Ok so we were together, he was you know getting me ready and i was very ready
i spread my legs and he was in between the....limp !!!!!! hahahha i was so shocked !! (and disappointed) . he said "just play with it ok>? it will help" and it did and he finished like in 5 min.
ok i was worried...does he not like me?
he said it was stress but i am very worried he doesn't like me
please help ..:( thanks !
2006-11-22 01:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes that happens. Probably it was anxiety or something. Give one more chance but if the same thing happens ditch him.
2006-11-22 01:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just nervous. The stress guys put on themselves to impress their girl can be too much and, boom, things stop working right. If you're old enough, have a few drinks beforehand next time and see if he isn't a lot more relaxed.
2006-11-22 02:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK from a married man's perspective, I have had the same problem in the past with certain "friends," and for me it was a multitude of things, one she was a Lil "stinky," i have been tired and stressed and been you know horny but have gone limp right before." say to him "honey whats the real reason why you went limp" and if he reacts in an angry way you know he's hiding something. maybe he might just come out and say the truth.
2006-11-22 02:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by ArtSiNister 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha! ok No it is not you! If he was not into you then he would have not wanted to sleep with you in the first place! Some guys have trouble in that department! It takes a little more for them to get it "up". Dont worry yourself about that!
2006-11-22 01:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it.. he was probably worried about getting caught or getting you pregnant or something. try it again, somewhere a little more quiet and with protection. he wont be AS worried or nervous. and if it was the first time you guys did
ANYTHING of course he's gonna be nervous and paranoid. give him another chance. and if he doesnt get it up, it may not be that he doesnt like you. its probably that he has that kind of disfunction.
2006-11-22 02:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal for any man over 16. He does like you. And if he finished within 5 mins maybe he likes you a little too much!!
2006-11-22 01:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by gio 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doubt if it was stress, and only 5 min. even on the first time he should take it slow,and work you so hard you won't ever forget him.
2006-11-22 02:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by jeepit123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just the first time jitters. I'm sure it's nothing to worry about.
2006-11-22 01:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by GO SOONERS!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just being nervous. Relax, have lots of foreplay next time and try again.
2006-11-22 02:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes you
2006-11-22 01:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋