Does she like me?

Question

Im a 14 year year old guy. I like a 17 year old. we have been talkin a lot these last few weeks(about three), weve been on messenger and the phone together for hours at a time. all the time, she keeps tellin me about all these other guys who she "might like" and stuff like that. about a week ago, she told me that she thought of me as a brother. shes always tellin me that she doesnt have time for a bf just out of the blue, i dont know what to think. i really like her and i think that i am fallin for her. this happens to me all the time and every time i get hurt. i am reluctant to get into it again. should i say something to her? is she tryin to tell me something? this weekend, im goin bowling with her and a few friends, should i make my move?? PLEASE HELP!!!!

Answer 1

Sorry sweety, but welcome to the confusing world of girls....
She might be telling you all this stuff because she may think that you like her and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings if you ask her out or something. I've done this myself. I really do think that's what she's trying to tell you, but if you want to know for sure, you'll have to be up front with her and ask her how she feels about you. Or you can always ask one of your close friends to casually ask her how she feels about you....

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Slow down dude. It takes alot of courage to tell you she does not see you as a boyfriends. So she probably is trying to tell you that SHE IS NOT READY! Give her the time and space she really needs. She is probably a little bit relantunt because of the fact that your 3 years apart. If you really can't bear to lose her, try covincing her that you are mature and age does not matter. So, this happens most of the time right? Maybe you should really lay downfor a while and clear your thoughts. Maybe you'll be able to figure out why you keep fallin'. As for the weekend bowling, try not to sound desperate, friends as Í've always said are important, so don't lose this one!

Answer 4

ummm...well I don't think it really matters about age! BUt for some cases yeah, do you think she likes you? IF so, then let it all out! tell her how you feel! girls love guys with confidence. I'm only 13 and i know that! EVERY girl would look for a cute guy with a sparkling personality AND CONFIDENCE!!!! tell her how u feel. Hun, if she won't accept you, there are other fish in the sea. I'm pretty sure it'll work out though. seems like u have a pretty nice thing going on!!!

Answer 5

okay well .
if she says " i dont have time for a bf "
you know what she thinks .
the only reason a girl would say that is if she thinks you like her ;
she wouldnt say it out of the blue for no reason ; unless she really thinks of you as a really umm lets say ; best friend ?
im a girl ; and i should know . and like . maybe shes just leading you on . and yuh`re 14 ; you know you deserve better , but come on , love comes in different size and age .
so like .

i dont think a girl would really wanna date a underaged guy ; since shes 17 ; she should be experienced.

hope i helped . (:

Answer 6

see LOVE is not some thing which a girl friend only can give to a boy friend of same age.It can be between any souls.And u told she has already told u as a brother.Then instead of building up hopes in a wrong way u be a good promising brother.U convert that love to love which u give to ur sister.And be happy.Ur too young to think of all these things.

Answer 7

I think you should because then it would be too late.