I've been with this girl off and on for like 8 years, and I despise everything about her, she's so annoying and she smells, but the sex is really good. Last week she invited me to her house for thanksgiving and I agreed. I'm going to use this time to tell her I don't love her and have been using her for the sex, but I don't know when to do that, I was thinking during thanksgiving dinner I could lean over and tell her i wanted to stop seeing each other so that we'd be around other people so she'll be too embarassed to freak out on me and I can just have her for the rest of the trip and then we can part ways and never speak to each other again. Oh I think she might be pregnant,
2006-11-21 04:27:03 · 32 answers · asked by ilovethecolony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a good idea, tell her that in front of her entire family during Thanksgiving. Make sure they all have their forks and knives in their hands. I am certain there will not be enough of you left to bury, so they won't need a big yard to dig a grave in. This certainly says a lot about you. You like to have sex with smelly women you don't like. If that is the case, then you weren't really having sex with her, you were simply masturbating with her body. Let me know where you live so I can follow the newspaper after your are reported missing and they can't find you. That way I can tell the police to look for you in whorehouses where they have nasty smelly girls.
2006-11-21 04:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by brucenjacobs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are just asking to be called an a*!hole Okay now that I got that out. I think you need to grow a pair of man jewels and tell her face to face when you are alone. Do it before thanksgiving or after the trip, but definitely not during. Don't tell her that you used her that won't do any one any good. Just tell her it is over. You don't love her anymore, so she can move on in peace. Don't continue being an a*!hole. She gave you 8 years of her life you owe her something. At least end it right. You need to see a councilor and see why you hate women so much. You have some issues.
2006-11-21 04:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Glee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's assume here that you're serious and not just a jerk trying to be as offensive as possible...
Huh? Might be pregnant? With your kid? And you want a "good" way to give her walking papers and split?
Why bother going over to her house for dinner to humiliate her? Why not just disappear? Okay, there's the whole messy ethical question about the kid, and your responsibilities, and whether or not you want to go through the rest of your life knowing you are possibly the most selfish, unfeeling, worthless, cold, scummy bag of crud ever thrown up accidentally out of the gene pool, but hey, you're on a roll, why stop now?
You're either (1) jerking everyone's chain because you're a 12-year-old with poor social skills or (2) serious. Either way, she's not the one who smells bad here.
2006-11-21 04:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YO! dirt bag not on thanksgiving she'll remember that forever just wait a few days after thanksgiving and don't even tell her just leave loser! hope u find another women and she will treat u just the same and if she's pregnant and has it hope the baby looks just like u and hates u forever UR not only a loser but already a loser father.
2006-11-21 04:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise is not 2 break her heart that way u said that u were with each other 4 about 8 years so don't treat jher like that u can do that but step wise not as a sudden.
remmember any good thing she have done 4 u and then u will think wise and what if she will be pregnant?r u gonna turn ur back ?????????!!!!think deep.
2006-11-21 04:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right you have been doing this for how long and why have you not told her before now .........i really don't think telling her at dinner in front of her family will help you if anything that will make you the dinner for some a** beating at least that's what it would be at my house ........and if i was you i would just stay away and not look back and not talk to her again if you feel that way about her and hope she's not ........
2006-11-21 04:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! DO NOT tell her you've just been using her for sex, that'll kill her! Tell her you don't think it's working out and you want to break up. If she is pregnant then give her your support and be a father for the baby you made. This all might be difficult for you as you sound like an absolute a.s.s. wipe and it'll probably be tough for you to act like a decent guy.
2006-11-21 04:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all ur an a$$ for using people! its extreamly WRONG! This girl has feelings just like you and if u do it durring dinner how are u expecting her just to be ok about it and if ur just in it for the sex get a prostitute or someting dont use a girl that is inncent!
2006-11-21 04:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by ladyfin236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How pathetic can you be to see a woman 8 years over the sex... I'm thinking that your pretty pathetic for useing her for so long, I take it that maybe you just can't get a woman is what your problem is...
2006-11-21 04:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a real creep and you shouldnt do that to people, but you are your own person and what goes around comes around. You shouldnt mess up her thanksgiving with that bull sh** you need to call her now and tell her that you are not interested in her and you never knew how to tell her and that you think she should move on with her life because you are moving on with yours. Yes of course she will go crazy, but you cant ruin her holidays like that its not fair. i wish I knew her because I will tell her myself.
2006-11-21 04:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋