Met this really nice guy and saw each other for a while. He went away for a few weeks and communication dried up. I contacted him on return and still didnt really hear anything. I thought to myself move on and forget it, a week passed and ive had a message saying he was sorry for not being in touch and has had stuff going on in his head. Wot does this mean is it just a polite way of saying he doesnt want to see me again? why did he get back in touch and just not leave things?
2006-11-22 01:36:34 · 15 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has came out of a long term relationship as have I. I txt bk saying hope you ok and apology accepted. Since hear nothing. can anyone advise?
2006-11-22 03:11:15 · update #1
Talk to him about it..
this tuff he had going on in his head could be anyhting but he obviously didnt want to tell you about it maybe if you asked he may...
He hasnt left it cos he obvioulsy thinks alot of you if he didnt he wouldnt of bothered believe me.
If i were you i'd contact him tell him its not a problem u just wondered if he was ok..
If you know where he went and why he went away it may have somethign to do with that...
It could be family an ex anyhting
Dont jump to conclusions chick communicate with the bloke they find it hard to do so make it easier...
2006-11-22 01:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not scolding you but I often notice that people complicate things. Why do we believe the big lie so readily yet have trouble accepting the simple truths? Can't you take his word at face value?
It is very possible that you are not his priority right now; You are not his wife or his fiance and even though you dated for some time, he might actually have some things going on with people such as a brother or past girlfriend. He did not blow you off after all by failing to tell you anything, he gave you an explanation and it may not reflect on you personally; it should not control your actions. Be a nice friend that shows an interest in establishing an intimate relationship when you have contact with him. Initiate some contact yes, but don't play any games or try too hard to figure it all out. Sometimes life is simple if we let it be that way.
2006-11-22 09:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mere Exposure 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he contacted you again after a time apart then obviously he is still interested in you. You never know he may have just gotten out of a serious relationship and needed time to think things over before getting into another realationship. The stuff in his head could be totally harmless and have nothing to do with you. Not all guys think with their little heads.
2006-11-22 10:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More than likely, when he was gone and not in touch, he was seeing someone else and that probably ended and now he is contacting you again, because she dumped him. You can ask him why and what was going on in his head, but it more than likely was another woman.
2006-11-22 09:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because if he doesn't want to see you again or anything he wouldn't have responded at all and just left things as they were. he probably had some things going on in his life and everything got really hectic but at least and remember to call you back that shows something
2006-11-22 09:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by lovely baby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's dating other girls.....sorry but I believe it is the truth. If he wanted to have relationship with you he would have stayed in touch. I suggest that you move and don't stress over the situation
2006-11-22 09:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems like he probably met someone else and he is confused over his feelings towards you but obviously he likes you otherwise he would not have called!
2006-11-22 09:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Cami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants u back, maybe he just had some problems.. or maybe he was in a relationship that has just ended, so now he wants you.. anyway, that means he wants to go out with ya again..
2006-11-22 09:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by nik08la 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on He is just messing with your head
2006-11-22 09:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by angelasmall32 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means the babe he scored on after you dried up and he's looking for "old standby!"
2006-11-22 09:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋