Ok me and this guy we started talking threw one of our mutual friends and we met in the summer. I just broke up out of a previous relationship and I just wanted it to be a sexuaul relationship with this guy. But he started to like me. I never told him I just wanted a sexual relationship and he was looking for a relationship and he told me that. Then I started going off a sleeping with other guys behind his back because I am allowed to cause I am single. He then found out and flipped out. Now things got bad. He then wanted to sleep with me but then I said I wouldnt because I knew he cared to much about me. So then he left cause he felt he was used and has not talked to me since. It has been 3 months since he last talked to me is there anyway I can get him to talk to me? How long is this process going to take? Should I make it out to be as if I dont care for a while?
2006-11-21 04:08:04 · 2 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you care you should talk with him I think. I bet he would like that. You probly would to. No need for games I think. Its best when people really care about each other. Not easier but much better. Its real then.
2006-11-21 04:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just leave the guy alone. You were single when you did what you did and so I can't really blame you, but you weren't up front with this guy and it ended up getting his feelings hurt. That was selfish of you. The decent thing to do now would be to just leave him alone.
Unless you really feel like you are ready to settle down now. If you are, then tell him that you weren't ready to do so before and that you are sorry that you didn't tell him that then. Ask for another chance. When he tells you no, leave him alone.
2006-11-21 12:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋