OK THERES THIS GUY NAMED JOE, WE GO TO HIGH SCHOOL TOGETHER, I AM IN 9TH, HE IS IN 12TH, I'VE KNOWN HIM SINCE THE 6TH GRADE, HE SAID HE LOVES ME, WE AREN'T GOING OUT BUT, IN THE BEGINNING OF THE SCHOOL YEAR HE WAS ALL LOVEY DOVEY , AND EVERYONE THOUGHT WE WERE GOING OUT, THEN HE STARTED TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL NAMED TARA, THEN SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM, BECAUSE SHE KNEW HE LIKED ME AND WHEN SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM SHE SAID I BET HEATHERS HAPPY NOW, THEN HE ACTED ALL LOVEY DOVEY AGAIN, THEN HE WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL NAMED TABBY, AND SHE JUST RECENTLY GOT HER FRIEND TO BREAK UP WITH HIM FOR HER OVER THE PHONE, HE IS DOING THE LOVEY DOVEY THING AGAIN KISSING ME AND ETC. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL, AND SEE IF WE CAN BUILD A RELATIONSHIP? OR SHOULD I SAY NOTHING AT ALL? BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND IF WE EVER BREAK UP I DON'T WNAT TO RUIN THE RELATIONSHIP WE ALREADY HAVE. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT! THANKS, HEATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 04:13:02 · 19 answers · asked by uppittyup15heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys are fickle and they play games with your heart. He is doing this to you. If you know you are in love with him go for it. Everything is worth the risk if you know you could happily be with him for the rest of your life..
ask yourself these questions: If he is going from girl to girl could you just be the next girl he messes with?
Do you love him? Could you forgive him for anything?
think about these things becasue you don't want to get hurt in the long run. Sometimes its better to stay friends if you know it won't work out in the future. But sometimes its worth taking the risks if you know he is the one. Really think about it and follow your heart. The heart is a delicate thing. It breaks easily
2006-11-21 04:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heather when the time comes u will know what to do! U should tell him how u feel if he falls for another girl, but if not u should continue being together! If he does decide to break up with u, then forget him and move on! A guy like that shouldn't be loved! At all!!
Cya, a.J.
2006-11-21 04:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by A.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously does not care about you, otherwise he would not be dating other girls when he has you.
When a person has expressed their love for you; they don't continuously date other people. Your only in 9th grade and he is in 12th; that means when he leaves high school he won't be seeing you as often as you would like and you won't be seeing him that much either. If anything, after high school it sounds like he is the type that will move on and date other people as he has done to you in school.
2006-11-21 04:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heather he's using u, ur his door mat...he's all sweet to u but then dates another girl and then when he breaks up with them ur there to pick up the pieces...NO HELL NO ur better than that...he know's u will always be there for him and u don't pass judgement..but he's NOT thinking about ur feelings cause deep down he doesn't care, he wants to make sure ur always there to help him thru it and be his rebound...do u wanna be his rebound or his Girlfriend? tell him and ask him why does he go to u and act the way he does and then date othe girls?
2006-11-21 04:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really sound like you have a relationship. At least not one you should be putting any more energy in to. You're better then this. Stop making yourself available to him as a rebound girl everytime he thinks he finds someone better then you. Spend time working on yourself and find a guy who wants you without hesitation.
2006-11-21 04:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same thing going on in my life! You need to tell him how you feel but make sure that he knows if something happends that u two break up that he will still be friends.... And make sure you both like eachother as much as you say you do before you make a mistake.
2006-11-21 04:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by ladyfin236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily your young..and you've got many years of dating people ahead of you! Sorry to say it but he is using you as a rebound girl. When something better comes along in his eyes he goes out with her..when thats done he comes back to you. Spare yourself the hurt and tell him to piss off. If he really loved you he wouldn't do this to you.
2006-11-21 04:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are his rebound girl. If you dont want a man who cheats on you all your life. Find another guy. You probably wont listen to my advice but Im telling the truth and if you dont believe me I hope other people on here will tell you the truth
2006-11-21 04:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by titiwhaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're like his personal yo-yo, aren't you? You don't have much of a relationship if he keeps dumping you to date other girls. You really need to get a bit more self-respect. Joe is much too old for you and he's a user.
2006-11-21 04:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep waiting on other girls left overs!!! He is just using you...Have you ever heard the expression that "ANY ONE is better than NO ONE"??? That is what he is doing...You deserve better!!!! You are not second rate...Tell him and SHOW him...that you will NOT wait around while he FOOLS around again!!!! It may hurt you for awhile...but you MUST Respect your self...and maybe then he will begin to respect you too...and maybe in time...he may REALLY want JUST YOU!!!!
2006-11-21 04:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋