I dated a guy at my college in 2004 for about six months before he went off to med school in a different state. It's been about 3 years since i've seen him face to face but we've managed to maintain a friendly and close relationship via phone calls and text msg etc... He currently has a gf of one year but he always brings up the fact that he thinks about me while having sex with his gf. He doesn't know why, but I just can't believe he's telling me something like that...Does he love me? Does his gf suck in bed or what is going on in his head? Every time we talk on the phone he reminds me of the times we had made love and how great it was etc...I'm just confused about what his intentions are towards me.
2006-11-22 01:46:44 · 15 answers · asked by Surf me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His playing a mind game on you dear. By doing this, he will make you feel special, but you really are not...Why does he think of you while having sex with his new lady? Was these the one happy times that he has of you? No, he's trying to string you along for future references. An ex is an ex for some reason or another, so move on and find someone who deserve you. Good luck...
2006-11-22 01:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl ,that guy doesn't sound good to me.
He is probably telling you all of that ,waiting for you to say , yes I feel the same and I want to be with you , so he can jump into your bed.
If he really cares for you , he will be talking to you about his feelings and not about sex...!!!
If the gf is that bad in bed and he misses you so much , why is he still with her??
He is playing safe and it looks that if you play his game , you will end up heartbroken.
I will clearly explain to him I moved on from those times , if he wants to be friends (and you want too) ok , otherwise you deserve something better that someone who use to be my bf and thinks that can have me any time he wants .
Surely you will meet a nicer guy soon
Good luck
2006-11-22 10:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by blueflosky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy ALWAYS wants sex from an attractive girl that he is friends with. It's just the way our bodies trick us. That's why I don't have friends like that, especially with an ex. Why stay in the past? I have a beautiful woman who loves me and who is the greatest woman in the world. There is NOTHING else. Maybe you should look elsewhere for a man who cares about you and wants more than "sex". How about LOVE?
2006-11-22 09:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their own thing, their own "footprint", or presence that they leave on you, concerning spending time together in that way. so whatever niche you'd filled at that time, he hasn't found a way to get over it yet, or would like to experience that same thing again. he may never get it, but if you choose to go there with him, take it for what it's worth and protect yourself and your feelings as opposed to taking it for a chance to get back into the relationship. I'd be flattered, but i wouldn't act on it, because it's only a matter of time before he finds something else that's special about her or some other girl he ends up with.
everyone makes us feel a certain way, for whatever reason, and you're not going to experience relationships, or certain things about a relationship, in the same way with two different people. he probably does still love you, but it may not be what you're looking for. if it means enough to him that he's willing to step out on this girl you don't want to be the one left holding the bag; let someone else deal with that.
2006-11-22 09:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may still have feelings for you but it may not be exactly true love since he has been with his gf for a year. If he did love you, yes, he would be with you and not her. Besides, you need to remember thereason why you both broke up in the first place. Think with your head and not the South below, dear.
Even if you give it to him, he will still continue being with his gf so its up to you to decide whether you want to be his f.u.c.k. buddy or ''a friend''. If you choose the latter, create your boundaries and stick to it. An ex is an ex. Case closed.
2006-11-22 09:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple
You're better in bed than his current girlfriend. It doesn't neccessarily mean she sucks (though she probably DOES) but it DOES mean that you're a lot better.
His words dont really mean that he wants to be with you, unless he comes right out and says so, but I can guarantee that he would love to have sex with you again.
2006-11-22 09:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hoping you'll start thinking he still loves you so he can get a little something on the side. Sounds like a jerk to me. I would move on and start text messaging someone else.
2006-11-22 09:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like he only mentions about sex. Maybe he's just letting you know how good it was with you. If he loves you he would talk to you about everything y'all did together not just about sex.
2006-11-22 09:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's secretly hoping that telling you that will get you in the sack. Don't fall for it. If he still loved you he'd be with you not her. Trust me.
2006-11-22 09:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe him sure he compare the different way in sex
2006-11-22 09:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by fadel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋