it's been a couple of weeks now and i've been going out of my mind wondering if she loves me or not.
2006-11-21 04:23:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look man I'm going to give you the best advice ever. And if you listen to me you will be just fine.
DROP ALL CONTACT WITH HER. DON'T CALL, TEXT, EMAIL, OR SEE HER for at least a month. You let her make the contact. YOU NEVER CONTACT HER! If she calls talk to her BUT NOT ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. If she TEXT text her back YOU DON'T START THE CONTACT.
Listen, In a relationship there is a term called Push and pull.
EVERY TIME YOU CONTACT HER even to say I LOVE YOU - YOU ARE PUSHING meaning she is pulling away.
If you CUT all Contact You cant Push anymore and she cant Pull away. She will begin to wonder what you are doing and why you are not so wrapped up into her and she will begin to become more attracted to you. Its HUMAN NATURE!
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Trust me on this man, Cut all contact and let her wonder what you are up to. DON'T CALL DON'T CALL DON'T CALL i cant express this enough. Here is a good way to understand what i am trying to say...
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So if you think she would love to hear you say that you loved her in a text message YOU ARE WRONG because you thought it was a good idea SHE DON'T. DO THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT. you want to call and talk to her DON'T. you want to text her DON'T, you want to drive over and see her DON'T!!!! if you do the opposite you are doing the RIGHT THING!!!!
2006-11-21 04:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by remailer000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This does not necessarily mean that she wants to mess around. She may not want to have to answer to anyone right now. She needs a bit of freedom to figure out what she wants out of life. If she says she loves you then leave her alone for a while and give her the space she needs. If you smother her or have to know where she is every second then you will lose her for sure.
2006-11-21 04:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by joy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! If she says she loves u but still needs her space (what kiind of space) space to see if she could find someone bette? To me she is just looking for someone else and wants to make sure she has you just in case she cant. Not only is she hurting herself but she is really hurting you. My advice talk to her either she loves you or she dont. Anyways why do ppl do that? same thing happened to my sister with her bf. I guess some ppl just dont realize how much they can hurt others. Good luck.
2006-11-21 04:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by sadgrl26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does, women are very complex individuals... if we say we need space, and we actually take the space we need (i know we don't always do what we say :)lol) then she really just needs to think.. we can't always think clearly when we are with the man we love, because when we are with you, we can't think clearly about anything else but you and how much we love you and never want to be parted from you... just wait, she's most likely worth it if you are going crazy ;)
2006-11-21 04:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn and run boy. That is bad news, if they want there space they dont want you. She says she still loves you because she is afraid to hurt your feelings. She is a coward who I'm sorry to say doesn't love you. Get out now!!
2006-11-21 04:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think it is to early to say yall are in love it might be puppy love but newayz she might just really want her space or she probley doesn't want to go out with you ne more i say you should find some one else who is interested in you hey you never kno lol well hope this helps alot bye bye
2006-11-21 04:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a little space but not to much then if she still wants her space dont waste ur time on her theres more fish in the sea
2006-11-21 04:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Dude, Wanting her space means she has found someone else that she wants to fill the space between her legs. There are too many horned up women out there waiting to be satisfied to waste your time moping around over one self centered whore.
2006-11-21 04:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Trip S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong. Do you not want space? Till there is no firm commit ment both are well with in their rights to claim space.
2006-11-21 04:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You reap what you sew, is the best way for me to explain this to you.. YOU played games so much by breaking things off with her and all of this drama, roller coaster ride that your relationship has been become too much for her.. She is tired of the games and is clearly ready to move on with her life.. I agree with her this relationship has been nothing but a roller coaster of emotions.. Never knowing when you are going to get a hair up your bottom and break things off. YOU cannot play with peoples emotions like that, they eventually will be like your girl and say enough is enough and move on which is what she is doing and you need to respect her wishes to let her go..
2016-03-12 21:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋