Singles & Dating - 17 October 2006

im a girl...for some reason almost all my friends are guys..im not sure why but it really bugs me that none of the girls want to hang out with me on weekends..like i have girl friends when i go to shcool and stuff..but for some reason they never want to hang out wiht me...no im not a loser even tho it sounds like it..im pretty attractive..and im nice..not bitchy or anything..i really dont understand it..and the guys i hang out with arent guys i like we just get along..and i dont want to hear you just fit in with guys more..theres got to be something wrong with me and i cant figure it out..it actyally makes me feel really sad so please help

2006-10-17 15:34:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is really sweet and extremely cute but im kinda worried about him bieng in a gang plz respond

2006-10-17 15:34:12 · 9 answers · asked by La Femme 2

How do babies appear? How do they get here? My mom says storak but I don't belieave her

2006-10-17 15:33:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I asked the guy I liked what he was up to for this weekend and he said nothing so I told him if he wanted to go for ice-cream and a movie, and he said yes, and then asked me yeah sure, who else is coming? I mean who else is coming??? I was like I don't know I just came up with the idea, but I'll ask my friends. It's the second time he does this. It's like he doesn't wanna b alone. ahhh any suggestions?

2006-10-17 15:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1

gf and me have been together over a year...i think. she had to move out of state with her mom cuz her paretns got a divorce. she was supose to be back in 6 months. every thing was fine in the relationship excep the fact that we didnt get to see each other. then one night on the phone she had to get off real quick for some reason and i didnt get to tlak to her at all cuz her phone got cut off. i didnt hear from her for alil over a month. then i get an offline message from her saying that her grandma is in the hospital and she is out of town and that she didnt have her phone any more but she would call me as soon as she got the chance but it would be awhle b4 she could. and now i havnt heard from her in about 8 months and have no way to contact her. idk if i should keep waitin to see what happens or just call it quits and move on. we where really close before all this crapand i really love this girl alot and now idk if i shlould even consider us together nemore.what do yall think?

2006-10-17 15:27:58 · 9 answers · asked by fox_racing_dude_3 1

Okay, I have liked this guy who used to sit next to me in P.E. last year. He knows I liked him, and still do! I used to flirt with him all the time, and I still sort of do, he lives down the street from me and rides my bus. He is very CUTE and I am totally obsessed. All of my friends can't give me good answers to my problem! Help!

2006-10-17 15:27:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey everyone i'm 12 and i really don't want to go fast with my girlfriend but i do want to kiss her.She and I love each other very much. I've nvr really kissed a girl before because i went to a very small private school. ANy tips or stuff to help me make a good peck on her cheek

2006-10-17 15:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by blah893 1

why the hell would my boyfriend be attracted to watching animals and humans having sex and wants me to do this?? I also have a feeling before we met he actually did something with an animal but cannot prove it--its totally discusting and not that I know he totally turns me off completely we were engaged before I found out he is a great guy in every other way

2006-10-17 15:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by beaq 1

My boyfriend is convinced I was sexually abused as a child. I was exposed to many sexual situations that I shouldn’t have been yes, but not directly. I was also raised in a very strict religion, and sex was considered to be a dirty and nasty thing unless done with a marriage partner. Even then it seemed like it was dirty. I know I was scared from this, and it has affected my current relationships. Now I believe that if someone wants to have sex, they can do so, of course there are consequences like STD’s. However, I have tried to avoid any emotional connection allow with sex with anyone because I don’t want to end up feeling used by a guy. I know that sometimes I don’t even want a commitment and just want a fling, but I have been unable to do so, certainly the times I have tried I felt rejected. I guess with or without sex if someone doesn’t want you you will feel bad anyway. But my point is, is my current stand on sex & love caused by my being right, or by my upbringing? Should I make a connection with sex and love or is sex just a pleasurable act that doesn’t have to have any tie with love? I never felt any feeling of love when I had sex with my first love, it was just about pleasure. However, I did feel love when we cuddled, or hugged, or just looked into each other’s eyes. Am I afraid to open up? Or is there just no opening up to do?

2006-10-17 15:23:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am an Asian girl just arrived to U.S.A. going to highschool. i am 16 years old. i have long black layared hair till the hips. i am taller than the average and very good in pysical shape. i am really attractive and a bit fair. i have never had a boyfriend and i am a virgin. every body says that im very lovely and that i am a very good preson to hang out with. but i still didn't find romance. many boys seems to like me but they never come and ask me out. i am very good in studies and i am very smart. what do you guys think about me? do you think that i am odd becaus i have never heard of beautifull girls even bieng virgins atleast till they are 14. why do you guys think that guys won't ask me out

2006-10-17 15:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.k. So here is my dilemna: Theres this girl I like,and she's all but told me she likes me. She's even subtly hinted that she wants me to ask her out. My only problem is my parents, there really strict,and say I'm not supposed to have a girlfriend. So basically I'm asking for advice on how can I have a good relationship without my parents knowing? (btw, I've already talked to them about it, and they just said wait untill i'm older, I'm 15 though, not sure how long they want me to wait.. anyhoo talking to them about won't help at all.)

2006-10-17 15:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Silent Beeker 1

I am havin major mood swings at school.My boyfriend does not know what to do.I willltalk to him in the mornin an then al talk to him at lunch and i will be mad then al se him in the hall and al be sad.He thinks that i am just crazzy! i am not i am just having mood swins and i don'tknow what to do! Please help!

2006-10-17 15:21:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question before but everyone thought i was a girl.......i wanna know if you were a flirty waitress would you ever go out with a customer?

2006-10-17 15:20:59 · 2 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4

We're in our late 20's....he thinks I'm uptight and difficult because I don't want to spend the night with him when his parents are staying the weekend....to me this is disrespectful and creepy....he swears his parents won't care.....is it as weird as I think?

2006-10-17 15:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by renee 5

2006-10-17 15:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~~Night:Wolf~~ 2

The girl is twenty five years old. Has to chose between either her husband or friends or parents. Husband is a great, trustable, loving and caring guy and the girl is pregnant. Friends are also very good and care about you a lot and have been friends since you were small. Parents are loving and still call you every day and help you anytime.

But one problem. They don't like the others and are pulling me in three different ways. What should a woman do?

2006-10-17 15:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

(public display of affection) -- my girlfriends all wierd about it

2006-10-17 15:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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3 days ago
i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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4 days ago
but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-17 15:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by robinson z 1

Theres this guy I was dating, while we were dating he told me he liked me from the moment he saw me and he liked cuz we acted alike and I was pretty and everything. Then he broke up with me like a week later... I dont get it... cuz I acted the same all throughout the relationship... And he seemed happy with me. Was he lying or wut? And I know he id want sex cuz I was his first g/f.

2006-10-17 15:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by KelCee 2

There is this guy I have been seeing. I really don't even know if he considers me as his g/f or not. He sings and tries to cheer me up when he sees that I am down (I didn't tell him, he just noticed). We have kissed a couple times. It was a great feeling between us! He has given me a lot of hugs. We haven't been on any dates (going to movies, etc) though. We have known each other for almost 10 months. He has disappointed me a couple times, but he tells me he's sorry and he also told me that "I will never let me down seriously." He always tries to get my attention. He always teases me and plays around (messing with me). He makes me feels really happy. He tells me he wants to go to a getaway weekend with me only. He is a very gentlemen-like person and he has his sides also. He is both types when he is with me. He tells me he is comfortable when he is with me. He in a way seems to be a very special guy, but still I am confused sometimes.

2006-10-17 15:14:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive.

This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.

The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.

First, when I used to see her, she used to act like there was nothing going on and greeted me as if she HAD to.

Then, everything changed. She was much MORE friendly, but now I had started to act TOTALLY CARELESS towards her.

NOW: I like her and I have started to think a lot on her, but I just pretend I don’t care about, though curiousity is killing me!

2006-10-17 15:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by R. H 1

Have any sweet date ideas? Romantic fun...Whatever ya got. Whats the best date you've had... Just give me some ideas.....Thanks~*

2006-10-17 15:11:41 · 4 answers · asked by Danielle K 2

2006-10-17 15:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5

I found out this woman I was doing was sleeping around. After I did her one more time, I ground up some sominex sleeping pills into to powder and mixed it into the screwdrivers I was making her after she was drunk. She fell asleep fast and then I took a poop on her chest as she slept. I took what cash she had in her purse to reimburse me for the vodka !! I also left more ground up sominex in her milk and juice in the refrigerator but I don't know if she ever got sleepy from it. I let myself out. I wish I could have seen her when she woke up. I still have a copy of the key she lent me. I may go back and leave her some more sleeping powder. I just wish I could dump on her one more time. She'll think twice about banging behind a guy's back now.

2006-10-17 15:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I be my self or try to be like others?

2006-10-17 15:10:47 · 34 answers · asked by arlo_north 1

Im a 14 year year old guy. I like a 17 year old. we have been talkin a lot these last few weeks(about three), weve been on messenger and the phone together for hours at a time. all the time, she keeps tellin me about all these other guys who she "might like" and stuff like that. about a week ago, she told me that she thought of me as a brother. shes always tellin me that she doesnt have time for a bf just out of the blue, i dont know what to think. i really like her and i think that i am fallin for her. this happens to me all the time and every time i get hurt. i am reluctant to get into it again. should i say something to her? is she tryin to tell me something? this weekend, im goin bowling with her and a few friends, should i make my move?? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-10-17 15:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When it comes to making decisions, what do you use most? Your heart, your brain or your gut? I use a combination of my brain and heart....but mostly my heart.....and you guys?/gals?

2006-10-17 15:08:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that memory of First Love always remain?
whether ur in good/healthy relationship

2006-10-17 15:08:48 · 4 answers · asked by dilemma 2

2006-10-17 15:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by luvwbug 1

2006-10-17 15:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by L C 2