Singles & Dating - 21 November 2006

i have three guys who are older then me that like me... and they all work with my mom!! i am 17 and 2 of them are 22 and 1 is 19... what should i do???

2006-11-21 04:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by Tara M 2

I'm f/22, 5'10", 170lbs., 38" 35" 42". Thick brown hair just below the shoulders. Slightly tanned looking skin. Almond shaped hazel eyes. Nice smile although I have gums that show when I smile. Small mouth. Pink lips that are not too big but not too small. My nose comes out about a 40 degree angle and is pointed (not downward). I am not horse faced. Although at a certain angle my face appears slender, but looking straight on my face is a bit rounded. I'm just talking about looks. I want the truth and none of those "it's inside that counts, hun." things. I want to know a guy's first reaction to the looks.

2006-11-21 04:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this girl off and on for like 8 years, and I despise everything about her, she's so annoying and she smells, but the sex is really good. Last week she invited me to her house for thanksgiving and I agreed. I'm going to use this time to tell her I don't love her and have been using her for the sex, but I don't know when to do that, I was thinking during thanksgiving dinner I could lean over and tell her i wanted to stop seeing each other so that we'd be around other people so she'll be too embarassed to freak out on me and I can just have her for the rest of the trip and then we can part ways and never speak to each other again. Oh I think she might be pregnant,

2006-11-21 04:27:03 · 32 answers · asked by ilovethecolony 1

Im 180 lbs and 5ft 7inches tall recenently i lost weight which brought me to where i currently am. As a result i haqve strecth marks n my hips and shoulders. I also have spots in my back bcuz of acne or wat ever the hell it is that cuz it. The thing is i dont want my bf to see this espeecially the stretch marks. I tend to cover up after sex or i want to have sex with the light off or even dimmed slightly.
im afraid to ask him who he feels about it cuz i dont want him to lie to me just to let me feel better. I hate feeling this way.

2006-11-21 04:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by brambram87 3

wondering. Especially guys opinion

2006-11-21 04:26:08 · 34 answers · asked by Lie8Les 1

My boyfriend of 5 years sayes he wants to marry me but when i asked him when he was goning to propose she said he wants it to be a suprise that was almost a year ago and he still hasent proposed do you think he still wants to marry me?

2006-11-21 04:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by Kat 3

if i give a women a neck massage on the first date and then she gives me one do you think this is a good sign or not?

2006-11-21 04:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by lounwo30 1

just because someone is 16 doesnt mean they cant explore their body or have sex. the people you answer questions to dont just thing about sex. you cant assume that thats all i think about just because i want to do it. im and A+ honors student but im still going to do it weather or not of my age. why do people have to assume the worst. if you dont have an answer besides god be with you because your so young, dont answer the question. i dont understand it!

2006-11-21 04:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean... is it true when a guy says he loves you and hes crazy about you, hes really meant it?

2006-11-21 04:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2

been through just about everything
that i could go through when it comes to relationships
dont know what i was missing or why i aint listen
when i told myself that was it
but here i go hurt again cause
of my curiosity now that its over
what else could it be
besides a cheat

i made a promise
never to settle (why didnt i keep it)
cos i needed the heart break
cryin and cheatin the fooling around

but im not missing u

im not going through emotions
waiting and a hoping u call me
im not missing u
u mighta had me open
but i must be goin because
i got lots to do
i know im usually hanging on
i used to hate to see u go
but this time its different
i dont even feel the distance
im not missing im not missing u

its a shame in a way
cos i feel that i may not
ever fine the right one for me
did i leave him this year
i didnt find a face oh
will my true love ever be
how could i go on a search again
when i know what the end will be
what good is love when it keeps on hurting me

i made a promise
never to settle (why didnt i keep it)
cos i needed the heart break
cryin and cheatin the fooling around

but im not missing u

im not going through emotions
waiting and a hoping u call me
im not missing u
u mighta had me open
but i must be goin because
i got lots to do
i know im usually hanging on
i used to hate to see u go
but this time its different

2006-11-21 04:24:03 · 2 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2

it's been a couple of weeks now and i've been going out of my mind wondering if she loves me or not.

2006-11-21 04:23:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

any positions or even the girl itself.

2006-11-21 04:23:56 · 17 answers · asked by Lie8Les 1

do you think maybe he's cheating wit someone skinner than me ,he 's never said nothing like that in the 10 yrs weve been together ,or is it my imagination!

2006-11-21 04:21:26 · 13 answers · asked by shannan_025 1

I was born and bought up in Asia , even though English was my 1st language at school I still have problems expressing my thoughts or making long conversations, do any of you have the same problem how do you deal with it ? I tried speaking slowly but I become so consious that I will forget what to say next . I have a date soon I don't want him to think I cannot communicate please help. I'm best when I speak my heart but that will put me in trouble b'coz at heart I'm very emotional and honest , so I'm afraid if I speak my heart to my date I may come acorss as a emotional person which I want to let him know eventually . I love the way Americans speak and communicate I want to be able to speak like them let me know what will help me do that ? Ultimatley what do people think if you cannot communicate clearly (specailly dates)?(I'm sure some of you have been on dates with forigen women) also how do you greet a person on 1st date , shake hands or hug or let the guy make the move

2006-11-21 04:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by sweety 1

okay so i was the luckyest girl in the world, i was dating the most wonderful guy in the world his name is Matt we were perfect we never had one fight nothing not even a little fight. Until Last friday we had a big blowout. A girl from Owego called his cell and left him a voicemail and it was like
" hi matt, this is alicia benjamin i think like yer really hot i dont know if thats yer girlfriend on yer voicemail. i like to get drunk and if yer up for a good time then u should call me" i recorded his voicemail thiing, i heard it and i was like are u kidding, i called and he said he has no idea who she is. then my friend called him and said she was her and got him to say all this stuff bout doing stuff with her and i broke up with him and now he wants to get back together i made him cry and realize what he did wrong and i just know what to do. he said he would never do what he said and i toild him i cant trust him and he keeps asking what he can do to earn my trust back. what can he do

2006-11-21 04:19:28 · 6 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2

k, i luv this girl (she knowz this), were both 16, she sayz she don't like when ppl buyz her gifts so i wanted to do somethin special (going to see her iznt really an option right now) for her... she likes horses alot.. i posted on here before and the best answer i got was to make her a nice christmas card with pic of horse on it which i thot was gr8, til i realized that i have no ink in my printer (gotta go really far to get some) and even if i did, i don't have any good pics of horses and i dont wanna just get one off the internet.. i dont wanna just buy her a card, cuz i just dont feel like its special enuf. i wanna really make her smile and think about me at christmas. my sister is a really good artist (best i know personally). i thot about paying (even tho i could get it free probably) her to draw a beautiful picture of a horse(s) against a sunset, framing it, and sending it with a small note to her for christmas. wat do u think, will she like this? better ideas? pls help girls :(

2006-11-21 04:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 1 year slept over last night. up to this point our sex relationship has been amasing. Last night how ever at about 4:00 am i woke up from a bad dream and it felt so good to have him holding on to me for comfort but when i asked him to make love to me he just moned a little, kissed me a couple of times, and fell back to sleep. What does that mean . ive never turned him down and ive never been turned down so im not sure how i should feel about it.

2006-11-21 04:18:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 04:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by casey c 1

this really cute guy called me up and asked me for a second date. if he kissed you good night on your first date cold i kinda lean over and kiss him tonight at the movies since it's only our second date. thanks :)

2006-11-21 04:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 04:16:31 · 12 answers · asked by lauren_effxx 1

we both work 6 to 7 a week and i have 3 kids from a previous relationship. he is usually busy, but when he comes home, he wants to be treated like a baby too. my kids are 13,12 and 6. he doesn't interact with them by converasation or nothing, how can i explain to him that this hurts my feelings and i want him to change

2006-11-21 04:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 04:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by donald k 1

OK THERES THIS GUY NAMED JOE, WE GO TO HIGH SCHOOL TOGETHER, I AM IN 9TH, HE IS IN 12TH, I'VE KNOWN HIM SINCE THE 6TH GRADE, HE SAID HE LOVES ME, WE AREN'T GOING OUT BUT, IN THE BEGINNING OF THE SCHOOL YEAR HE WAS ALL LOVEY DOVEY , AND EVERYONE THOUGHT WE WERE GOING OUT, THEN HE STARTED TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL NAMED TARA, THEN SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM, BECAUSE SHE KNEW HE LIKED ME AND WHEN SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM SHE SAID I BET HEATHERS HAPPY NOW, THEN HE ACTED ALL LOVEY DOVEY AGAIN, THEN HE WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL NAMED TABBY, AND SHE JUST RECENTLY GOT HER FRIEND TO BREAK UP WITH HIM FOR HER OVER THE PHONE, HE IS DOING THE LOVEY DOVEY THING AGAIN KISSING ME AND ETC. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL, AND SEE IF WE CAN BUILD A RELATIONSHIP? OR SHOULD I SAY NOTHING AT ALL? BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND IF WE EVER BREAK UP I DON'T WNAT TO RUIN THE RELATIONSHIP WE ALREADY HAVE. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT! THANKS, HEATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-21 04:13:02 · 19 answers · asked by uppittyup15heather 1

When makeing love do you like top or bottom?

2006-11-21 04:12:20 · 33 answers · asked by titiwhaa 1

Ok, I've been seeing this guy every weekend for about a month and we always end up foolin around in his truck before bringing me home. When we get there he gives me a hug and leaves. Well, friday i asked him, is that all? and he told me that he doesn't/hasn't kissed me is because he doesn't know how! Now how many black, 20 year olds do u know who can't kiss? I'm 18 and white. What should i do or do u think he is tellin the truth?

2006-11-21 04:10:58 · 31 answers · asked by Brandy B. 3

there's a girl i am really into. when we met, she said we'd get to know each other as friends and see where it goes. i guess i got my hopes up too high. but then this person who she has liked for about a year, told her that he liked her. so i am losing her. she is a good girl and feels really bad, so bad she was crying last night. i want to be her friend but i also want a chance to be with her. it is breaking me apart inside. what can i do?

2006-11-21 04:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1

Ok so here is the story: I accused my bf of cheating on me; which he has never done. BUT he does have a friend who calls him every so often. He has always been honest to me with her, but my jealously took over and I got SUPER drunk and called him names and accused him over and over. Well now we are on a "break" this happened Sunday and Sunday night I didn’t not cry myself to sleep over him nor did I last night. I didn’t call him last night like I wanted too. And it's killing me not to hear his voice. I admit he did say he's not mad at me and I'm not loosing him, we just need time for ourselves. So will it be ok to call him tonight? Or how much longer do I wait? He asked for the break we both agreed to it and he called me yesterday morning.

2006-11-21 04:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by so cal mama 2

2006-11-21 04:08:07 · 49 answers · asked by philly m 1

Ok me and this guy we started talking threw one of our mutual friends and we met in the summer. I just broke up out of a previous relationship and I just wanted it to be a sexuaul relationship with this guy. But he started to like me. I never told him I just wanted a sexual relationship and he was looking for a relationship and he told me that. Then I started going off a sleeping with other guys behind his back because I am allowed to cause I am single. He then found out and flipped out. Now things got bad. He then wanted to sleep with me but then I said I wouldnt because I knew he cared to much about me. So then he left cause he felt he was used and has not talked to me since. It has been 3 months since he last talked to me is there anyway I can get him to talk to me? How long is this process going to take? Should I make it out to be as if I dont care for a while?

2006-11-21 04:08:04 · 2 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1

Iits a 6 month longdistance relationship When hevisits me everything is totally perfect, we click. The distance is horrible. He has extreme emotions. He is either completely in love with me, or he doesn't want to " hurt" me in the future and wants to break up. Him and I have been a rollercoaster since his last visit. I've been trying to improve but I've been depressed about applications to colleges etc. I'm pretty bright and I have a bright future, where as he is failing out of community college for lack of motivation. He told me yesturday that he likes someone else for a month. This chick has been around. He said he loves me and wants to be with me but is afraid of these feelings. I think it's a proximity issue. I want to be rational and give him a chance to choose, but I know the outcome is ending it. Whenever I think abuot those feelings for another girl I feel disguted but I hate the idea of throwing 6 months away. I'm in love with him. I know time heals everything. what do i do?

2006-11-21 04:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by LIZ 3