My boyfriend never calls me anymore and he is one of those guys that only think about themselves and always tells me that he is going to break up with me for stupid reasons but then doesnt but this other guy treats me great the only problem is that he works all the time i am so cofused please help me!!!!!!
2006-11-22 01:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by kristi h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ANSWERED THIS YOURSELF, SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BOY FRIEND IS A JERK, HE USES YOU AND SEES YOU ONLY WHEN HE WANTS ON HIS TERMS, THE OTHER LAD IS SINCERE AND TREATS YOU NICE, HE IS DOING WHAT MOST MEN DO (WORK A LOT) BUT HEY, IF HE LIKES YOU A LOT PERHAPS HE WANTS THE MONEY TO BUY YOU NICE THINGS OR TAKE YOU OUT, I SAY TALK TO BOTH, TELL BOYFRIEND TO EITHER RESPECT YOU AND SPEND TIME WITH YOU REGULARLY OR YOU WILL BE DOING THE DUMPING NOT HIM, AND IF THAT DOESNT DO THE TRICK TELL THE OTHER GUY YOU WANT HIM BUT WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM, IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU A LOT HE WILL JUMP AT THE CHANCE.REMEMBER THIS SPECIAL SAYING, RESPECT YOURSELF AND GET RESPECTED.
2006-11-22 02:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anyone on here can answer that question for you. The thing you need to think about is why are you still with your boyfriend? If you love him and you want to be with him then that's what you need to do, and leave that other guy alone. Because you and your boyfriend have a commitment with one another. You promised him you should keep that promise. And if you can't come up with any good reasons to stay with your boyfriend, then you don't really need to be with him. You don't have to wait until he dumps you , dump him. Too many time people stay in a relationship, that's not healthy because they don't want to be the bad guy... I say don't worry about being the bad guy, just follow your heart and be happy, because life is short and before you know it you will look back and all of this will be a memory. Wouldn't you like a memory that make you smile.
2006-11-22 10:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by thecraved1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both sound like they need some help in the relationship area. I will say this as a rule of thumb. " Th grass ain't greener on the otherside! " My experience has taught me that. Things with that other guy may seem swell but you have to look at it from this angle. Of course he is all those things. You guys really don't have nothing but good times to share but what do you think will happen when you guys become full time. I know what will. You will want more time that he will probably not give you and then the fun begins...you will become the ball in a tennis match between these two men. Don't do that to yourself. I would say get rid of both of them and back to the drawing board cause they both can't give you what you want.
2006-11-22 10:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every woman be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl for myself as well
2006-11-22 09:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I definitely just got out of a relationship under the same circumstances. You just need to call up, or go see your boyfriend, talk to him about everything, and probably break up with him.
2006-11-22 09:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your boyfriend treats you bad and your not happy, u should leave him anyways even though you like other guy, so take it from there after u leave your man now and give the other guy you like a chance and see how it works out maybe you will be alot happier
2006-11-22 09:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl alot of dudes out there to love you and not threaten to leave you over silly reasons..... got them lining up now by the sounds of it... go for it!
2006-11-22 09:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
terminate the r'ship with ur existing bf as he treating u crap & start being friends with the new guy before u enter a r'ship with him so u can see how he is.
2006-11-22 09:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with w/ ur bf and go out with nick
2006-11-22 23:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would dump your boygriend
2006-11-22 10:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋