I dump her. Iam 35yo Why do I get upset when i find out my girlfriend has had a one night stand in the past before we met or has had more partners than me or has sexual experiences (like a threesome) that i havent had. Is this because ive never experienced these things myself and how do i get over it and except a partners sexual history for what it is.
2006-11-22 01:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by sunline 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you just enjoy it.
2006-11-22 01:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to say that women who have had more sexual encounters are a bad thing, its more common. But I wont say that "run-arounds" are a good thing either.
More people are getting the chance to experience new and different things, but I think what you are wanting to find is not going to happen with the types you have been with. You are looking for someone who has not be so "riskei" in their pasts, but you are attracted to them and therefore date them, and then have issues with it.
You need to either find types that are not this way, or stop worrying about peoples pasts, as it is the "present" day. You will never seek out and find the person for you if you spend so much concern over anothers past. Accepting it, and not putting it in such a bad light, but looking for the other things in your partners that make you happy should be of more interest.
2006-11-22 01:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kris p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 35 yrs. old. Most women that age have been around at least a time or two. You can't get upset because someone is more experienced than you. You have your reasons for what you do but maybe take a few lessons. What are you waiting for?
2006-11-22 01:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I would be happy that you were with a girl who is more experienced; don't get me wrong, I have more than enough experience, but it is great not having to deal with sexual immaturity. Not to mention, women who are more experienced know what they want and there is nothing hotter.
I say STOP DUMPING, and start getting involved or you will ALWAYS be inexperienced.
2006-11-22 01:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it another way. If you have experienced partners, it's all going to be new to you. Enjoy it and you might learn a thing or two along the way.
2006-11-22 02:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you buddy. I have been with 18 women since the age of 16. I am now 23. To most women that sounds like a lot. It sucks to even think about your girl having been with one person before you. What most guys want is a freaky *** virgin. That way thats our realestate and we put or flag on it and now its ours. We don't want to think about some other dude having trespassed onto our property.
2006-11-22 01:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past. you'll just let it go if you really like a girl. if you're not sexually experienced and you want to be, you can learn. there are tons of books and videos (not porn) on this subject. try "Carol Wright" or "Dr. Leonard's". both have those kinds of videos.
2006-11-22 01:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by jessyl135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know y u r upset! i think it may be a jealousy type thing, maybe you feel like u r not important enough for her, but i dont really see the problem! give her a chance...
2006-11-22 01:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get up to him and show him your vaginal opening or your outer labeas thats all.
2006-11-22 01:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl and she will most likely be very happy to teach you things.
2006-11-22 01:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's both insecurity and trust issue's your afaid of rejection!hey who's not!!but you gotta let it go! even porn star's get married!!imagine yourself in that situation!!
2006-11-22 01:58:16 · answer #11 · answered by skanken808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋