my gf said she wants to sleep with me?

Question

but there isn't enough room in my bed, so i told her no and now she's mad. what did i do wrong?

Answer 1

I thought we had this talk before?

Answer 2

You told her no thats what you did wrong!!!! You can make room for you and her. You two should cuddle and hold it other tight, it may be uncomfortable and she will then know why you told her no. But you should have told her in a better way, all you had to do was tell her the truth, that your bed is a little too small for the both of you, then you guys could have came up with a plan. Or make a pallet on your floor so you two can sleep together. LOL

Answer 3

What did you do wrong? Did you really think she meant sleep, and in close eyes and have dreams together?
She has indicated she wants to make love with you, you have told her no, now, this could be taken that you don't find her attractive enough, your don't fancy her and really she is just someone you hang around with and snog but is not good enough to make love with.
And so what if your bed is too small love conquers all and sharing a small bed would be half the fun, if she meant bed at all.
And if you did get what she meant and you still blurted out no, then you should have been a little more diplomatic, like I am not ready for our relationship to move to that level yet.
Boy have you got to wise up.... quickly.

Answer 4

Not sure what you were thinking when you said no, but if there is enough room for 1 person on the bed there is plenty of room for 2. How much space do you think you need? Is this a baby bed or something?

Answer 5

Its not about if theres room in your bed sweetie its about making the commitment..
You've hurt her feelings i suggest you go and talk to her clear the matter up..
You could sleep on the floor for all she cares...
Shes made the first move by letting you know shes ready to sleep with you its annoyed her because the first thing u probably said was that theres not enuf room in your bed for her!!
How nice is that?
Imagine if it was the other way around wouldnt you be annoyed!

Answer 6

Congratulations! You did the right thing by saying no to her. All they want is to get pregnant and make the guy pay for the rest of his life! The women would rather get all the mans money so they wont have to work and they can spend everyday at the mall spending all the guys money on themselves while the man works 4 full time jobs and lives in a homeless shelter starving to death!!!

Answer 7

if ur gf wants to sleep with u, u should be happy.
buy a bigger bed or try to adjust in the space u have.
tell her sorry & take her to bed with u.
alternatively u can sleep on the floor & let her sleep on the
bed.
u have done a big mistake dude by telling her no.

Answer 8

Until you've crammed your 6'3" self into the passenger seat of a Toyota MR2 with your girlfriend, don't complain about not having enough room. Women are emotional creatures and will take your rejection of the idea as a rejection of themselves. Hope your ready to buy some shiny jewelry ;-)

Answer 9

You told her no. If there isn't enough room, sleep on the couch.

Answer 10

What kind of bed you have ???I think you didnt do anything wrong why dont yall sleep somewhere that yall both have room to sleep at.

Answer 11

You should buy an air matress big enough for the both of you, sleep on the floor, or cuddle up real close so there is enough room.