okay so i was the luckyest girl in the world, i was dating the most wonderful guy in the world his name is Matt we were perfect we never had one fight nothing not even a little fight. Until Last friday we had a big blowout. A girl from Owego called his cell and left him a voicemail and it was like
" hi matt, this is alicia benjamin i think like yer really hot i dont know if thats yer girlfriend on yer voicemail. i like to get drunk and if yer up for a good time then u should call me" i recorded his voicemail thiing, i heard it and i was like are u kidding, i called and he said he has no idea who she is. then my friend called him and said she was her and got him to say all this stuff bout doing stuff with her and i broke up with him and now he wants to get back together i made him cry and realize what he did wrong and i just know what to do. he said he would never do what he said and i toild him i cant trust him and he keeps asking what he can do to earn my trust back. what can he do
2006-11-21 04:19:28 · 6 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can grow up and move on. Both of you should.
2006-11-21 04:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that has to come from your heart. all he has to do is be his self and treat you with respect and maybe change his number or just tell the girl dont call him no more. Trust is something hard to gain from another person because its how that person feels inside. I mean there is nothing so special that he can do to make you trust him, because it is in your heart. You have to follow your heart and what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do then you do that. I mean you made one step by giving him another chance, so therefore you trust him a little bit because you let him back in your life. He just has to make sure he4 keep his sh** together and if there is something that he needs to tell you about another chick liking him or whatever he should be man enough to tell yo instead of hide it, because its not his fault that other females are going to want him, now it will be his fault if he gives in to them. trust me I know its a hard thing to do, but when you love someone sometimes these things are needed to keep the relationship strong, The main factor in a relationship is trust. You two need to communicate more with each and things like that.
I hope i made some sense and help answer your question
2006-11-21 12:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.....confusing but, if really did cheat, or offer to, then what makes you think he won't again. He may never change. You take the risk by going back to him until he finds someone again.
If you're not sure, go out, have fun, but don't make more out of the relationship than a good time with a good friend. Tell him you need to start over and slow. Pay attention this time so maybe you'll be aware of something, but if you want it to work out, don't bring up the past again.
2006-11-21 12:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by vkkesu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have trust in a relationship you have nothing. It's sad he got himself caght up...I would say you really need to think about your relationship with him. Especially since he said he had no idea who the girl was. He seems like a liar, but thats your man. Just ask youself if it's worth the sleepless nights, worrying, stress, and heartache.
2006-11-21 12:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, how old r u guys?? Teens don't know alot yet, but an adult should!!! He cried? He is sensitive, he just doesn't know how to respect you. Sounds like all it was, was an EGO BOOST to the male animal side of him. He should NOT have lied to u!!!! Make him beg for awhile, earn your respect again, but do not tell him how, see if he wants to put time in u in finding out how for himself!!!
2006-11-21 12:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. he's not worth it gal. if he can do this with your friends wat is left.
2006-11-21 12:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by lip4kissin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋