never leave without me but I think this time he wants to move and not take me with. I try my best to help him out and do what I can to calm him down but I feel what I'm doing is not good enough anymore. I don't even know if he is happy with me anymore. He says he loves me but never shows it like he used to and does not smile like he used to either. What do I do?? I'm in love with him but I think I might have to make him leave or he is going ot loose his mind..... HELP!!!!!

2006-11-22 01:45:48 · 8 answers · asked by Care Bear 1

He never calls me when with him and that is all of the time, he stays the night there almost every night so he dont call me them days, and he also ditches me to hang out with him instead of me.

2006-11-22 01:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by kristi h 1

2006-11-22 01:39:31 · 27 answers · asked by thinkpink4u101 2

Hi frens,
take this question in a good spirit.
One of my friend told me that, one can avoid pregnancy when they are intimate together with the partner without protection. He said he will ask the lady to stand up, immediately after the climax, and wash it. Is it so?
Another doubt is, he said in some days in menstrual cycle, there is no chance of getting pregnant.What are all the days...
If someone is getting offended by this question please ignore this Question.

2006-11-22 01:39:20 · 22 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3

but there isn't enough room in my bed, so i told her no and now she's mad. what did i do wrong?

2006-11-22 01:37:07 · 49 answers · asked by Simpleton 1

Met this really nice guy and saw each other for a while. He went away for a few weeks and communication dried up. I contacted him on return and still didnt really hear anything. I thought to myself move on and forget it, a week passed and ive had a message saying he was sorry for not being in touch and has had stuff going on in his head. Wot does this mean is it just a polite way of saying he doesnt want to see me again? why did he get back in touch and just not leave things?

2006-11-22 01:36:34 · 15 answers · asked by akaj 1

what can i buy my b/f for xmas? hes 20 and ive got hardly any money to spend! please help!

2006-11-22 01:35:19 · 13 answers · asked by adele_amy06 1

I have a gf that has a problem with me talking to a female friend on the phone. Here’s the story…… my gf had this male friend that she would talk to and go over his house from time to time and at the time, was not talking to my female friend. But now my gf’s male friend does not show the same attention that she was used to in the past. He pretty much stops calling her. That is not the problem the problem is that she does not want me to talk to my female friend mainly because me and the friend were SEXUALLY involved in the past o.k. that bad right…. for me to talk to my female friend but when I was involved with my friend, she was SEXUALLY involved with my god-sister…… so in a nut shell she does not want me to talk to my female friend but I will and have allowed her to talk to her male friend that she was never sexually involved with … last night I deleted all the female friends contacts out my phone, today will be dropping my facebook account. I ask her to do the same but she does not want to. So whatcha you have to say about that.

2006-11-22 01:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by c b 1

I am a 30 year old guy
and she is 45, we work in the same office and hang out at work alot. We both are going thru divorces.
we like each other, we talk about going out but never do
what do you guys think ?
would this work? or is it just a phase were going thru?

2006-11-22 01:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by alooz 2

2006-11-22 01:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have had 2day the worst date of my life. a gal has been pestering me for past weeks for date, gave her chance only to discover that she is boring as.. i don't know. she is unintellingent at 19 a gal should know how to stike a good conversation. i was so bored i haD TO CUT IT SHORT. de worst part, she brought along her mate who I stated to flirt with, and told her i like her, i dont care if she tells her friend who was meant to be my date.

2006-11-22 01:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by kau la poo 2

What can I do to make it go away? PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-11-22 01:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by bellacervantes 1

Ok I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend we have a long distance relationship for about 1 1/2 years since i moved away ok i'm going to go back to where i used to live to see him he asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity with him does that mean were going to have sex when i get there i'm so confused what should i do? If he does want to have sex should I but i'm only 15

2006-11-22 01:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah S 1

so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 11months to date and we're both seniors in highschool...we've been getting into little stupid fights now for the past few months and they go off and on every couple of days...we've been trying to fix it and have found some temporary solutions but only seem to act as bandaids to stop it shortly ....

..to make matters worse we've both been accepted to colleges already and they are unfortuantly 2hours apart..so thats not making matters any better..

...any ideas or suggestions on what to do to make this work

2006-11-22 01:29:19 · 17 answers · asked by Bar19one 3

I'm still in love with my ex but he broke up with me on october the 13 and he told me that maybe later on the future we could get back together, he was still talk to his exgirl while he was with me what should I do

2006-11-22 01:28:09 · 14 answers · asked by lovelife 2

Has been emailing this girl, Danielle. And she wrote an email to him saying "You and I both said that if you email me again, then that means you like me! But just for today! I am 12 years old, and I went through this before. But, what does this email mean? My boyfriend says helovs me, and he wouldnt cheat on me, or anything. So, what do I do?

2006-11-22 01:28:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica P 1

We had a great thing going for a few months, she got distant, said she should be alone for a while. I can accept that. But she texts me all the time still, talk and see each other occasionally and things aren't awkward (but I can still feel the chemistry so I know it's still there and she's still interested). Quick question (and hope there's a simple answer) how do I keep myself around this girl just enough to keep "the fire" tended but not too much to fall into "just friends"? It seems I am walking a very fine line.

2006-11-22 01:27:30 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6