Singles & Dating - 17 October 2006

I'm Elysium's friend. I'm 17 years old and i meet a guy also 17 when his gf was on holiday for 3 months (last year). He didn't tell me he has a gf (which, he later on said he lied coz he didnt want to lose me) He is dating the same girl but he's still also texting me. Meeting me, kissed several times and he says that he loves me.
I like him a lot too and i don't want to lose him. He's always telling me he's gonna break up with his gf soon. What shall i do???? I want him to leave her. I don't want to dump him. Eventhough on the other hand i know i'm not doing to right thing, it's just i love him.

2006-10-17 02:26:37 · 12 answers · asked by stargirl 3

I am a straight man, and I knew this guy 2 years ago. We've been closest friend until now, when he suddenly shows up as a gay. And he said he loves me. This thing is totally shock to me and just knock me down.
I don't know what to do. I don't feeling offence to gays or lesbians in general, but...I am straight and of course can't accept this. But feel really sad and don't know how to treat him from now on, bcoz we've been best friend and helped each other a lot.
What should I do? need answers from both boys, girls, and gays, lesbians as well. thx

2006-10-17 02:25:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This time last year i was happy with my 4mnth relationship till i got sadly dumped in feb.. I was really low n depressed after that because i was totally into him n he made me feel different to all my boyfriend in the past. He really broke my hart n he quickly moved forward n got with his ex flame just after we had finished.. I thought id never be with anyone ever again but a few mounths after i decided to start dating again.. Beein unhappy all the time really wasnt doin it for me.. Seens then iv been with 2 lads and for some strange reason i keep getting dumped!!! The 1st just wanted to spend all his time with his m8s and the 2nd just went rong for no apparant reason.. They seem keen n then they just randomly end it!!!!!! What the hecks goin on... Am really scared of getting hurt again but if this carrys on am just gunna b 2 scared to comit to anyone.....

2006-10-17 02:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some reasons

2006-10-17 02:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by rebel12 1

I was told by men I date that I am a stranger person!!
I am just straight with them, they like asking me too many questions and interfer in my life. I dont like that.
I am a sensitive girl I think thats the reason, but how can I stop being too sensitive. I managed to scare away many men last year, 2 last week :(

2006-10-17 02:24:34 · 9 answers · asked by Maria 2

2006-10-17 02:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey i need help ok there is this guy that likes me and he is very sweet but he just broke up with his gurlfriend like 2 weeks ago and that was his first gurl he has had sex with and i was wondering should i wait just a little but longer or should i go with him b/c i dont wont to be the rebound b/c i really like him and i dont wanna get hurt

2006-10-17 02:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been out with this guy, I know his "hang outs", he seems interested, maybe playing games a little bit, he lets me know when and where he's going but hasn't invited me a 2nd time, so tonight I plan on going to the bar I know he's going to be at with a couple of my friends, am I going to look like a pathetic loser, or will it make him see I'm really interested? Help please, I really like this guy and I think he likes me too, I just don't understand the head games.

2006-10-17 02:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by ohsouncertain 1

I was with my girl for over a year and recently we split up due to her infidelity. She told me the truth and seemed genuinly remorsful over the incident. Please take into account that she has real issues with committment, and her mother was pushing her to marry me. We agreed to split for now, so she could figure out what it is she truly wants. Since then I have heard from her family that she has been crying over the ordeal every day since we split. Her mother wants us to get back together saying that noone has ever treated her daughter as good as I have. I still love her yet, I am hesitant to jump back into a relationship with her. I want her back but, Im not sure what to do! Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-17 02:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Thanatos 1

single and looking for free dating sites with no credit card deposit etc

2006-10-17 02:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an 22 years old smart, slim, tall, young guy working as a waiter in the london city my job is such that i do communicate a lot with the people but its just that i can't talk to a beautiful girl in such way that i can get her i bed with mine pls help ----- sunny

2006-10-17 02:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by sunny0909 2

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination?

2006-10-17 02:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

In India ... I guess its normal thing , but the problem is am not sure I am a woman's man . I do have crushes etc...but still ... There are instants when I feel totally different from females , I dont share their aspirations or interests .
Like shopping chit chatting with neigbhour ... I dont like all these things and I am pretty shy human being . I never feel positive when I am with a woman , like wud she accept me , can I be fit for her sorta stuffs ...
Its a mixture of superiority and inferiority complex .
Mostly when I meet females I tend to think about the nubile factor and often I feel she is not my match and that put off my relationship with her . Its all SKEWED really , dont you think ? I feel so numb as a social being ...

All I want is please gimme some advice on being a normal person ...who is friendly with girls etc...

Has anyone had their sorta feelings? I wud be glad if you cud with me ur thoughts...

2006-10-17 02:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by WaterGuy 3

I want to get over him, but I can't because he lives RIGHT accross from me. I t is soooooooooo hard, his parking spot is right in front of mine too, so that when he is gone alllll night, and i have to leave for work at 6am, I see his car gone, and where else is he going to be alllllllll night, but over a woman's house. HELP! It is soooooooo hard to get over someone when they live right accross from you.

2006-10-17 02:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I know has been chasing me for years. We havent slept together, we have only kissed eachother. How can I tell if he really likes me and is not just chasing me to try and sleep with me?I ended my 6 year relationship a few months ago (not coz of this guy)so am not familiar with what signs to look out for!xxx

2006-10-17 02:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

know the girl is know for being sexually active and they alway pick them as their girlfriend whatsup with that what about the nice girl what about us!

2006-10-17 02:01:20 · 28 answers · asked by Stephanie I 1

my mum met this guy called dave and started dateing him for about 3 months afew years ago but it didnt work and now they are best friends.I go out to a nightclub with my friend and dave ,s son works there hes the same age as me 19 and he no,s iv been in a 4 and a half year relationship but im now not with him anymore .his dad said to my mum that he fancies me and my mum and his dad said we will all go out 2gether one time for a meal he said yes.my mum and i whent out with dave to the night club that chris works at and dave said to him are we still takeing jayne(mum) and melissa (me) out .he said yes so my mum said do you want to take my melissa on a date had he when bright red and told his dad to shut up.the night after i text his dad 2give him my nom and his dad text me back saying he will text 2moz but he didnt.so i text his dad to give me his nom and i text him saying hi and i text him about 5 times he only text me back 3times.do u think he likes me and what should i do please help

2006-10-17 01:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by melissababe000 1

Genuine men out there with a sense of humour? I have a feeling this is like asking the impossible!!

2006-10-17 01:55:24 · 34 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4

2006-10-17 01:52:56 · 27 answers · asked by SWM 1

I'm 26, and haven't had any girlfriend. what should i do to improve the situation?

2006-10-17 01:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 01:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by 1919 3

2006-10-17 01:45:22 · 26 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

last night was like the 4th time me and my gf have had sex, but im not sure what she likes, and everyone is telling me "ask her what she likes" well i have been doing that, like i will say what do u like or what feels good and she will say" i dont know" or i will say what can i do to make it better, and she is like, "i dont know" WTF!!!! is she seriously isnt helping out and in bed she just lays there, she has no idears of her own, and when i give her control she dosent know what to do , what can i do to make things better, or is this something that will get better over time???????????

2006-10-17 01:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by armorefelix 1

A guy was playing hard to get so the girl said she was giving up and wanted to go back to her old BF and he didn't want her too but still continue to play hard to get...he is 14..WTF

2006-10-17 01:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres This guy I really really really like. I am wondering if he likes me. I am to shy to ask but I think there are some signs there but I don't know if its just me wanting him so much. These are the things that I have noticed.
-We spend lots of time together(never use to)
-He has brought me flowers(for no reason)
-I will go over to his house to watch a movie and he will sit right next to me but he leans towards me.
-He touches me a lot when he is talking like on the arm or back
-He has come up behind me and started giving me a massage on my back for no reason
-He looks into my eyes a lot

I don't know if these are signs that he likes me or if I'm just kidding myself??????

2006-10-17 01:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by poohbear1978 3

2006-10-17 01:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by Judy L 4

2006-10-17 01:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 01:18:12 · 16 answers · asked by Bob M 1

so what the hell does it mean when you follow a girl all week in unexpected places obviously not in favor of your own schedual,and then you ask her "who the hell she is" even though she's never talked to you like ever.are you pissed at her or something?and then you tell her friends not to tell you who you are.

2006-10-17 01:13:44 · 23 answers · asked by Barbsss 1

I have urgly strech marks all over my thighs and bumthis hasnt been much of a problem coz i hide them in slacks, but recently, they have started developing on my upper arm. i have tried bio oil but its not working. any ideas what i can use to get rid of the? its a nightmare.
Thanx

2006-10-17 01:13:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous