Singles & Dating - 12 November 2006

I've broken up with my boyfriend twice already but he tells me that he wants to be with me and stuff like that and cries but i don't know if hes faking or for reals because he never really has time for me and is always making excuses (I think but who knows his side of the story) but I just don't think its gonna work out!!!!

2006-11-12 11:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by lil.sanz 2

This is me, five nine and 127 pounds...I get all the looks and all...but when there gfs arrive they are usually really short or short and fat.
This is annoying as hell...even talllll men only want the short ones.
This is not about my attitude either...just height difference and annoyance.
Are there any men who are tall that would rather go out with a tall women???

2006-11-12 11:05:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may sound full of it, but in reality I get asked out at least once a week, and I don't go clubbing. I get asked out when I eat at restaurants, or walk on campus etc.

Thing is, I HAVE NO BODY! I basically have the smallest breasts I've ever seen, and I don't wear padded bras because I don't want to create an illusion of something that does not exist. I am 5'5", 105 pounds, and have a BMI of around 17.5, which qualifies as "anorexic." I have been called "very pretty" and "very beautiful" and have been asked to model, but seriously I have no body...what's up with this? Guys tell me the body is important in qualifying a girl as hot, and I'm basically a stick. So why do guys find me attractive? I even dislike my own body....

2006-11-12 11:05:45 · 17 answers · asked by Kristin 1

2006-11-12 11:03:43 · 2 answers · asked by FREDRICK L 1

Alright, there is this man I know who is roughly 20 years older than me. (I'm 24 and female) I neither like him nor dislike him. When we first met through a friend, we spoke a little bit, but nothing that meant anything. After that, I noticed that when he thought I wasn't looking at him (I saw him from the corner of my eye) he would stare at me (gosh that man has blue eyes!) When I look at him, however, he avoids my eyes like the plague. There was one time I saw him in the parking lot while he was talking to someone else, I looked his way, and he stared at me. I once saw him at the grocery store, he saw me, and darted the other way. "Okay" I thought "Fine if you don't like me and want to avoid me, I don't care!" Two meetings ago (after it was a while since I last saw him) he was open and friendly and asked how I was. I thought he was just being polite, since I basically bumped into him. The last meeting, we were at a party of the friend's house. He still avoided eye contact

2006-11-12 11:03:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy at my school who likes me, a LOT, and i really don't like him! but all the time he's telling me how much he loves me and how beautiful i am and whatnot, and he calls me pretty much every day. it's getting annoying and i appreciate the compliments but to an extent he needs to calm down and leave me alone. what should i do without pissing him off?

2006-11-12 11:02:10 · 21 answers · asked by itsjennbabyy 3

My bf keeps accusing me of being a lesbian. Just because I like chicks with big boobs and blonde hair doesn't mean anything. I don't want to be with a woman....at least I don't think so. I know if he keeps getting on my case I'm kicking him to the curb and possibly seeing if the grass is greener on the other side.

2006-11-12 11:00:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

have your first kiss
have your first boyfriend( like real, going places with them not an 'in school' boyfriend
and did your parents want to meet them when you go out with them, my parents are like i want to meet them and maybe their parent what should i do?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?! is this weird, guys would you be weirded out
should i sneak behind my parents?
will it clear up later?
im only 13 and havent had a boyfird or kiss yet, is that wierd?

2006-11-12 10:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by erin 2

okay, its not that i dont like the guy, thats not at all the problem. i just hate being tied down to once guy. its only been one week and i wanna break up with him, but i dont wanna lose him.


how can i get over this. or do i just ignore it?

2006-11-12 10:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by d_asnightnday 1

There is this dude that has been friendly with me for a while (he does in home care for someone in my apartment) he always says hi and makes conversation. Recently he asked for my number and suggested we go out sometime. I thought it was a good idea, but now he just wants to come to my place and this is weird cause I dont even know him. And he sends me text messages with things like "hey baby", "hey sexy". I think maybe I am paranoid but i think this guy just wants to bang me. I think that he found out I was a single mom so he may think I am easy. He has not suggested going out once, just coming to my place. Am I crazy? Just to make it clear, he has not been to my place yet and I dont want to bang him.

2006-11-12 10:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by anonbealove 3

With Online Dating getting Bigger, and more people having Success. What are some tips that you could give me, and anyone who would read this.

#1 Whats the best tip for getting positive responses when you contact someone.

#2 How many pictures should you post.

#3 What should you say in your profile, and how long should it be.

#4 Whats a great idea or tip for a subject line.

#5 What are some signs of a Great Online Dating site.

Im 23, Thank you.

2006-11-12 10:57:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy online. We went out on a Friday, met up on Saturday, Sunday and the following Thursday. Everything was going great. We were both into each other and having a good time. He called me the following Saturday and I wasn't home. I called him once the next day, and then once each of the following 2 days. I haven't heard from him since. Any idea what happened? He called me last, and then didn't answer my calls or messages. A few more details: we didn't sleep together, never got close, neither of us pushed for that. I'm just kind of baffled that he disappeared with no explanation. Any help is appreciated.

2006-11-12 10:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by amanda_loo_hoo 2

2006-11-12 10:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think my friend may like me IM NOT SURE like he tells me everything about him, he flirts with me, like i also tell him lil stuff example. . who i like and he reacts like ew no hes a jerk and like i IM him stuff my friends say to me like. . "hey sexy or hey baby or i love you" like dumb lil things like that and hes like "ew there fags", but then he IM's me his conversation with what my best friend tells him(( they liked each other at one point ))and im like ok?. . .and i know he still likes her a lil bit. . . but idk but this is why i think he likes me--->ok he came over my house one day to do a project and he kept body slamming me, and like touching me and we were on the computer and he put his head on my shoulder and stuff, and i know i shouldnt like him and i might not but im just confused right now. . like also i was kneeling and hes like "u wanna sit on my lap?" and im like "u wish" and he body slammed me. and he got so close to kissing me like it was so close.

doeshelikeme???

2006-11-12 10:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

thats me, and alot of women think im too tall, which makes me feel like a freak esp since alot of them are really short.
Is this an ok size for a women?
And why do men only seem to want short women????

2006-11-12 10:56:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any guy that is sick with all the american feminist crap should really look into/start dating asian women. They are beautiful, treat you like a man, and like it when you act like a man. unlike many feminist b**ch american women

2006-11-12 10:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by RICKY 1

should I use him and get a promotion?

2006-11-12 10:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I'm getting really annoyed. There is this boy, obviously, that
I've liked for a while but he's also a friend of mine. Back in June, it seemed
like we really hit it off. People were telling me that he was always talking
about me, and even that we seemed to flirt and follow each other around alot. We
went to a party and he was really sweet and told me that he was glad that we got
to hang out more, then invited me to the movies. We went and he ended up kissing
me. Then out of nowhere, nothing, absolutely nothing, POOF. He actually didn't
talk to me much anymore. School started and now he's talking to me again, and he
keeps telling his friends that he doesn't like me but again, he keeps mentioning
me(thats what his friends say)so I'm just sitting around basically twitching.
I'm so confused. HELP

2006-11-12 10:54:25 · 4 answers · asked by Polalka92. 2

I'm in a race with another guy to win a girl's heart. i haven't know her for long, but i really really like this girl, and we have so much in common, but she could be falling for the other guy. i ask her out a by the begging of the school year, but she said that she didn't like to go out with guys at the begging of the school year,but she continually is flirting with me. the other guy has a girl, but likes this girl a little bit more then the girl he's going out with and knows her a lot more. i want to know her some more ,I'm telling her Monday ,we should start a new friendship, so we can get to know each other more and little bit later we can step up to the next level. can ya'll give me some advice, tips and thoughts. how are some ways to win a girl's heart

2006-11-12 10:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by jes 3

we felt in love on net ,looking for the right one ,

2006-11-12 10:50:34 · 12 answers · asked by yp_billy_lancaster 1

My boyfriend is currently in med school so he is financially in the hole.

Anyway, he indiscretly took a condom home with him last night assuming that I did not notice how many we had used up already since I just bought the box.

Should I assume that he is sleeping with someone else? Or ask him why he stole a condom from my stash. I still can't believe he was so lame in thinking I would not notice.

My gutt tells me that this is bad news especially since I already broke up with him a couple years ago and decided to give him a second a chance.

I am thinking of texting him this message.. "hey i noticed you took one of my condoms home with you last night... should i assume that you are sleeping with someone else? definately puts "things" into perspective..."

What do you guys think?

2006-11-12 10:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by pretty_nice_girl 2

there is this guy at my church i tried to be nice to him then he was like in love with me he asked me out and i had to say no but now hes in love with me. he is either falsly calling me names or trying to hug me, every week it gets worse i try to avoid him but its hard he thinks its funny. he touches me and he called me honey, love and stuff like that i dont know what to do i want it to stop now! also he is sorta got some problems one time he like freaked out and started cursing at my friend even though she is mean to him i dont want him to hate me but i cant take it anymore

2006-11-12 10:49:37 · 25 answers · asked by sweetmelody14 2

Well, my crush and I went to the movies the other night. It was pretty fun, but we didn't get too far... though he DID sit next to me... AND leaned very close to me...

Anyway, I was too shy to make a move (like even grab his hand!), and I've got a feeling he was, too.

Now, though, I think I'm ready... only problem is that I'm not sure when to bring it up... how long should I wait to ask him to the movies with me? He asked me last time, so I should probably do it this time... I don't think I can wait very long, though!

2006-11-12 10:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by Fantasmic 1

2006-11-12 10:45:48 · 14 answers · asked by Abena 2

Ok there is this guy and we have been hanging out for a while now. He holds my hand and we have had sex, but he also cuddles with me. I like him but I am 4 months pregnant and am scared. I don't know if i should say something to him or just continue to be friends. We talk everyday and he is so gentle and caring. Does he like me or is it just my imagination.

2006-11-12 10:44:42 · 7 answers · asked by stormysunshine 1

study, how could I be so stupid?

WHAT DO I DO?

2006-11-12 10:44:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that he is into looking at and buying porn. It bothers me and he knows this and says that he will stop, but then somewhere down the road I find him doing it again. Is this a pety thing that shouldn't bother me? Does looking at porn mean that he doesn't love me? Wanting answers and opinions from both male and female. Open to any response.

2006-11-12 10:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 2

I am but in my opinion it doesnt make one special it just makes them secluded. I am just curious what others believe.

2006-11-12 10:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Epidemic 2

2006-11-12 10:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by carla 1

OK! there is this guy on my messenger list (Angad its not u!) anyway this guy is on my messenger list and he is sooo boring i can't stand him! he is sooo boring! i hav no clue what to do and i can't block him coz that's mean and i tried to b invisible but it's not working! Plzz help!

2006-11-12 10:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by Renée 1