there's a girl i am really into. when we met, she said we'd get to know each other as friends and see where it goes. i guess i got my hopes up too high. but then this person who she has liked for about a year, told her that he liked her. so i am losing her. she is a good girl and feels really bad, so bad she was crying last night. i want to be her friend but i also want a chance to be with her. it is breaking me apart inside. what can i do?
2006-11-21 04:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that if you really care about someone then you should be apart of the persons life
with that said you also got to make your self happy
so if being around this person makes you sad because you can't be together then friends probably isn't a good idea.
best of luck
2006-11-21 04:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her and be her friend. Don't cheat with her, just be a friend. Did you ever really have her if she liked someone else for a year? Friends stay friends longer than lovers do. Her new relationship may not work out, you may be an annoyiance to the new couple. Stay on good terms, but give her a chance to really be happy if this is what it takes. Tell her if that is her choice, ok, but you'll date others also and do it. It might make her look at you a little differently. Don't just sit and wait around though.
2006-11-21 12:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by vkkesu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen. Heaven has not come down. You assume you never met her. There is no dearth of girls. For all you know you may meet some one much better. You take it that God willed it that way. Time is a great healer. You will be OK in 2 weeks. In a year you may not think about her. In two or three years when you have found your partner you may not even remember her. So, relax and take it easy. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 12:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gonna like my answer. You need to let her go. If you truly care about her...you'll want her to be happy no matter what her decision. She knows you care about her but if she didn't feel the same way then there is nothing you can do. I'm sorry.
2006-11-21 12:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miloree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be friends, it would only cause more drama, especially if either of you started dating someone else, to much history, exs cant be friends, Ive tried and it doesnt work.
2006-11-21 12:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kim l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well justtell her how you feel and then if she wants to be withyou she will if not then just be her friend and you will be glad that you did i have a feeling that she will pick you if she is always crying so i hope this helps you out my friend
2006-11-21 12:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by lonelygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and let her make the choice if she dont choose u then u are to good for her anyhow
2006-11-21 12:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by it's HG !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a litlle imposible but you can try
good luck !
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2006-11-21 12:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋