Singles & Dating - 24 October 2006

A friend and I recently became involved,we have always had feelings for one another,she finally admitted to having feelings for me,and I said I did as well,she cried and asked me why I didn't say anything earlier,she is engaged now,and says she has fell for me and wishes she could find a way to be with me,we have spent a lot of time together,but she keeps it a secret,nobody has a clue we are involved even though they see us together all the time,because they know we are friends,I told her I can't be with her anymore,I should have never got involved,but I always loved her,in my mind she was cheating on him the moment she confessed her feelings for me,but she has not left him yet,now I feel as if she just used me for a fling until she gets married,I told her I do not want to be second best and I refuse to share her, the problem is if she does leave him will I ever be able to trust her,will she do the same thing to me?Why did she agree to marry if she wasn't in love and is not happy? help

2006-10-24 03:36:14 · 36 answers · asked by JEFF A 1

so you see her once, you see her twice, you invite her for coffee, you realize her eyes are blue, was that a dimple? she loves Sci-Fi just like you, she smells sweet, you could get used to sweet...

2006-10-24 03:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by bryankanale 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and living together for 6 months. He left a couple days ago. He came over last night, we had a great talk and even made love, now this morning he tells me that he is having doubts about us. Told me that I need to change who I am or it wont work? He thinks that I am needy because I dont like to be left out, thinks that because I dont have a past interest that I have no goals. I believe that if someone truley loves you than they would accept you for you? Is my line of thinking correct here?

2006-10-24 03:34:08 · 38 answers · asked by Beckie . 1

let us say hypotheticaly we were in a relationship and i said it would turn me on to degrade you and you said how? and i said that lets do it in front of the toilet and when im about to lets say give you my dna i wanted you to stick your head in the toilet would you do it? or would you be so blinded by rage you would throw me out of your house? thank you in advance for your time in answering my inane questions and no ive never done this i read a book where one of the characters did this

2006-10-24 03:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 03:33:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's birthday is next month....please i need some ideas!!

2006-10-24 03:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 03:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if im 32 - which i am - would it be wrong to date a guy who is only 25? i know its ok for men to date younger woman but people frown when its the other way round. why?

2006-10-24 03:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Roo 3

what do you think? i have know this girl for some time no and am unsure if she likes me. she stares at me sometimes. she seems to get really excited when she sees me and always comes up and talks to me and waves. she will often talk about relationships in general to me, and ask me if i am going here or there (when she is going to go) i know she likes guys with hair that isnt short but isnt real long (shagy) and i told her i was going to get a hair cut and she told me i shouldnt. when we see each other at school (seinors in hs) and we are going opposite ways she will turn around to walk with me and talk. the other day she also said to me:you are like the only person.. that i can keep a steady conversation going .. and not run out of intersting things!! (she said that online) we talk almost ever day online and at school, usually about nothing but we end up talking for hours.

2006-10-24 03:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by bigbob33 3

im 16 and hes 14

2006-10-24 03:29:38 · 27 answers · asked by skittles 2

I have been this doctors' patient for 4years now and he has been divorced for 2years now. Recently he called and asked me to pick up his kids from their coachs house and keep them at mine until he get back from his trip. Just last week I was in a financial bind and I called and asked him for some money and he gave me $400. During Christmas he buys presents for my children and also for their birthday's.

2006-10-24 03:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by NEET29 2

I like this boy, but he doesn't wanna date me because he wants to stay single. He said we could be friends with benefits but i don't really wanna do that. I think he likes me and my friends say he does but I don't really know what to do!! He invites me over to his house but i never go because i know where it'll lead to and then i'll probably regret it because i only do that kind of stuff if i'm in a relationship for awhile. I really care about him and I've told him a lot of times but he still says he doesn't wanna date cause he wants to be single! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 03:25:54 · 17 answers · asked by Shortie 1

It is agony, please do not suggest KY Jelly and taking it slow! I am not a virgin by quite a long way but this is excruciating and It not only makes me feel like it is tearing but afterwards my insides and kidneys fell like I have been kicked. A is OUT and so is O as it is too big a girth for that...Should I move on.. I always wanted a BIG one but it is 8 1/2 inches around the shaft and a little longer than that. Do not bother posting "Ooh send him round" or "I wish" I have had more than most and this is so upsetting..

2006-10-24 03:24:17 · 43 answers · asked by JoyDivision 3

2006-10-24 03:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

went out in Jan 4 1 month over winter break.We took things slow, went out 2 dinner,watched movies at my house(I'm 24,he's 22). George never had a g/f b4 busy wit work and college.after a month he finally made a move and we kissed which turned out 2 some passionate kissing and touching(clothes on) after that he spazed saying he didn't know what hes doing,told me I didn't do anything wrong,not 2 regret anything.he never called me after that. a month later he told me some bs that he wasn't feeling my chemestry(not sure if he meant how I reacted upset about him being confused of liking me after what happened).I did confront him this summer and told him I didn't hate him,he stared at me and then said he had 2 go. 2 nights ago I saw him and I swore he said hi 2 me but I looked away cuz I wasn't sure.last night he ran in2 the store 2 get something quick came out running and then he saw me so then he looked kinda unsure but like he wanted to say hi to me,he kept looking but went 2 his car.

2006-10-24 03:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1

i was just wondering if older guys who are ugly can be players because i cant handle it thats why i want to be with an ulgy old man not rich or anything just an average ugly old dude i want to know if a guy that fits this description gets alot of chicks thanks

2006-10-24 03:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by grace07 2

I have a friend who i've been with. I decided i didn't want to go out with him cos of personality differences, i don't think i'd be happy in a relationship with him, so it's not going anywhere. but every time i see this guy the hormones kick in and i end up being with him. any suggestions to help me restrain myself next time?

2006-10-24 03:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants to have sex 4-5 times a week, and if I dont do it often enough, she will do it with random guys. She says she was sexually abused by her father when she was young. Also, we live like 40 miles apart. How can I help her get over this problem so she wont go soliciting sex when she's horny and I'm not around?

2006-10-24 03:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by RamontheGreat 4

2006-10-24 03:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 03:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by dannygwenz 2

2006-10-24 03:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

I was seeing this guy for awhile. We never got into a relationship with each other even though I really wanted to. What is the saying? He's just not that into you? Anyways about three weeks ago he told me he couldn't go out with me/be with me/see me because he was in the process of trying to hook up with someone else. As if life can get no worse he was rude about it and hurtful like I don't have any feelings. Anyways about six months ago we sold a car that we had both fixed up. I got the check in the mail about a week ago. It is in my name. So here is the dilemna. We have not spoken since the tense departure I don't want to call/text/communicate or speak to him just for the mere principal. I refuse to let him think I'm finding any reason to talk to him and i'm tired of making things easy for him. My friends say to hell with him he doesn't seem concerned about it since he has not even mentioned it so keep it and be merry. What do you all think?

2006-10-24 03:16:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im at work and the day seems to be dragging. I dont need anyone replying to this saying you "should be doing work"

2006-10-24 03:16:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a girl I like and she knows that I like her. We're in high school and I always walk her to class. Is it okay if I hold her hand when I walk her to class, to show that I'm serious about having a relationship with her?

2006-10-24 03:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by Steven 1

went out with a guy on a date, i told him after that i wasn't interested in anything romantic, but would be happy to still be his friend. He is still messaging and calling me several times a day. How can I tell him gently that once every 2-3 days is sufficient?

2006-10-24 03:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks to all for the advise on approaching the ladies en mass. I tried it and while it wasn't perfect, it went well. Well enough so even though I had to leave to be at work early in the morning, I asked one lady for her number and she gave it to me.

I called it yesterday and yes, it was her number. I recognized the voice and the name was the same. It went to v-mail but I did not leave a message. Yes, I also called from a business phone (not mine) so she most likely wouldn't have known it was me.

Still, I call back later to the same number and I get a male voice over the phone. I ask for the lady and the male voice demands to know who I am. I tell him that I was someone who met the lady and I name the place and that I asked for her number and she gave it to me.

He then says, "She's busy", and hangs up.

Any thoughts? Should I even bother calling back?

2006-10-24 03:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3

I understand being shy. This guy like me and I knows he knows I'm into him to. Why hasn't he just ask me out? He knows the answer is "yes". Guys, I need some perspective.

2006-10-24 03:14:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i first started my relationship with my boyfriend, i was really happy that he was a man of little words. we feel comfortable not talking, but just enjoying the company of each other. but years past and i realised i am craving for a companionship that allows me hours of chatting, common dreams and goals. is it that my needs have changed or i no longer want whatever i used to want? and can the commitement of love alone hold the weights of long term relationship?

2006-10-24 03:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha T 2

all guys look at hair, face, wieght, breasts size legs, things like that. it is a fact and then we go to personality things like that. my question is, what do girls look at first. and ya cant say personality because there is alwasy that one thing that gets u to talk to that guy... so what is it?

2006-10-24 03:13:07 · 26 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3

The first nite i met my GF i was introduced by her friend which we were F-buddies for almost a year. The i was introduced to which is now my GF is beautiful and i never thought I'd have a chance with her. She left the party we were at and I expected never to hear from her again. That nite me and and my F-buddy ( which is the girl that i just met, good friend) fooled around. Go figure the firl that i met called me up siad hey lets hang out so i forgot about wat happened that nite and now 4 months later i find out she knew somethin about it after a month but now is all pissed about it. she knew the way me and her friend used to be. Am i in the wrong and is there a reason she should be mad at me. The way she sees it is that she came over to meet me that nite and i should've never did anything with her friend. I see it as i never was gonna see her again so y not have a good time.

2006-10-24 03:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by j_dbas_jr 1