Singles & Dating - 24 October 2006

I really have a lot of feelings for this man. He is great to me and great to my son, but there is a huge trust issue. I give him all sorts of freedom. He can do whatever he wantsHe drops me off at work and has my car all day and picks my son up from school then picks me up. He usually goes to a friends house at night and comes home accusing me of having someone over. I dont know what to do . I dont want to loose him but i cant live with the constant accusations

2006-10-24 05:33:54 · 36 answers · asked by Teri M 2

i give up i tell u!

2006-10-24 05:32:58 · 39 answers · asked by lost 2

Ok, first of all i know you don't know me so you have no idea what my feelings or his are so you will give me the normal advice ..move on and blah blah blah. well, I got mad because some girl tryed to make me jealous ..we broke up but got back together then i got jealous about a girl at work so we broke up then got back together then this last time we went to great escape so i asked before we even went if he could come over after and he said no because it would be late well he said probably not. Then his friend asked and he said yes and said i could go but i just wanted to go back to my house and be alone ..(not like that either) So i ignored him alot after that and we tryed to talk on the phone and it felt like he didn't care so i cryed and got more mad. Then that night he broke up with me. People say it's not over for good but he says it is. He won't talk to me. How can i get him back and make him understand it won't keep happening? We are perfect together and hardly ever fight.

2006-10-24 05:32:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems like young girls these days are having sex like rabbits with no concern for anything. How long do you usually wait to give up the goods? Do you have other "rules" to abide by before you give it up?
(Btw, guys, please feel free to answer this one as well)

2006-10-24 05:32:07 · 35 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2

Been dating 3 months and dont get impression she likes me...she wont meet my mates,dead short and to the point on texts.i have to allways arrange what we do where we go an then ask her i dont know what to do because ive been mates for 3 years before hand and i think she has a great personailty! Heads cabbaged

2006-10-24 05:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by Bob 1

I really like this girl at work, do I just try playing it cool and hope she comes to me, or do I approach her...and if I do what do I say? I know she does have some feelings for me.

2006-10-24 05:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by abcde_s 2

When she was going out with her boyfriend she used to tell me about their problems and whenever me and her were talking together she used to say 'you better go cause I don't want him to see us together' whenever he was around. Once I said I liked someone to see what she would say, and she said 'they aren't good enough for you'. I asked her best friend (my ex) to ask the girl who she liked at the moment and the girl said 'I don't like any boys at the moment because I'm still getting over my ex' and she told my ex that I am a 'really good friend'. Any advice? how long should I wait? it's been three weeks since they split up. Am I in the dreaded 'friend zone'? if so, how can I get out?

2006-10-24 05:30:11 · 5 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1

I saw him at work this summer(my ex) and let him know I don't hate him.he stared at me seemed shocked and said he had to go.Now I've seen him a couple of times recently but he's been with his dad.Last time I swore he said hi to me but I jus looked down and didn't say hi back cuz I wasn't completely sure. it seemed like his dad and him were looking back at me as they were leaving the store.then last night he ran into the store to grab something quickly and ran back to his car but while he was running he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted to say hi but was afraid of rejection or something.he's a shy guy,I was his first kiss and g/f,seemed we went 2 fast and he freaked out didn't call me again. my best friend(straight male) said he sensed the my ex just didn't have enough time 4 me with school and work.so he pushed me away. he's started his 4th year so he's almost done, could he be rethining things and want to get back together or hang out and see where it goes?

2006-10-24 05:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now, I can plug in a porno and have a masturbation marathon day of it... but that's only like 2-3 times a year... I'm more interested in a man's point of view... my bf masturbates 2-3 times day EVERYDAY... even the days we have sex. That can't be really healthy. Yes, I know I should've posted this on health... but with such a great group of people here, I figure why not...

2006-10-24 05:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3

the flame in me and my girlfriends relationship has almost burnt out, what is it that girls like so much that can get a flame goin?
what is it that really turns you, (girls), on?
what is it that you really really like for us to do to you to get things started?

2006-10-24 05:26:17 · 19 answers · asked by p_engr 1

Could you please tell me if I am ugly. Sometimes I think I am good looking and am confident, but sometimes I think I must be really ugly. Could you please tell me. Here is a picture of me at my space. www.myspace.com/butlerjulie

2006-10-24 05:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by nursejuley 1

Dated this guy Then we were at a friends house and they asked how long we've been dating And we never had a DTR then we left and as we were driving he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend said yes Then we would go camping boating ext makeout sessions were better. A few months later we were on a 4july date with his group and he set his friend up with this girl who was his1 on myspace . but he was always talking to her when here he is supossed to be on a date with his GF! I talked to my bestfriend who was also on the date and i was pissed then his friend talked to him and I dont know what was said but after when I was driving he asked me if it would be ok if he could date other girls I said it would be hard then we got in this talk and said its over he asked if he could still date me kiss me ext that night he told me he loved me and that he loved dating me we stoped talking and why if it was so good would he end it so fast? if it ment anything to him wouldnt he still talk to me??

2006-10-24 05:23:52 · 10 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2

2006-10-24 05:23:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean, the movie. did you like it? what thoughts did you have after watching it? and what's your opinion, did those things really happen or was it all just in his brain? (it wasn't very clear to me if they were real or not, but i must admit i missed a few minutes of the movie, was there a part in which it was clearly explained?)
cheers

btw, yes, wrong category for this question, i know ;)

2006-10-24 05:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by lady xanax 3

who exercise have tighter cha cha's than those who dont?

2006-10-24 05:22:47 · 18 answers · asked by Jackie P 1

i can be talking about the most stupied thing in the world and she dont care.....all she wants is to here my vocie.. is that good???

2006-10-24 05:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Uses his big hands to grab your hips while you are bent over? Uses his big hands to squeeze your bre@sts while he is kissing you?
Uses his big hands to pick you up, pressing your @ss against the wall while he bounces you up and down on his manhood?

Basically, do you like to be man-handled ?

2006-10-24 05:21:59 · 24 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2

My boyfriend (we live together) has an ex /broke up with three years ago. He swears he does not like her, but his friends tell me the following: "She drives by our house, cried when we moved in, talks about him all the time, asks tons of questions about me, tries to go to any event that he will be there, brings guys to make him jealousetc" She has called him at 2:00 in the morning, texted him all day when we have been at common events, emails, etc.
Then-she confronted me at a bar, told me she was going to get him back, I had moved into HER house, and threatned me. She also said I don't know him like I think I do.
CONCLUSION: We saw her a bar on Friday, and my boyfriend completely ignored her the whole time. Then he said he wanted to say good bye to her/ told me to wait outside. I did not, he talked to her for 10 min. He has lied about talking to her, so I checked his phone. He had a one hr phone call two wks ago and hid it. He also yelled at me, called me psycho and crazy. Cheater?

2006-10-24 05:19:57 · 29 answers · asked by Rebecca * 1

I'am 22 and currently in search of that significant other. I'am a very busy with my job and school during the week. In my free time, I go surfing, to church, and do other things in town to keep busy. Anyway, while doing all of this, I have meet and dated many girls. The problem is that most of them were in the 18-20 year old range. It's strange, because I would think that I would run into someone who is my age or older, but I have not. Because of my past experiences, I choose to no longer date 18-20 year old girls (I call them girls because most of them dont act like WOMEN) because they tend to be very immature, spoiled, and looking for the wrong things in a guy. It seems like every girl in the college-aged group at chruch that I go to is in the 18-20 year-old range. What is a good age-range for a guy like me? I'am 22 and I like to date WOMEN, not GIRLS. Where do I need to go to meet girls who are my age or older? It seems that 21 is a good cutoff age. Am I right? Please help.

2006-10-24 05:17:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf broke up with me and she says she doesnt know why...she tells every1 we broke up after a week or so. But the weird thing is we still talk for hours and hours and do the same things we used to when we went out. I know for a fact she is not cheating....but if nothing changed why did she break up?

2006-10-24 05:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by enrique 1

I have been knowing this guy for a few months. I met him at work and we would have lunch and stuff together everyday and text and call back and forth. Well he got laid-off and I broke up with my boyfriend the same day, so we had sex that night. He has gotten a new job since then guys... A good one... Anyway, we talk or text often, both initiating the calls and he sometimes says things that make me feel like he's feeling me out. We have had sex quite a few times since then, but he's also spent the night and not had sex with me on several occasions. He I am new to this whole single thing and I don't want to just come out and ask him too soon and push him away. How could I tell him that I don't want to just have sex with him without making it seem like I am giving him an altimatum? Does he really like me?

2006-10-24 05:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 05:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by shanelle02 1

I recently broke up with a guy I've dated for almost a year. His response was basically a "You can't fire me, I quit" - sorta thing. He has anger management issues and is basically ignoring me altogether, even when I tried to amicable/civil. He's trying to get at me with apathy, and unfortunately, it's working.

What's a good way to get over this? I've been in break-ups before, but for some reason, this one is affecting me more than the others...not necessarily because I thought he was "the one"...far from it. I guess more from a bruising of my ego.

2006-10-24 05:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by justlilolme00 1

Ok so you've been casually hanging out with a guy for the last 3 months and he randomly kisses you. Three weeks later he tells you it's you, and it's only ever been you. He says he doesn't have much to offer, asks if you want to come hang out at his place that night. you say no b/c you're sick, but another time. Next week he's busy with something legitmate for work. You chat briefly via email, and invite him out with friends casually, leaving it open ended ex/ "if you're up for it, we're doing this. If interested, here's my number." You never hear anything.

I guess my question is this a big deal? Does it mean he's suddenly not interested, or something else was coming up, or he hates phones? Is he just looking for sex? If someone tells you that you're basically that you're it, then fails to follow up, how do you take that? Am I reading something wrong here?

2006-10-24 05:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by bleeding sun 2

This is a question for you movie buffs.....

Not so much a trivia question....but more of an opinion of why you think she left him at the end of the movie...

He was a seducer and she couldn't deny him.....but then it just was over.....she made a decision...... why?

2006-10-24 05:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by giovanni g 2

My trainer of 3 weeks wants to come over to my house to share wine with me. We get along well, and he says I'm really cool. We are also both very attractive. Is it just a sit, drink, and chat rendezvous, or does he intend something further to happen between us?

2006-10-24 05:10:01 · 18 answers · asked by J C 1

...but he needs a little time to make sure the practicalities work out, like the relationship I am just beginning with his 8-year-old daughter and meeting each others' families, which is happening in November? We just met in September.

2006-10-24 05:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Sincerely84 1

Not really into astrology, just curious.

2006-10-24 05:07:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

the kids at school always tease me and stuff me in my locker and take my glasses. how can they get away with this??? what is wrong with kids today??? they are just mean spolied brats???? i didn't een do anuything to hurt them. i almost had to go to the doctor last week because of a head injury they gave me. if something happens to me...there is no one else o teach art class. what do i do???

2006-10-24 05:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by enema boy 1

the boy whos taking us is a total hotti and iv like him 4 yrs wat should i do to try and get with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 05:06:00 · 2 answers · asked by imoBABE 1