My trainer of 3 weeks wants to come over to my house to share wine with me. We get along well, and he says I'm really cool. We are also both very attractive. Is it just a sit, drink, and chat rendezvous, or does he intend something further to happen between us?
2006-10-24 05:10:01 · 18 answers · asked by J C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI to all of you miscreants: My trainer came over to my place last night ... we had dinner, shared wine, and chatted until 2 AM. Then, he left. Nothing else happened! SO THERE!!!
2006-10-26 04:58:50 · update #1
you might get disappointed if you think too dirty... take it slow
2006-10-24 05:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Squall_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, fit times 2 + attractive times 2 + chat times 2 mutipliled by the number of drinks, let's say 2 each which makes 4 would be equal to 24. Then NO he does't expect anything more because the index for that begins at 25. Now, if you add in an extra such as young and hormonal (5 points per participant), or dinner and dancing (8 points for the guy, 3 for the girl) your index gos up to at least a one night stand level.
2006-10-24 05:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by diablo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its never that simple... if it was simply a sit, drink and chat he would have asked you to go out and get a drink or dinner somewhere. Thats generally the route to take when getting to know someone. Taking wine over to a woman's place is never just a sit, drink and chat rendezvous... TRUST ME (with a sly smile). Beer, yes wine, no.
2006-10-24 05:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by RipCurl1020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already checked out the body he is training, but you need to ask yourself "Do I like him enough to invite him to my place,or to even have drinks with?" Maybe you should suggest that you meet at a bar first, to be on the safe side. This way you will know if he likes you for you and not someone to take to bed. In the end the final decision is yours. But be safe not matter what you decide.
2006-10-24 05:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~*[Jεn]*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of both!
It's just to see if anything does happen - from a man's perspective, you can't get to first base (as you Americans call it) until you're at the ball park. This is his way of getting himself invited to the ball park and seeing if you pitch him the right ball or not.
From a girl's perspective, this is the ideal chance to see if anything does happen. If you prefer it wouldn't, don't invite him home!
2006-10-24 05:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's difficult to say. I'd bring a friend along, just to make sure the two of you are not alone together, but so that s/he has something to do as well.
2006-10-24 05:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up girl...He wants much more than just "sit, drink and chat" with you. If he really only wanted that, he could have invited you to Starbucks!!
2006-10-24 05:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He intends something to happen further between you two.
2006-10-24 05:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by EvilJames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to check out the body he is helping u build. I'd be careful
2006-10-24 05:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wants more than a friendly drink.
2006-10-24 05:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a trainer watch out
he sees alot of women in his work
2006-10-24 05:23:05 · answer #11 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋